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Shitty note from new Neighbours after moving in

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Laylamum2 · 25/11/2025 18:19

We moved house on Friday - have had a hectic few days trying to sort things and have this week off work thankfully.

There is one bathroom in the house and this is upstairs at the front of the house which faces our driveway. Next to the driveway is a neighbours house directly opposite.

The seller has taken all blinds out of the property as is their right and we’ve spent today putting some new ones up, including in the bathroom.

Yesterday, a note got put through our door:

”Get blinds for your bathroom, we don’t want to see you having a shit”

The window is frosted but I assume at night with the light on you can see in.

This was obviously from our neighbours opposite. AIBU to say they went about this in a rude way? They could have sent a politer note or knocked on the door.

OP posts:
Vaxtable · 25/11/2025 18:24

Ignore. How sad that they look out of windows all the time! I don’t look outside mine to see what neighbours are doing when it’s dark outside

randomchap · 25/11/2025 18:24

Only shit with the windows open and make inappropriate grunts, like you're trying to pass a melon

ItsABarbecueShowdown · 25/11/2025 18:24

I agree with ignoring them because it will drive them more mad.

Nor would I particularly care what they did and did not want to see.

olivietolivie · 25/11/2025 18:23

Laugh as you put the note in the bin and carry on with your life.

Tobacco · 25/11/2025 18:23

Yeah they sound like rude twats.

Largestlegocollectionever · 25/11/2025 18:22

What a horrible welcome note, I’m sorry some people are such shitheads! Just ignore it

Doggielovecharlotte · 25/11/2025 18:22

Dreadful behaviour!

YodasHairyButt · 25/11/2025 18:21

Completely ignore them, it’ll drive them nuts.

CarefullyCuratedFurniture · 25/11/2025 18:21

Anonymous notes are only written by nutters, and thus go straight in the bin. Dont give it another thought.

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