So me and this guy have been talking nonstop for two weeks straight. He initially reached out to me and the conversation progressed from there. At first he was double texting me and replying back instantly. We also talked on the phone twice for three hours straight, so it’s been a lot communication very quickly. He brought up seeing me several times. A week goes by and he asks me when I’m free to meet I tell him that I wanted to get my hair done before. He jokingly said “screw your hair, I don’t want to wait until next year to see you”. I finally agreed he suggested we go out for food the next day but he said he understood if it was too short of notice.
I told him that I was free first day of the next week, we go over different food places but never agreed on a spot or an exact time. He asked me if I was going out and jokingly says “are you coming to see me”. So for the sounds of it, sounds like someone who wants to meet up?
a couple days before we were supposed to go out his texts responses slow down to hours… which is fine just a shift observation. The night before the day we were supposed to meet his text slow down even more and there were no talks about our plans. Yes I could have brought it up, yet he was so eager to meet, I feel like he should be able to take the lead. The day comes when we’re supposed to meet he texts me good morning, then asks if the day still worked or if I wanted to wait longer? I told him that the day works. He then sends me this long voice message explaining that the day can work but there’s a misshaped? Said that he had a family urgent matter that he has to take care of and that he could still see me but it would just be later in the day, but he didn’t want to give me the time or place ?
I told him that family comes first and that we can always reschedule and that he doesn’t need to worry about it. He responded hours later saying “yeah just don’t want to be flaky and running around”….
That was it? Not that bothered by it because it was only two weeks of constant talking… yet is it weird or crazy for me to be a little confused?