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Big fall out - who is (most) in the wrong?

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Dibrew · 24/11/2025 17:37

I would welcome opinions on this situation which is currently playing out.

Person A is a masseuse, working part time evenings out of a leisure centre attached to a secondary school.

Person A told Person B that she had terminated a session with the male partner of Person C. Person A doesn’t know Person C, but she knows Person B is friends with them.

Person B tells Person C of what was said by Person A. The session was terminated due to him offering money towards the end of this for sexual services.

Person C’s partner strongly denies this. Person C accuses Person A of breaking data protection rules and says Person B is attempting to shit stir.

OP posts:
Octavia64 · 24/11/2025 17:39

I don’t see what data protection has to do with this.

ultimately this will be his word against the masseuse and he will obviously lie if he did so no way to get to the truth.

if it had happened to me I’d be appalled.

Isadora2007 · 24/11/2025 17:38

Person A is in beach of confidentiality as she should not have identified her client to person B.