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Dogs are much more loved by society than cats

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Avocad1sh · 24/11/2025 14:21

I was just watching For Dogs Sake with Pete Wicks and Dogs Trust and realised there isn’t anything like this for cats. This is the second season and there’s also been For the Love of Dogs, plus that channel 4 programme The Doghouse and probably loads more that I haven’t seen.

I never see anything like this for cats… I think Jo Brand did one years ago but other than that, where are all of the heartwarming shows about cats needing homes?

I also notice that when I tell people I have 2 cats, a lot of them say “ugh I hate cats” yet when I say I have a dog no one ever tells me they hate dogs. I feel like there’s this almost over the top love of dogs sometimes where people treat them like babies, whereas cats seem to be hated on a lot or seen as the inferior pet. (In general of course! I know there’s many many cat lovers out there)

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BettysRoasties · 24/11/2025 16:37

It’s true if you say you don’t like dogs or are not keen they act like you’ve just kicked their puppy.

Say you hate cats and you’ll get agreement and 10 ways to stop them entering your garden including hurting them.

Let’s face it if both animals roam free dogs would cause more issues.

Cats kill birds.
Domesticated dogs kill sheep, cats, rabbits, foxes and people. How much worse would a pack of undomesticated dogs be.

Cat shit in people’s garden.
Dogs would also shit where ever.

dogs have owners.
cats have slaves.

OonaStubbs · 24/11/2025 16:37

Neither cats nor dogs are indigenous to these islands. They should both be banned. I like cats but I'd put up with them being banned if it meant no more dogs.

Purplebunnie · 24/11/2025 16:31

I've seen cats on camp sites and I know someone who takes their cat with them in their caravan and when they had to live in another country for a couple of years the cat also went. A very well travelled moggy!

There are various videos on YouTube of people taking their cats to the beach, cats swimming in the sea; also taking them hiking.

I like dogs and always thought I would own one but I really can't scoop the poop whilst out walking ergo I can't have a dog

I don't find scooping out of a dirt tray and cleaning up after my neighbours cat who regularly used to poop in my garden as vomit inducing as thinking about having to put my hand inside a bag and you know the rest

Pistachiocake · 24/11/2025 16:24

I suppose it's because dogs are vital for society in terms of guide dogs, police dogs, dogs who support in hospitals and schools etc-though in older books they mention school cats. Probably for mouse control, in those days. But then, for some people, cats are emotional support animals, and whatever helps the person is what's best for them, so I support everyone's right to their own choice of pet. While agreeing that your statement might be broadly true, there's lots of love for cats too.

Snugglemonkey · 24/11/2025 16:20

Fruitfiddler · 24/11/2025 14:47

On people not liking cats, it's quite possibly as simple as many people don't like cats because they don't like picking up their neighbours cat shit from their back garden where their kids play, or dealing with the remains of dead birds after the neighbours cat has killed it on their lawn.

By and large, your neighbours dogs aren't shitting in your back garden or leaving the remains of dead birds on your patio.

Those are the reasons I don't like cats anyway (despite currently having one).

This is why I do not like outside cats. I don't dislike cats though. I love my own!

NuffSaidSam · 24/11/2025 16:16

mondaytosunday · 24/11/2025 16:06

There are approx 13.5m dogs and 12.5m cats in the UK. So it’s not that dogs vastly outnumber cats. And as @GasperyJacquesRobertspoints out, dogs react, cats judge.
My mother didn’t like cats, in her childhood cats were kept in the barns to control rats. Plus she was suspicious - that witch/evil connection is pretty ingrained. Dogs are pretty easy to read. Cats are not. One suspects that while a dog will pine for its master should they die, a cat will just flick its tail and wander off to the next comfy lap. Plus that weird staring at the wall thing - what’s that about??
(Full disclosure I have two of each).

I wonder how that translates to owners/households though. I think you're more likely to have multiple cats than dogs so in terms of people who have cats/dogs there could actually be a bigger difference.

NuffSaidSam · 24/11/2025 16:11

Comedycook · 24/11/2025 16:03

Agree totally....

I hear loads of people say they prefer dogs to actual human babies...what utter weirdos...does any other species apart from humans actually prefer a totally different species over its own young?

A lot of other species (including cats and dogs) eat their young so it's not a great comparison tbh.

ringoutsolsticebells · 24/11/2025 16:08

I have 3 cats and 2 dogs. The cats were in situ when the dogs arrived as puppies a year apart. I quite simply love the dogs more than I love the cats. I DO love my cats but I can understand why dogs are loved more

mondaytosunday · 24/11/2025 16:06

There are approx 13.5m dogs and 12.5m cats in the UK. So it’s not that dogs vastly outnumber cats. And as @GasperyJacquesRobertspoints out, dogs react, cats judge.
My mother didn’t like cats, in her childhood cats were kept in the barns to control rats. Plus she was suspicious - that witch/evil connection is pretty ingrained. Dogs are pretty easy to read. Cats are not. One suspects that while a dog will pine for its master should they die, a cat will just flick its tail and wander off to the next comfy lap. Plus that weird staring at the wall thing - what’s that about??
(Full disclosure I have two of each).

Comedycook · 24/11/2025 16:03

TheRealMagic · 24/11/2025 15:55

Incidentally I have no thoughts about people who either like or dislike dogs or cats. People who say they like dogs more than people scare me, though, because what they mean is 'I prefer interactions where the other party is unconditionally obedient and has no real agency'.

Agree totally....

I hear loads of people say they prefer dogs to actual human babies...what utter weirdos...does any other species apart from humans actually prefer a totally different species over its own young?

Jasmin71 · 24/11/2025 16:01

Dogs were domesticated. Cats domesticated themselves. Some people love both. Some people have a strong preference for cats, some dogs. I agree that dogs are favoured in general in the UK.

I happen to be terrified of them. But, there we are then.

Fionasapples · 24/11/2025 15:58

I agree, it seems to be acceptable to dislike cats but if I say I don't like dogs, it doesn't go down very well. I love cats, they make me laugh with their independence and their bossiness. I find dogs really annoying (with the exception of labradors).

FlashyAndShiny · 24/11/2025 15:56

And there is plenty of reason for it to be the case, OP. Dogs not wander into neighbours’ gardens or even slip into open doors, exploring spaces that aren’t theirs.
So yeah... OP, there is no smoke without fire.

Kimura · 24/11/2025 15:56

I wish mild inconvenience on every cat I come across.

TheRealMagic · 24/11/2025 15:55

Incidentally I have no thoughts about people who either like or dislike dogs or cats. People who say they like dogs more than people scare me, though, because what they mean is 'I prefer interactions where the other party is unconditionally obedient and has no real agency'.

WallaceinAnderland · 24/11/2025 15:55

MySilentLions · 24/11/2025 15:50

Cats don’t give the unconditional love, loyalty and entertainment of dogs. They claw you, ignore you, kill birds and small animals and leave them in your house. And shit in gardens of people who don’t have cats. Ugh.

Most cat owners will admit their cat can be a bit of a bastard.

You don't get that with dog owners, it's all he's friendly, he's just playing, he won't bite you probably

Stressedoutmummyof3 · 24/11/2025 15:54

I love cats. I like dogs too but cats are my favourite. Both our cats died last year and I miss having them sleeping on my lap or running up the path when I got home (they were very affectionate especially the male).
DH is less keen and doesn't really want anymore pets so we probably won't get another one.
I'd like to see something about cats. I don't know if dogs are that popular,, most of our neighbours have no pets or cats.

TheRealMagic · 24/11/2025 15:54

Like others I think dogs just make much better TV - but there are plenty of cat shelters and charities in real life, and plenty of cat lovers. There is a reason that 'crazy cat lady' is a stereotype!

MySilentLions · 24/11/2025 15:52

ReleaseTheEpsteinFiles · 24/11/2025 14:52

I can't stand dogs. Once you are open about this, many people 'admit' they don't like dogs either - it's like you're not allowed to say it because you're a horrible person if you don't like dogs, which is of course not a correlation.

I think many people don't like dogs, but those that do take it upon themselves to brainwash society into liking dogs and making us think that not liking dogs is a character flaw.

All the dog-promoting crap is an agenda to that purpose. Cats don't need this propaganda at all.

That's why we have so many dog-promoting, brain-washing cartoons, like Paw Patrol and 101 Dalmations and Scooby Do, and Droopy and Snoopy and Bluey.

That’s a bit conspiracy theory tin foil hat territory Grin brain washing? 😂 I think the cartoons followed the reality of people loving dogs, rather than creating it.

AllPlayedOut · 24/11/2025 15:51

MySilentLions · 24/11/2025 15:50

Cats don’t give the unconditional love, loyalty and entertainment of dogs. They claw you, ignore you, kill birds and small animals and leave them in your house. And shit in gardens of people who don’t have cats. Ugh.

I’ve had dozens of cats and they can be just as affectionate as dogs.They have such different personalities. My own dog is lovely but only affectionate on his terms and that’s perfectly fine. I don’t feel the need to be fawned over constantly.

LondonLady1980 · 24/11/2025 15:50

NuffSaidSam · 24/11/2025 15:45

I hate dogs in jackets - they look like wankers.

😂

😂😂😂😂

Every time I see a dog in a coat I inwardly chuckle.

You don’t see cats walking around the streets in jackets when it’s a bit chilly or there’s a bit of rain do you?! 😂

Cats are Hard Core, they’re the Real Deal.

MySilentLions · 24/11/2025 15:50

Cats don’t give the unconditional love, loyalty and entertainment of dogs. They claw you, ignore you, kill birds and small animals and leave them in your house. And shit in gardens of people who don’t have cats. Ugh.

Dragonscaledaisy · 24/11/2025 15:48

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 24/11/2025 15:04

I saw a meme that said people hate cats for the same reason men hate women - they have boundaries and want you to respect them.

I have no respect for them because they're dim.

LondonLady1980 · 24/11/2025 15:47

Most dogs are a total pain in the arse (to everyone except their family of course)….. but I LOVE cats!!!! They are so, so, so adorable and lovely and wonderful ❤️❤️❤️

NuffSaidSam · 24/11/2025 15:45

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 24/11/2025 15:32

I hate dogs.
I hate walking my kids around and having to tell them not to go near big dogs...
I hate stepping in dog shit all the fucking time.
I hate having random dogs bound up to me and get mud all up me only to be told 'oh he's only playing...' fine, I'll smear mud up your legs and say Im only playing....
I hate people cooing over dogs, letting them lick their faces with their butt-lick-tongues.
I hate dog food - it stinks.
I hate dog hair - your house stinks.
I hate dogs in restaurant & pubs - It's filthy having animals around food.
I hate dogs in jackets - they look like wankers.
I hate people yelling at their dogs - shut up! Im here too and this space could be peaceful.

I love cats.

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I hate dogs in jackets - they look like wankers.

😂

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