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What are your thoughts on Cynthia Erico’s and Ariana Grande’s behaviour?

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Graceey · 22/11/2025 12:01

Obviously this is just light hearted gossip. They’re doing no harm.

But I absolutely fascinated by Ariana’s and Cynthia’s odd behaviour during the press tour for Wicked. They seem extremely close with one another. But I hate to say it comes across very contrived.

Ariana looks and acts like a fragile doll these days. In stark contrast to her previous pop star persona. And Cynthia has seemingly decided to play the role of her protector. It’s all very strange.

They have both lost a lot of weight. But what on Earth has happened to these two during filming?

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nyfz2Uz9oI0&pp=ygUSY3ludGhpYSBhbmQgYXJpYW5h

This thread won’t be for everyone. But some of like to discuss the psychological aspects of behaviour. It’s obviously pure speculation

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HermioneWeasley · 22/11/2025 12:14

They both look manifestly ill. This isn’t about “judging other women for their choices” it is stating fact and it’s a horrendous example to put in front of their female target audience

whether all the gushing is genuine or a role they’ve decided to play to kill the inevitable stoking of rivalry between 2 female leads, I have no idea. It is odd. You can be positive about your co star without clinging to them.

PumpkinTwistyWindToots · 22/11/2025 12:14

I think that Cynthia Erivo comes across as quite hippy dippy intense and has attached to Ariana Grande for some reason - romantic attraction, caregiving impulse or cynical career building - in a way that is beyond normal friendship. Ariana seems nonplussed by some of her behaviour but she's going along with it, I would guess because she's a weaker personality being dominated by a stronger one. The intense weight loss is scary, and Michelle Yeoh has also lost a lot of weight during filming. There is some competitive skinniness going on and some weird codependent folie a deux stuff. Now the filming and promotion is nearly over I expect they will stop spending so much time together and it will get less intense.

Graceey · 22/11/2025 12:14

nomas · 22/11/2025 12:12

YABU, there is already a current long thread about this, do we really need another one criticising women.

Edited

Discussion and criticism are two separate things. I’m genuinely interested in their dynamic.

Please can you share the thread. I searched for one but nothing came up.

edit: I see the thread. I didn’t read it as the title doesn’t mention Cynthia/Ariana.

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Hoardasurass · 22/11/2025 12:12

Arianna Grande is clearly very unwell and under weight she should be getting medical help not going on press tours

nomas · 22/11/2025 12:12

YABU, there is already a current long thread about this, do we really need another one criticising women.

Fruitfiddler · 22/11/2025 12:10

I find it all quite odd and slightly uncomfortable as they seem quite reliant on each other in a way I don’t think it’s entirely ‘normal’ for two adults to be. My DDs, who are the films target market, find it uncomfortable to watch and one of them described their weight as ‘anorexic’ which rings true as someone who has battled a food disorder.

I haven’t watched the video you linked. But I think whatever is going on, it’s very sad and very worrying.

It may, of course, be nothing and all for the cameras but the way they act together combined with their weight and overall demeanour is not normal for two adults and strays into the territory of them being bad role models.

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