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Who are people who find Christmas offensive

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Blopi · 22/11/2025 06:43

It really boils my piss when organisations curtail Christmas stuff as it may offend people.

Who are these people who find Christmas offensive? In my life I have worked and met people from various religions, cultures and countries. NOT one found Christmas and things that go with it. I didn’t work with Jehovah Witnesses but they don’t get offended. Most said they decorated their homes, wore Xmas jumpers and ate food which was suitable or tailored to their religion. Those who didn’t decorate their homes love seeing trees lit up.

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Delphiniumandlupins · 22/11/2025 11:25

HPFA · 22/11/2025 08:34

It's shocking in my local Tesco.

Alongside the masses of Christmas puddings and cakes they actually have a few other things like mini syrup sponges and chocolate bombes, presumably as "alternatives".

It's just woke nonsense to indulge any refusal to eat traditional Christmas fare. Pathetic people who plead "but I just don't really like dried fruit" should be force fed currants and sultanas for the whole of Advent.

My local Tesco actually stock a wide range of vegetables in December. Any sensible person would be eating carrots and brussel sprouts! Possibly parsnips and red cabbage but nobody needs broccoli etc. My granny never ate broccoli in December.

GagMeWithASpoon · 22/11/2025 11:23

Purplebunnie · 22/11/2025 11:21

Yep OH is an astronomer

I actually want to know more now! Maybe you should do an AMA about it.

MrsSkylerWhite · 22/11/2025 11:22

MasterBeth · 22/11/2025 11:21

I mean, this is a stupid tangent that has nothing to do with anyone banning anything.

There will be plenty of councils of all political hues who can no longer fund Christmas lights when 10 or 20 years ago they could.

This. It’s lack of funding, plain and simple.

GagMeWithASpoon · 22/11/2025 11:22

Citylady88 · 22/11/2025 11:08

Can you give us actual examples?

The phrase Happy Holidays is very much an Americanisation not anything 'woke'.

I've also just looked up Christmas cakes on Tesco & there's a whole section with Christmas all over it for example a new product called Christmas Cupcake platter, as well as some products called what they are like fruit,gingerbread, apple etc. I assume many of those are products they'll sell more broadly throughout the Winter months & not just the run up to Christmas.

And the Americans have been using it since the 1860s. Back then , they weren’t exactly paragons of virtue or wokeness , were they ?

SuffolkBargeWoman · 22/11/2025 11:22

patooties · 22/11/2025 11:20

Basically - racists pretending to be patriots say crap like this to make others feel they need to ‘get their country back’.
please don’t fall for this nonsense.

THIS

Hedgehogbrown · 22/11/2025 11:22

Blopi · 22/11/2025 09:20

Normally I can Google better results (ie more recent)

One thing I hate is the phrase Happy Holidays.

Does anyone ever say that in the UK?

MasterBeth · 22/11/2025 11:21

Ivelostmyglasses · 22/11/2025 11:17

It is a result of the action and policy of the Reform Kent Council.
Again, based on factual evidence in this thread so far:
Council Christmas lights stopped by the action of the woke= 0
Council Christmas lights stopped by the action of Reform=1

I mean, this is a stupid tangent that has nothing to do with anyone banning anything.

There will be plenty of councils of all political hues who can no longer fund Christmas lights when 10 or 20 years ago they could.

Conkersinautumn · 22/11/2025 11:21

It's a pretty small part of my life. But I'm happy to piss off anyone going on about its Christian significance. Same old symbolic appropriation that all religions like to indulge in. Some people do love to get irritated. All about fitting in with who they want to fit in with.

Purplebunnie · 22/11/2025 11:21

GagMeWithASpoon · 22/11/2025 11:17

Do you often organise things by the astronomical calendar?

Yep OH is an astronomer

patooties · 22/11/2025 11:20

Basically - racists pretending to be patriots say crap like this to make others feel they need to ‘get their country back’.
please don’t fall for this nonsense.

GagMeWithASpoon · 22/11/2025 11:17

Purplebunnie · 22/11/2025 11:12

Astronomical winter is 21 December so a month away. Winter does not start on 1 December

Do you often organise things by the astronomical calendar?

Ivelostmyglasses · 22/11/2025 11:17

MrsSkylerWhite · 22/11/2025 11:08

It’s not a ban. It just doesn’t have any money.

It is a result of the action and policy of the Reform Kent Council.
Again, based on factual evidence in this thread so far:
Council Christmas lights stopped by the action of the woke= 0
Council Christmas lights stopped by the action of Reform=1

Mothership4two · 22/11/2025 11:15

@LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway

It's not made up nonsense either. If they are being honest, everyone alive in this country, knows of at least 3 or 4 councils who have banned Christmas signs, and schools that have nonsensical 'plays' in mid December

Hand on heart have never come across it during my decades in this country. Other than on here or right wing media

sleepwouldbenice · 22/11/2025 11:13

Celestialmoods · 22/11/2025 06:54

No one is offended at the existence of Christmas. What makes you think they are?

This

Purplebunnie · 22/11/2025 11:12

GagMeWithASpoon · 22/11/2025 11:09

A week before, is close enough to winter.

Astronomical winter is 21 December so a month away. Winter does not start on 1 December

CrystalSingerFan · 22/11/2025 11:12

Well... Googling this topic, I learned that: "on a smaller scale, some atheist and skeptic groups celebrate Newtonmas on December 25th as a secular alternative."

So for the 'Bah Humbug'/'I'm offended, me'... brigade, I give you the British Humanist Happy Newtonmas card. (Please can any mathematicians around explain the mathematical symbols? It's a bit subtle for me...)

https://humanists.uk/shop/newtonmas-christmas-card/

Newtonmas Christmas Card

Our festive cards are folded to A6 or A5 and come in packs of 10, including envelopes. The cards are blank inside, and have some information about the design and Humanists UK on the reverse.

https://humanists.uk/shop/newtonmas-christmas-card/

Mothership4two · 22/11/2025 11:11

Purplebunnie · 22/11/2025 11:04

https://www.seas.org.uk/winter-fair/

Yes it's not actually Christmas so fair enough to call it something else but it's not Winter either so it is in fact an Autumn fair, but that wouldn't draw the crowds in would it once past Bonfire Night

And no I didn't go looking for something, DH was told about a Christmas Market and we thought we'd go tomorrow so I was checking the gate price

I don't believe those of other faiths have any issues whatsoever but here is an example that might get some people riled up

Edited

On first page:

The Winter Fair really is the perfect way to get into the festive spirit and kick off your Christmas preparations.

And it starts in November

GagMeWithASpoon · 22/11/2025 11:09

Purplebunnie · 22/11/2025 11:04

https://www.seas.org.uk/winter-fair/

Yes it's not actually Christmas so fair enough to call it something else but it's not Winter either so it is in fact an Autumn fair, but that wouldn't draw the crowds in would it once past Bonfire Night

And no I didn't go looking for something, DH was told about a Christmas Market and we thought we'd go tomorrow so I was checking the gate price

I don't believe those of other faiths have any issues whatsoever but here is an example that might get some people riled up

Edited

A week before, is close enough to winter.

Citylady88 · 22/11/2025 11:08

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 22/11/2025 11:00

It's not made up nonsense either. If they are being honest, everyone alive in this country, knows of at least 3 or 4 councils who have banned Christmas signs, and schools that have nonsensical 'plays' in mid December, that don't include the word 'Christmas,' or have anything to do with the Nativity.

Edited

Can you give us actual examples?

The phrase Happy Holidays is very much an Americanisation not anything 'woke'.

I've also just looked up Christmas cakes on Tesco & there's a whole section with Christmas all over it for example a new product called Christmas Cupcake platter, as well as some products called what they are like fruit,gingerbread, apple etc. I assume many of those are products they'll sell more broadly throughout the Winter months & not just the run up to Christmas.

MrsSkylerWhite · 22/11/2025 11:08

Ivelostmyglasses · 22/11/2025 10:55

Actually there is one-Kent, under Reform. No Christmas lights in Harrietsham as a result of Reform action and policy.

It’s not a ban. It just doesn’t have any money.

Blizzardofleaves · 22/11/2025 11:07

There are some that take exception to it op, and I have heard them first hand, as they claim that the U.K. isn’t Christian any longer and Christmas shouldn’t be more important/bigger than other religious festivals.

I also know of people triggered by Christmas and certain songs due to childhood trauma.

We will always enjoy a huge Christmas here as culturally it’s the highlight of the winter for British society. Not everyone has to join in.

Ivelostmyglasses · 22/11/2025 11:06

ilovesooty · 22/11/2025 10:56

In some cases it's apparently because of the flags, which they can't afford to remove.

Yep it is. So far no one has been able to name a Council who has actually banned Christmas lights, but the actions of a Reform council means at least one Parish won't have them (although they are still paying for them).
So far, based on evidence:
Christmas lights stopped by the woke=0
Christmas lights stopped by Reform = 1

GagMeWithASpoon · 22/11/2025 11:06

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 22/11/2025 11:00

It's not made up nonsense either. If they are being honest, everyone alive in this country, knows of at least 3 or 4 councils who have banned Christmas signs, and schools that have nonsensical 'plays' in mid December, that don't include the word 'Christmas,' or have anything to do with the Nativity.

Edited

We had one of those plays last year. The person who normally does the plays was off on long term sick , so the person covering picked a random thing off BBC because it came with everything needed , it was free, was suitable for the number of children and it kept the “tradition “ of musical plays. The main thought behind it was “easy, quick, doesn’t add to my stupidly high already workload”.

Mothership4two · 22/11/2025 11:05

@Smilesinthesunshine

as a previous poster pointed out both sides are wrong

Every time someone posts evidence it's shot down in flames and shown to be incorrect. Previous poster is wrong.

MasterBeth · 22/11/2025 11:05

LikeWhoUsesTypewritersAnyway · 22/11/2025 11:00

It's not made up nonsense either. If they are being honest, everyone alive in this country, knows of at least 3 or 4 councils who have banned Christmas signs, and schools that have nonsensical 'plays' in mid December, that don't include the word 'Christmas,' or have anything to do with the Nativity.

Edited

Name just one of these councils.