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Who are people who find Christmas offensive

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Blopi · 22/11/2025 06:43

It really boils my piss when organisations curtail Christmas stuff as it may offend people.

Who are these people who find Christmas offensive? In my life I have worked and met people from various religions, cultures and countries. NOT one found Christmas and things that go with it. I didn’t work with Jehovah Witnesses but they don’t get offended. Most said they decorated their homes, wore Xmas jumpers and ate food which was suitable or tailored to their religion. Those who didn’t decorate their homes love seeing trees lit up.

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CaptainMyCaptain · 22/11/2025 08:48

PollyBell · 22/11/2025 06:45

Has anyone actually ever been offended or is it just people bleating about it?

Mainly this.

I worked with a Jewish teacher who didn't like taking part in Christmas events at school but did what she had to do and Jehovah's Witness parents who want their child removed from anything around Christmas which was quite difficult. Some took their children out of school for a holiday in the last couple of weeks of term but I don't know if they'd be able to do that now. I've never had Muslim parents raise any objection and they have been quite happy to see their little girls dressed as angels.

orangemapleleaves · 22/11/2025 08:47

I can't stand the phrase "boils my piss." I don't think anyone tries to ban Christams. I do sometimes refer to "the holiday season" as I live in a multicultural country and a more general phrase acknowledges that not everyone celebrates Christmas but we all relax and rest. But there's no banning it.

Miffylou · 22/11/2025 08:44

Which organisations do you know have done or are proposing to do this? I’ve never come across any.

TulipTuesday · 22/11/2025 08:43

Allswellthatendswelll · 22/11/2025 07:22

Yes we had "not Easter eggs" as well this year didn't we. As night follows day...

You’ve reminded me of the time DH came home saying that a colleague had told him Easter eggs weren’t allowed to be called that anymore. He wanted to check DS’s eggs (he’s 20, but too old for eggs)

Sure enough they all said Easter on the box.
DH is not usually so gullible but DS and I had a good laugh and proceeded to call them ‘spherical holiday chocolate’ until they’d all been eaten.

onlymethen · 22/11/2025 08:43

Aweekoffwork · 22/11/2025 07:12

Tesco are not selling :

Xmas trees - they’re selling Evergreen Trees
Xmas cake - they’re selling Iced Top Fruit Cake

Well I’ve just googled Tesco and they definitely say “Christmas Trees” why don’t you check yourself.

GeneralPeter · 22/11/2025 08:43

Luxio · 22/11/2025 08:28

I don't think it's a huge claim to be fair. No one has ever shown any proof that it's been banned. Moving towards a more generic greeting or categorising a group of events occuring in winter as a winter festival doesn't mean Christmas has been banned.

If someone provides any proof I will happily change my opinion but until then I maintain it's accurate to say it has never happened.

Depends what you mean by 'banned'. In a widespread way, obviously not, no. I'm certainly not claiming it has been.

The claim is usually about orgs changing how they term things. I'd be amazed if not a single org ever has told their staff to avoid saying Christmas.

We're getting a bit off-topic here, but I maintain that in almost everything to do with human society 'not one instance ever' is a huge claim. At least for things where the population is enormous (all orgs, of any size, at any point in history). The obvious reply is your one, i.e. well find one instance then, but that only works if we can search all instances. But clearly this isn't one of those cases.

Funnywonder · 22/11/2025 08:42

I have never come across a single person who was offended by Christmas or by the use of the word Christmas. But I’ve come across a lot of people claiming that this is the case. Usually if you ignore them for long enough they go away.

visionpools · 22/11/2025 08:41

Lifelover16 · 22/11/2025 08:06

I can give an example.
Birmingham City Council.
The Christmas Market in the city ( rubbish though it is) is now officially called the Winter Market.
The Christmas lights in the town flash “ Happy Holidays”
iThere must be some very offended councillors.

You’re talking an insane amount of bollocks. I was there last weekend, it literally says Birmingham Christmas Market on ever sign and the menu’s are even Christmas Menu’s. Where have you got this rubbish from?.

CautiousLurker2 · 22/11/2025 08:40

Think it’s DEI peeps in these organisations. My University seem to have had no issue with posting on Divali etc, but we are apparently closing for the ‘Winter Festival’. So, the cultural sensitivity seems to only go one way.

This annoys me because I was raised in a mixed faith household - dad muslim, but LOVES Christmas. It was always a big thing in my house, so I don’t understand why all of a sudden it’s culturally insensitive to refer to it as Christmas!

Leaveittogod · 22/11/2025 08:39

When I lived in Dubai they had Christmas decorations everywhere!

JLou08 · 22/11/2025 08:39

It's just a lie created by the bigots. I've worked with people from different cultures and religions, they all get involved with the Christmas traditions, helping decorate the office, Christmas works meal, secret santa.

AgnesX · 22/11/2025 08:38

In some organisations Christmas has kind of been rebranded but it's to cover various religious events, not that they're anti Christmas. Everyone I've ever met who's of a different faith has celebrated something.

My experience is of multi nationals for whom Happy Holidays covers a multitude on a corporate level.

bigboykitty · 22/11/2025 08:37

ilovesooty · 22/11/2025 08:36

It'll be Easter next. Regular as clockwork.

Seasonal egg, anyone?

ilovesooty · 22/11/2025 08:36

HeadNorth · 22/11/2025 08:27

Oh - has the manfactured culture war outrage calendar moved on from poppy rage to 'they are banning christmas'? I love the warming glow of seasonal confected outrage - 'tis the season

It'll be Easter next. Regular as clockwork.

HPFA · 22/11/2025 08:34

It's shocking in my local Tesco.

Alongside the masses of Christmas puddings and cakes they actually have a few other things like mini syrup sponges and chocolate bombes, presumably as "alternatives".

It's just woke nonsense to indulge any refusal to eat traditional Christmas fare. Pathetic people who plead "but I just don't really like dried fruit" should be force fed currants and sultanas for the whole of Advent.

Mothership4two · 22/11/2025 08:34

GeneralPeter · 22/11/2025 08:23

It’s a huge claim to make that anything literally never happened.

Anyway, I’m not here to fight on either side here. But yes, many organisations have moved toward more generic greetings and namings, sometimes alongside continuing to use Christmas too. And many orgs continue to say Christmas as they always have done. So both sides get their fun.

It’s a huge claim to make that anything literally never happened

I was assuming that posters would have enough commonsense to understand I meant in recent times in the UK* as that's what is brought up and not going back to the Puritan ban in 1644.

Despite the frothing no-one is ever able to show any evidence of a ban.

*apparently sometimes cited as occurring in other Western counties too

ilovesooty · 22/11/2025 08:33

TidyCyan · 22/11/2025 08:05

Oh my god, someone here fell for the Tesco trees story 😂. Disappointed but not surprised.

It gave the Reform type people a chance to sneer at woke lefties and get on their soapbox.

CarpetSlipper · 22/11/2025 08:30

My parents read the Daily Mail and I can clearly remember them talking about “PC gone mad” and the word Christmas being banned when I was a child. I’m nearly 40 and Christmas still hasn’t been cancelled. It’s divisive shite.

MinorEarthMajorClouds · 22/11/2025 08:30

In the last few years the company I work for has switched from using Christmas to words like Festive, winter and holidays for internal staff events and communications around Christmas. So, I think this stuff does happen on a small scale but it’s just misguided DEI not some big conspiracy.
Both sides need to calm down, yes the word Christmas is sometimes swapped for another word, no it’s not because it’s been banned or because people are offended.

JamesClyman · 22/11/2025 08:28

bigboykitty · 22/11/2025 06:48

Oh not this shite again...

Come on! It's an annual ritual. Like moaning when the clocks go back/forward.

Luxio · 22/11/2025 08:28

GeneralPeter · 22/11/2025 08:23

It’s a huge claim to make that anything literally never happened.

Anyway, I’m not here to fight on either side here. But yes, many organisations have moved toward more generic greetings and namings, sometimes alongside continuing to use Christmas too. And many orgs continue to say Christmas as they always have done. So both sides get their fun.

I don't think it's a huge claim to be fair. No one has ever shown any proof that it's been banned. Moving towards a more generic greeting or categorising a group of events occuring in winter as a winter festival doesn't mean Christmas has been banned.

If someone provides any proof I will happily change my opinion but until then I maintain it's accurate to say it has never happened.

OmNomShiva · 22/11/2025 08:28

I think this is just another creeping Americanisation. For a long time in the US they have used terms like “Happy Holidays” to cover a long festive period from Thanksgiving to Christmas - including Hannukah. So the term has been generalised.

In the UK we absorb and adopt lot of US culture, and those ranting about “creeping Islamification” never seem to worry about creeping Americanisation. In fact many of those people continually appeal to Donald Trump !

And the outrage is entirely manufactured. On social media, it seems like the idiot army learn what today’s outrage is (oh no Tesco evergreen trees) and all go nuts posting about that. Next day - new outrage for them to sheepishly grift about.

Candystripes85 · 22/11/2025 08:28

Aweekoffwork · 22/11/2025 07:12

Tesco are not selling :

Xmas trees - they’re selling Evergreen Trees
Xmas cake - they’re selling Iced Top Fruit Cake

I don’t understand where this Tesco crap has come from. It’s the style of the tree. Evergreen tree (green), Snowy tree (you guessed it has fake snow on it). It’s so people who want a green tree know what’s inside the box and don’t accidentally buy one with snow on it. All shops have been doing this for years so customer know the difference between the types. Asda are also naming their trees this way btw, I saw them yesterday but no one is gunning for them for some reason.

UsernameMcUsername · 22/11/2025 08:27

I know this is pedantic, but relatively few Brits are atheists judging by surveys. And IIRC atheism is actually an older people thing these days. Most Brits are non-religious in the traditional sense, but aren't atheist. And even then we're really only talking about white Brits. The current massive wave of imimmigration isn't exactly a win for secularism.

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