Couple have been together 8 years.
Thinking of buying a house together/getting married. Blended family and need to have the wills discussion before financial entanglement.
Person A. 2 kids from previous relationship. One is disabled meaning they can’t really work anymore now a full time carer. Kids primary age.
Person B. 2 children from previous relationship now teenagers. Well paid job.
One shared child.
Person A owns a property and will rent it out for some income but it’s pennies compared to person B salary.
The new house will be both on the deeds and eventually spilt evenly between all children in the wills.
Other parent of children B also a high earner and has no other children. While we cannot know how that will go it’s likely children B will inherit well from both parents. Children A will get nothing from their other parent.
The question is about person A property and inheritance likely to come from grandparents.
Person B thinks the rental and both sets of inheritance should be split equally between all children in the wills. Person A would likely use inheritance to get a second rental and the rent would be joint money but once A is dead both rentals divide by 3 children (2 previous and shared child).
I’d like some outside perspective without having to talk money with friends and family.