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What the heck! Trans women get periods apparently

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charcoalandsugar · 21/11/2025 12:42

https://eu.modibodi.com/blogs/womens/transwomen-period

AIBU that this is the most ridiculous thing for a company to claim.

"Can a transgender woman have a period? Absolutely. Many trans and gender-diverse people menstruate. Whether you’re a woman, a man, non-binary or agender, your body may menstruate too."

How some trans women get their period

How some trans women get their period – Modibodi EU

Menstruation is a part of many people’s lives. Find out how some trans women get their period and how you can be a supportive friend.

https://eu.modibodi.com/blogs/womens/transwomen-period

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TransSister · 21/11/2025 16:29

Our middle-aged, live action role playing brother, currently claiming to be a trans woman needs proper help. Companies like this do not help.
He has gone from bored, to frustrated that being a selfish idiot hasn't worn him happiness, to porn addicted, gender expressive and finally fully blown living the period dream.
He needs proper help for depression, addiction and strategies for managing stress. He does not need further rabbit holes to disappear down looking for kicks.

Thank you for the company name and the helpful PP who meant I didn't add clicks.
Boycotting this one along with Snag, and yes, I am the major purchasing department for work and my daughters.

CurbsideProphet · 21/11/2025 16:27

It's very Gileadian, the suggestion that we should go along with groupthink, even when we know it's bizarre and just wrong.

JHound · 21/11/2025 16:26

“Many trans women have periods. Some trans women don’t have uteruses, so they won’t bleed as part of a monthly menstrual cycle. But the hormonal experience of menstruation can still be very real.”

Modibodi thinks some Trans women have uteruses?

Ihatetomatoes · 21/11/2025 16:24

ProfessorMenstruator · 21/11/2025 16:01

Can I ask you contact Modibodi and call them out on their lying? They have a contact form.

This is blatant lying.

https://www.modibodi.co.uk/pages/contact-us

What are they thinking! Well they weren't thinking. Biological Men whom call themselves trans women, never have uteruses and don't have periods.

Contact Modibodi Team – Modibodi UK

Reach the Modibodi Customer Team at [email protected]

https://www.modibodi.co.uk/pages/contact-us

user836367392 · 21/11/2025 16:23

I've just sent them a message thru their chat telling them they are ridiculous. I suggest everyone does

FanFckingTastic · 21/11/2025 16:22

surprisebaby12 · Today 15:47
Does it matter? Trans people are an extremely vulnerable minority that is persecuted on all fronts every day. Just let it go.

Yes it matters.

It matters because this company is absolutely peddling lies. Transwomen don't have periods and therefore don't need period products.

It matters because the people that actually need these products (you know, women) are fed up of being asked to shove over and 'affirm' the delusions of men.

Fluffsicles · 21/11/2025 16:21

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 21/11/2025 16:10

So that’s what was giving me gyp just now while I was hoovering - my prostate! I will tell dh that’s why I’m putting my feet up for a bit. 🙂.

Careful, expect a donut cushion for Christmas. Anything you mention this close could be given real consideration

Helleofabore · 21/11/2025 16:19

TheRealMagic · 21/11/2025 16:14

I've seen this claim that trans women have a monthly hormone cycle before. But is it actually true? Why wouldn't a doctor give a consistent daily dose? What benefit would come of varying it over the month? Just having female hormones doesn't make it a cycle. I no longer have a period or any other discernable monthly cycle since having a Mirena (and glorious it is too!) - clearly I still have female hormones but they are steady through the month.

I read an interview by, I believe, one of the first endocrinologists to do this. They said that their male patients were distressed that they lacked ‘periods’ so felt they were never going to be women.

The endocrinologists admit there is absolutely no medical reason to cycle the hormones. It is pure validation.

Happyjoe · 21/11/2025 16:19

tommyhoundmum · 21/11/2025 16:17

Maybe the company should be reported to the Advertising Standards Board

Very good point. False claims and all that.

Happyjoe · 21/11/2025 16:19

surprisebaby12 · 21/11/2025 15:47

Does it matter? Trans people are an extremely vulnerable minority that is persecuted on all fronts every day. Just let it go.

Then why make it worse? Sympathy and support for the trans community will for sure erode steadily when ridiculous stuff like this emerges?

BunnyLake · 21/11/2025 16:17

I hope they do, cramps, clots and all. Enjoy.

tommyhoundmum · 21/11/2025 16:17

Maybe the company should be reported to the Advertising Standards Board

Waitingfordoggo · 21/11/2025 16:16

@surprisebaby12 Yes of course it matters. It matters because:

a) They are spreading misleading information. Some readers will take this information at face value- I know it’s hard to believe but some people, especially perhaps those who are young or uneducated will read this and believe that some male people have uteruses and periods.

b) You claim trans people are vulnerable- helping them affirm their delusions is the opposite of allyship.

c) It’s offensive to actual women. Those of us who deal with periods and everything associated with them (pregnancy, infertility, menopause) throughout our lives. You don’t find it insulting, but you don’t speak for all women (as you can see from the majority of responses on this thread).

Helleofabore · 21/11/2025 16:15

catontheironingboard · 21/11/2025 16:07

I suspect it’s more likely to have been written by enthusiastic female interns or young marketing people at the company, who have been fed this stuff at university and from all the usual media outlets, from Tumblr to the late (not-lamented) Teen Vogue.

Unfortunately, I believe it comes from top down and from the Sydney head office.

TheRealMagic · 21/11/2025 16:14

I've seen this claim that trans women have a monthly hormone cycle before. But is it actually true? Why wouldn't a doctor give a consistent daily dose? What benefit would come of varying it over the month? Just having female hormones doesn't make it a cycle. I no longer have a period or any other discernable monthly cycle since having a Mirena (and glorious it is too!) - clearly I still have female hormones but they are steady through the month.

Millytante · 21/11/2025 16:13

surprisebaby12 · 21/11/2025 15:47

Does it matter? Trans people are an extremely vulnerable minority that is persecuted on all fronts every day. Just let it go.

Oh good grief, be reasonable.
Most transgender persons must have it pretty rough, I do not doubt, and I’m glad I never had to navigate my way through such confusion.

But not everything done or claimed under the umbrella of ‘trans rights’ is honourable, let alone logical.
No amount of empathy or generosity towards transgender people on my part will ever allow me to concede that a trans woman is a woman just as I am.
Not only is that fundamentally utter bollocks, to coin a phrase, but it is part of a broader strategy to erase women’s experience and annexe our identity (along with any necessary ‘privileges’ that has always necessitated).

If this bellicose and colonialist attitude, this well-known make entitlement, had not been prominent in so much of the trans activism we've see in recent years, the feeling would be very different.

But as it is, many of us have a hard time resisting the response that all this is just the patriarchy trying to do us down as usual, but this time in a dress.
Same old, same old. ✊🏻

Spiracles · 21/11/2025 16:13

KilkennyCats · 21/11/2025 15:55

To people who don’t actually have periods?!

Yup. For the validation.

Helleofabore · 21/11/2025 16:13

ProfessorMenstruator · 21/11/2025 16:01

Can I ask you contact Modibodi and call them out on their lying? They have a contact form.

This is blatant lying.

I have done this multiple times now to Sydney head office. They send the same email about being inclusive.

Ihatetomatoes · 21/11/2025 16:12

catontheironingboard · 21/11/2025 15:54

@surprisebaby12 Men who like to pretend they have periods for kicks are an extremely vulnerable minority? How? What’s vulnerable about them?

Men who pretend they have periods for kicks sounds like they have a fetish or perversion, those type of men don't sound very vulnerable, because they aren't.

Ihatetomatoes · 21/11/2025 16:10

Do biological men (trans identified men) get periods - do they bollocks. They ought to get their prostrate checked though since wearing a dress and dangly earrings and shouting 'I'm a woman you know' doesn't offer protection against it.

All transwomen (trans identified men) don't have uteruses not one single one of them. men don't have uteruses.

Ghostmartin · 21/11/2025 16:10

surprisebaby12 · 21/11/2025 15:47

Does it matter? Trans people are an extremely vulnerable minority that is persecuted on all fronts every day. Just let it go.

Well, the company is gaslighting this extremely vulnerable minority into thinking they can have periods when they can't.

That's not very KIND is it?

5128gap · 21/11/2025 16:10

catontheironingboard · 21/11/2025 16:07

I suspect it’s more likely to have been written by enthusiastic female interns or young marketing people at the company, who have been fed this stuff at university and from all the usual media outlets, from Tumblr to the late (not-lamented) Teen Vogue.

It will have been given the green light higher up the chain nonetheless.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 21/11/2025 16:10

Fluffsicles · 21/11/2025 16:03

We need to publicise that women have prostates too, because why not. It's just incorrect, or worded incorrectly at best. However, if they play it right, the latex gloves industry could make a mint out of this.

So that’s what was giving me gyp just now while I was hoovering - my prostate! I will tell dh that’s why I’m putting my feet up for a bit. 🙂.

frostedpixie · 21/11/2025 16:09

MidnightPatrol · 21/11/2025 12:45

I mean, they’re obviously wrong, but they’re in the business of selling period pants and I suppose this expands their market of potential customers.

I suppose this expands their market of potential customers.

Fetishists. And the delusional.

Too right it's an expanding market. 🙄

If a transwoman is bleeding from their penis or 'neo-vagina', what they need is a physician. Not period products.

catontheironingboard · 21/11/2025 16:07

5128gap · 21/11/2025 16:03

So you think its OK that a bunch of advertising execs who all know full well men don't need period pants, sat round a table deciding how they could exploit their 'vulnerability' to flog them to them regardless?
That they are lying to men that certain medical symptoms they may experience are due to them actually being women?
A man experiencing abdominal cramps or mood swings may well be suffering from a real medical condition. To pretend it's a period to flog him some padded pants is irresponsible to say the least.

I suspect it’s more likely to have been written by enthusiastic female interns or young marketing people at the company, who have been fed this stuff at university and from all the usual media outlets, from Tumblr to the late (not-lamented) Teen Vogue.