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What the heck! Trans women get periods apparently

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charcoalandsugar · 21/11/2025 12:42

https://eu.modibodi.com/blogs/womens/transwomen-period

AIBU that this is the most ridiculous thing for a company to claim.

"Can a transgender woman have a period? Absolutely. Many trans and gender-diverse people menstruate. Whether you’re a woman, a man, non-binary or agender, your body may menstruate too."

How some trans women get their period

How some trans women get their period – Modibodi EU

Menstruation is a part of many people’s lives. Find out how some trans women get their period and how you can be a supportive friend.

https://eu.modibodi.com/blogs/womens/transwomen-period

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tommyhoundmum · 21/11/2025 19:58

Linzloopy · 21/11/2025 16:35

Utterly ridiculous. They say on their website "some trans women don’t have uteruses" - which implies, completely falsely, that some do!

I agree but some do have uteruses

Ihatetomatoes · 21/11/2025 19:57

catontheironingboard · 21/11/2025 19:26

@Caplin My mention of GCSE biology upthread was nothing to do with chromosomes: it was to do with having to draw a nice labelled diagram for my GCSE biology, way back in the early 1990s, of all the hormone variations during the menstrual cycle, including the release of the egg and the production of the corpus luteum (which then goes on to produce progesterone and trigger the pituitary gland to produce more, and so on.).

Didn’t you ever do this? (Is your biology education not up to scratch?) Hint: taking oestrogen as a trans woman is nothing like a period and has nothing in common with any of the cycle that produces a period or period “symptoms” in women.

You’re welcome. Enjoy the facts along with the wine!

This diagram needs to be shown to many nowadays, sadly, facts are being lost, poor children, no wonder so many are confused.

The bollocks that men and their handmaidens push through the trans ideology. You cannot change sex. Biological men don't have periods or uteruses. Unbelievable that this needs repeating.

pigsDOfly · 21/11/2025 19:43

MagpiePi · 21/11/2025 17:54

Tbf I think they should double down and start selling a Tans Woman Period Kit that contains

  • chocolate because women always eat chocolate when they have a period,
  • tissues for all the weeping,
  • some pink pyjamas and fluffy pink slippers for all the lolling about women do when they have a period,
  • a hot water bottle with a fluffy pink cover for those cramps
  • a dvd of some soppy romance

And not forgetting, of course, to add a pair of really short gleaming white shorts.

Those short will be an essential part of every trans-woman wardrobe for when they go rollerblading as per all those sanitary towel ads that we used to see all over our televisions, just to show how very effective those modibodi period pants are.

LorrieTosh · 21/11/2025 19:41

Locutus2000 · 21/11/2025 19:19

Modibodi simply doesn't seem to understand the difference between transmen and transwomen.

Obviously many trans men have periods.

No, they mean trans women, and they understand the difference. The link in the OP takes you to the full text, but this is a more expanded quote:

Many trans women have periods. Some trans women don’t have uteruses, so they won’t bleed as part of a monthly menstrual cycle. But the hormonal experience of menstruation can still be very real. Some trans women undergo gender-affirming treatment in the form of feminising hormones. These hormones can result in a range of physical and emotional symptoms - there’s a list of symptoms, none of which are bleeding, then - For many trans women, this is their period.

Millytante · 21/11/2025 19:39

Caplin · 21/11/2025 16:45

And can the TERFs please bugger off with their ‘biological facts matter’ crap on this board. First off, a GCSE in biology does not make you an expert. The biology of chromosomes is actually far more complex, who knew! And let’s not even start on neurodevelopment, which is also biology. The fact is trans people have existed throughout history, so there is clearly a biological reason for them existing in all nations at all points through time, even if we don’t fully understand it. Screaming that people are lying or ignoring biology is wilful ignorance.

sorry for the rant, it has been a long day and I have truly had it with this hate filled nonsense which does real damage to people I love and their families.

I’m off to drink wine. And no, I’m not getting into this with anyone.

I’ll bite, as a card-carrying TERF (ie no entry to female-only spaces. This does not mean ‘No entry anywhere, under any circs, and kindly go away’)

Biology matters above pretty much everything else, really, given the demands made.
But on your specific point, yes we all know chromosomal anomalies do occur and this has never been denied nor was it ever wished away.
These cases though are not transgender individuals.
‘Transgender’ is dangerously and irresponsibly being employed increasingly as a catchall term for anyone not adhering to the strait and narrow in terms not only of gender presentation, but also sexual orientation, and as we see here, chromosomal idiosyncrasy.

Quite why this'd be the case is open to question, though census findings spring to mind, and the uses to which resultant statistics are put.

Anyway, Enjoy your wine.
Ive certainly used up a month’s allowance of ranting for one day.

catontheironingboard · 21/11/2025 19:26

@Caplin My mention of GCSE biology upthread was nothing to do with chromosomes: it was to do with having to draw a nice labelled diagram for my GCSE biology, way back in the early 1990s, of all the hormone variations during the menstrual cycle, including the release of the egg and the production of the corpus luteum (which then goes on to produce progesterone and trigger the pituitary gland to produce more, and so on.).

Didn’t you ever do this? (Is your biology education not up to scratch?) Hint: taking oestrogen as a trans woman is nothing like a period and has nothing in common with any of the cycle that produces a period or period “symptoms” in women.

You’re welcome. Enjoy the facts along with the wine!

What the heck!  Trans women get periods apparently
Youdontseehow · 21/11/2025 19:23

KnickerlessParsons · 21/11/2025 12:48

How?
How to transwomen have periods?
Where does the blood come from?🙄

They probably also sell tomato sauce snd pads/tampons so that periods can be “authenticated”.

Locutus2000 · 21/11/2025 19:19

JHound · 21/11/2025 16:26

“Many trans women have periods. Some trans women don’t have uteruses, so they won’t bleed as part of a monthly menstrual cycle. But the hormonal experience of menstruation can still be very real.”

Modibodi thinks some Trans women have uteruses?

Edited

Modibodi simply doesn't seem to understand the difference between transmen and transwomen.

Obviously many trans men have periods.

Grammarnut · 21/11/2025 19:17

Muffinmam · 21/11/2025 15:28

This ridiculous rhetoric from the left just pushes more people towards conservatism.

The concerning thing is while people are arguing whether or not a genetic male can release menstrual blood from their uterus every month (they can’t) then we aren’t discussing the real issues.

That's one of the real issues. The treatment of women worldwide is not a side issue. It's up there with war, pestilence, death and whatever the other one is...Seriously, women's issues are not side issues, they are important. Women are more than half of humanity and we are constantly told that our niche needs must wait upon the great upheaval being sorted - whichever one it is. Fed up with waiting, thanks. We'll deal with our issues and then sort out whatever is left (it won't be much).

AstonScrapingsNameChange · 21/11/2025 19:13

CapacityBrown · 21/11/2025 17:09

No, the article clearly states that "some trans women" don't have uteruses which infers that other trans women do.

Whilst the article does talk about the apparent causes of periods by hormones, basically calling something that isn't a period a period.

basically calling something that isn't a period a period.

Its those pesky words having meanings again that's causing the problem.

I am so fed up with people 'innocently' trying to redefine words to mean what they want them to mean, then getting all pissy when anyone notices.

So modibodi are trying desperately to be inclusive of men. Why stop there? Why not market their tat to post menopausal women who wish they were younger?

I mean, it makes as much bloody sense (more, really).

Its ageist of them to only market their products to young people

🙄

Gettingbysomehow · 21/11/2025 19:09

JaneOfGaunt · 21/11/2025 13:38

Wow, so bigoted. What about uterus-havers who identify as men who identify as women?

What kind of zoo animal is a uterus haver? I have a uterus and Im a woman.

SaveMeFromHumanity · 21/11/2025 19:01

they can however get PMS. Trigger by the synthetic hormones they take.

They can't.

Women experience PMS due to fluctuations in hormone levels throughout the month due to their menstrual cycle.

Men don't have menstrual cycles. Those who take female hormones take a consistent level throughout the month. Ergo, no fluctuations.

They cannot experience 'pre menstrual' anything as they do not menstruate.

Futurehappiness · 21/11/2025 18:54

It is hard to express just how furious all this makes me. I started periods when I was 13 and the first few years especially were very hard. I suffered from nausea and severe pain - the worst pain I have ever been in in my life (probably because I never went through a 'natural' childbirth).

Still had to get on with school/studies/work regardless. Like millions of other girls & women like me....there is no way any man can possibly understand, though it is no surprise that a few are arrogant enough to think they can. One of the 2 best things about being in my 60s (alongside less harassment from men) is no more periods.

If I was still having them I wouldn't touch Modibodi with a barge pole, and I hope through the power of MN the consequences of their insulting, belittling and patronising women come back to hit them hard. You would think that the provider of a service which is specifically dedicated to meeting the needs of girls and women, would be 100% focused on girls and women; if only because they constitute their customer base. But no.....instead women have to suffer this patronising claptrap exhorting us to focus on the needs of trans women instead and 'be a good ally' to them. Women must 'be kind' after all....even in managing a process which is exclusively about them, they are instructed to prioritise men.

lifeturnsonadime · 21/11/2025 18:52

I'm so sick of men and their allies appropriating everything.

And @Caplin no, no I won't think of the poor men.

Men do not have periods, not even men who identify as trans women. I am very sorry that this upsets you so much you need to drink wine.

But seriously, if you can't see how offensive this nonsense is to women, I literally have no words.

LorrieTosh · 21/11/2025 18:45

I had a hysterectomy years ago. I still get some hormonal symptoms, like sore breasts and weird headaches, but I haven’t had a period since - because I don’t have a uterus any more. They can fuck right off with “Trans women’s periods are just as real and valid as anyone else’s”. Of course they’re bloody not. The symptoms of an artificially induced hormonal fluctuation are a side-effect, not a fucking period.

Having a period feels totally normal and fine for many trans women. Some even find it deeply cathartic and validating.
“Cathartic and validating”? Fuck sake. I couldn’t leave the house on my heaviest days, and I had to set an alarm for the middle of the night to get up and change the pad and tampon I was using simultaneously, just to avoid ruining another mattress.
Great to have the option to “chat with your doctor about adjusting your hormonal regime so that it doesn’t trigger a noticeable cycle” though. Just like a real woman dealing with her (equally valid and almost identical) problematic period symptoms. 25+yrs of debilitating pain and anaemia, with periods lasting 7+ days on a 28 day cycle (and only when that became 9+ days every three weeks, with extra unexpected bleeding at random points, was I able to finally - after a bit of a battle - persuade my GP to refer me for further tests). Totally the same experience as “chat with your doctor about a simple tweak to make your self-inflicted symptoms entirely disappear!🥰” The similarities are uncanny; it must be so affirming and validating for them.

Being a good ally to trans women during their period means being respectful, understanding and supportive.
Understanding of WHAT exactly? What “support” does an attention-seeking male pretending to have a period need?

AnSolas · 21/11/2025 18:45

Caplin · 21/11/2025 16:45

And can the TERFs please bugger off with their ‘biological facts matter’ crap on this board. First off, a GCSE in biology does not make you an expert. The biology of chromosomes is actually far more complex, who knew! And let’s not even start on neurodevelopment, which is also biology. The fact is trans people have existed throughout history, so there is clearly a biological reason for them existing in all nations at all points through time, even if we don’t fully understand it. Screaming that people are lying or ignoring biology is wilful ignorance.

sorry for the rant, it has been a long day and I have truly had it with this hate filled nonsense which does real damage to people I love and their families.

I’m off to drink wine. And no, I’m not getting into this with anyone.

You posted your "ranting screamy hate filled nonsense males can have female reproduction processes because you are not ignorent crap". 👍

Enjoy the fermented grapes

🍿

Ihatetomatoes · 21/11/2025 18:38

Millytante · 21/11/2025 18:32

Thats more acute than you might think!
Wouldn't this be typical of the way so many transwomen ape femininity by dressing up as exaggerated, cartoonish ladywomen, never as short-haired, lipstick-free hoodie ‘n’ jeans wearing regulars?
They want seem to want a fantasy of frills and furbelows, stilettos and false eyelashes, and imaginary female frailty wilting onto the nearest chaise longue.
Thus, a period care kit like you describe could be a huge money spinner!

(Im sure I recall a very famous British sex symbol years ago going on about buying Tampax after her menopause in order that visiting studs would see them in the bathroom and be reassured as to her likely age.
Wouldn’t this be a simpler ruse for trans women than ingesting alarming quantities of hormones?)

They are very much the 'I'm a lady you know' caricature of Little Britain ... that strange looking over the top male version of what a woman is. Again they got it wrong.

Millytante · 21/11/2025 18:32

MagpiePi · 21/11/2025 17:54

Tbf I think they should double down and start selling a Tans Woman Period Kit that contains

  • chocolate because women always eat chocolate when they have a period,
  • tissues for all the weeping,
  • some pink pyjamas and fluffy pink slippers for all the lolling about women do when they have a period,
  • a hot water bottle with a fluffy pink cover for those cramps
  • a dvd of some soppy romance

Thats more acute than you might think!
Wouldn't this be typical of the way so many transwomen ape femininity by dressing up as exaggerated, cartoonish ladywomen, never as short-haired, lipstick-free hoodie ‘n’ jeans wearing regulars?
They want seem to want a fantasy of frills and furbelows, stilettos and false eyelashes, and imaginary female frailty wilting onto the nearest chaise longue.
Thus, a period care kit like you describe could be a huge money spinner!

(Im sure I recall a very famous British sex symbol years ago going on about buying Tampax after her menopause in order that visiting studs would see them in the bathroom and be reassured as to her likely age.
Wouldn’t this be a simpler ruse for trans women than ingesting alarming quantities of hormones?)

HidingBehindTheWallpaper · 21/11/2025 18:14

I’ve not read the whole thread but why was the even a question on their website anyway.

Are you experiencing menstruation? Yes. Then buy this product. No need to bring anything else into. Only those who have periods will need it so it, and 100% of those people will be people with a uterus.

StandFirm · 21/11/2025 18:08

AngelinaFibres · 21/11/2025 13:45

This. I'm on HRT tablets that I swallow daily and HRT I take vaginally ( everyday for 2 weeks initially then every 3 days). That's a nice lot of HRT and I feel well because of it. I never get ( nor have ever had) in the last 10 years of being on these drugs, a single twinge, cramp, discharge or anything remotely resembling anything menstrual of any kind and I am an actual woman and still have an actual uterus so how any of that could possibly happen to a biological man is ridiculous.

To be fair, taking hormones that are not naturally occurring in the body surely must have hefty side effects. HRT is meant for women and solves an intrisically female issue so of course you'd feel better for taking it. I can't imagine what sort of havoc would be wreaked by getting on a hefty course of testosterone or if I were a man, how female hormones would make me feel. That article takes something which has a degree of truth but twists it into something else (Having had adenomyosis for decades, reading this does make me think they're comparing apples and carrots).

Coconutter24 · 21/11/2025 17:57

CapacityBrown · 21/11/2025 17:09

No, the article clearly states that "some trans women" don't have uteruses which infers that other trans women do.

Whilst the article does talk about the apparent causes of periods by hormones, basically calling something that isn't a period a period.

Many trans and gender-diverse people menstruate. Whether you’re a woman, a man, non-binary or agender, your body may menstruate too.

This is the biggest flaw of the article basically saying anyone can menstruate…. We all know only women menstruate

MagpiePi · 21/11/2025 17:54

Lalgarh · 21/11/2025 17:37

Surely Modibodi are on a fool's errand here (yes I will shoehorn in a Fleet Foxes reference), when they should be pivoting to the Adult Baby Diaper community .

For the love of god don't Google

Tbf I think they should double down and start selling a Tans Woman Period Kit that contains

  • chocolate because women always eat chocolate when they have a period,
  • tissues for all the weeping,
  • some pink pyjamas and fluffy pink slippers for all the lolling about women do when they have a period,
  • a hot water bottle with a fluffy pink cover for those cramps
  • a dvd of some soppy romance
TheKeatingFive · 21/11/2025 17:50

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 21/11/2025 17:13

Yes! Those awful signs that popped up in universities across the land that told people (largely women, I expect) that if they someone they didn't expect in the loos it was none of their business to ask what they were up to or back out and look for security or do any of the other obvious common sense things we'd all have taken for granted a few years ago.

Just awful.

It is mindblowing that society has let this be done to women and girls. Particularly at the younger, more impressionable end, who may not have the life experience to see how damaging it is.

Dollymylove · 21/11/2025 17:46

Daysgo · 21/11/2025 14:34

Lunacy. How can a man menstruate??

He can't 😅

MagpiePi · 21/11/2025 17:43

Caplin · 21/11/2025 16:45

And can the TERFs please bugger off with their ‘biological facts matter’ crap on this board. First off, a GCSE in biology does not make you an expert. The biology of chromosomes is actually far more complex, who knew! And let’s not even start on neurodevelopment, which is also biology. The fact is trans people have existed throughout history, so there is clearly a biological reason for them existing in all nations at all points through time, even if we don’t fully understand it. Screaming that people are lying or ignoring biology is wilful ignorance.

sorry for the rant, it has been a long day and I have truly had it with this hate filled nonsense which does real damage to people I love and their families.

I’m off to drink wine. And no, I’m not getting into this with anyone.

It’S aLl So cOmPliCaTeD
😵‍💫