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To say please don’t give money to the Christmas market beggars

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Nutmuncher · 21/11/2025 09:40

This will seem controversial to some but as someone living in a City centre the Christmas markets attract high numbers of beggars, addicts and alcoholics.

Please do not give them money because it simply encourages them to keep coming back every year in larger numbers. It is frustrating to say the least when you see the same faces sat in the same spots day after day and visitors take pity on them without realising they’re only perpetuating the never ending cycle.

My advice is to instead donate to your local children’s charity or food bank to give to those struggling to provide who aren’t begging or feeding an addiction.

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RampantIvy · 21/11/2025 09:43

I never give them money but usually ask if they want something to eat. I often buy the homeless guy outside Morrisons a meal deal, or a hot drink if they have food and the weather is cold.

PumpkinTwistyWindToots · 21/11/2025 09:41

You're not wrong in principle but I think everyone can make their own decisions around whether they want to give money to people begging or not.