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I upset a lady at GP surgery today

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TheQuirkyMaker · 20/11/2025 21:45

A queue of five people in front at surgery. Waiting room pretty full. Only one receptionist available. An elderly lady at the front was telling the receptionist that she had just picked up meds at the chemist, and they had been changed from her regular ones to different ones. There was back and forth discussion, and every few minutes the lady would say, "but nobody told me they would be changed". I asked the lady in front of me how long this had been going on and she said "about 10 minutes". After a full further 15 minutes I said "Look, this is getting us no where, none of us will get to see a doctor if we can't sign in". I got a bit of condemnation along the lines of "she was entitled to her time", but I said, "this is reception, not a consultation. Just repeating that she wasn't told her medication would be changed is getting us no where. This could go on forever".
People got a bit sniffy with me, and I got a few stares, but I was right, wasn't I?
I get we should be tolerant of older people, but there has to be a bit of give and take.

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TeenLifeMum · 20/11/2025 21:56

Who made you the queen of the gp reception? Totally legitimate query; it’s not her fault the receptionist wasn’t managing her query. Sounds like she needed a call from her gp to explain the change of meds if the pharmacist wasn’t able to. I’m surprised you don’t have electronic sign in - even my tiny village gp has that - but if you were concerned you would miss your appointment then you could have politely asked to check in rather than tell a woman off for being confused and asking for help.

FIaps · 20/11/2025 21:56

Our GP surgery has one of those self check-in screens for this reason.

RogueFemale · 20/11/2025 21:51

@TheQuirkyMaker Entirely reasonable by you. Ignore the tutting women.

21ZIGGY · 20/11/2025 21:49

Yes I wouldn't worry about it. As you say you needed to check in and it sounded like it was a waste of time

hazelnutvanillalatte · 20/11/2025 21:49

Sounds like she had a legitimate issue which should have dealt with more efficiently - she should have been signposted to a place where she could get help. In any event, this very scenario actually happened to me today - I just redirected their attention briefly so I could sign in and then left them to it.

LighthouseLED · 20/11/2025 21:49

I’m surprised the receptionist didn’t say anything after that length of time / none of the clinical staff appeared to see why they had no patients arriving.

ohyesido · 20/11/2025 21:48

They were probably in awe at your chutzpah.

the receptionists are supposed to be fierce for this reason to prevent people monopolising their time