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To think if you are an adult with a huge head

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TheRozzers · 20/11/2025 11:08

Don’t book front row seats in the theatre.

Large man sitting on the front row of the stalls with 3 other large adults next to him managed to block the view of an entire group of children sitting in the seats behind them.

It was a children’s show in the West End but they didn’t appear to be accompanying any children.

YABU - big adults deserve front row seats

YANBU - adults to the back so everyone gets a good view

OP posts:
60watt · 20/11/2025 12:44

OT but Boutique Bonita and Shoffel do hats in actual sizes but I can’t comment as I haven’t take the plunge @BunfightBetty

ScholesPanda · 20/11/2025 12:43

TheRozzers · 20/11/2025 11:56

Ok maybe in come cases it can’t be helped but in this case it was a matinee, the audience was mainly primary school children and there were definitely other seats available.

In some cases it can't be helped...but in other cases they deliberately inflate their heads before going into the theatre?

TeenLifeMum · 20/11/2025 12:42

I always think that at standing gigs, if you know you’re exceptionally tall your could be more considerate for those of us who don’t benefit from the height genes. They always stand in front of me an bob around to make it extra hard to look round them.

NooNakedJacuzziness · 20/11/2025 12:37

Carry a periscope, sorted

BunfightBetty · 20/11/2025 12:36

60watt · 20/11/2025 12:21

I’ve got a huge head and was hoping that this would be a thread about where to get hats because none of them fit me.

Funnily enough you can’t tell by looking at me so I don’t think I will cause offence by sitting in a seat in the theatre.

Surely it’s tall and/or wide people that are the problem unless these same people also have extravagant hairdos?

Anyway OP you’re being a real silly billy.

I was hoping for some plus-size hat supplier tips too!

So hard to find a hat big enough when manufacturers seem to assume that if you're female you must have a dainty head.

TheRozzers · 20/11/2025 12:35

TeenLifeMum · 20/11/2025 12:22

Do you want a Ryan air bag checker style head size checker?

Ideally 👍

OP posts:
BunfightBetty · 20/11/2025 12:34

I think if you're over 5'8" and have a head size larger than medium, you should only be able to book seats in the back half of each seating section in the theatre. Give us short-arses and kids a chance to see.

I'm not sure what I should do though, as I'm only 5'3" but have a huge head like Charlie Brown.

Ablondiebutagoody · 20/11/2025 12:34

Throw stuff at the head to teach them a lesson

Ohwhatfuckeryitistoride · 20/11/2025 12:31

Was he grown up Stewie Griffin?

MrTiddlesTheCat · 20/11/2025 12:31

I have a big head but am 5 ft nothing. Do I have to sit at the back?

ThePoshUns · 20/11/2025 12:26

Oh lord I’m 5’6 with a big head. Maybe I should lock myself in my house.
Like a pp I would love to find a hat that fits!

Dollymylove · 20/11/2025 12:24

You should of booked front row seats before they sold out . You snooze you lose 🤣🤣

MoonBugs · 20/11/2025 12:23

*apologies for double post- dodgy internet connection on the train!

Jigglyhuffpuff · 20/11/2025 12:23

I have a huge head but am short. Where do I sit?

TappaMcFeety · 20/11/2025 12:23

It’s another ‘To think…’ post - where do you get all these ideas from OP?

MoonBugs · 20/11/2025 12:22

My dh has a big head, broad shoulders and is 6’6 with long legs. I’m 5’3. Where do you propose we sit if we go to the theatre together?

he slouches down as much as he can- but his long legs make this very painful and difficult for him. He also (unless impossible to do so) always sits in an aisle seat and leans his head/legs out towards the aisle as much as he can to not block people’s view.

My perspective is he’s paying for a ticket as much as anyone else, why should he sit miles away in the cheap seats where he can’t see as well just because he’s tall?
I’ve been sat behind very tall people, as long as they’re not being deliberately obnoxious and they keep their head still (so I can look around them) then It’s not a them problem; it’s a me problem.

people are so entitled sometimes.

TeenLifeMum · 20/11/2025 12:22

Do you want a Ryan air bag checker style head size checker?

60watt · 20/11/2025 12:21

I’ve got a huge head and was hoping that this would be a thread about where to get hats because none of them fit me.

Funnily enough you can’t tell by looking at me so I don’t think I will cause offence by sitting in a seat in the theatre.

Surely it’s tall and/or wide people that are the problem unless these same people also have extravagant hairdos?

Anyway OP you’re being a real silly billy.

Justploddingonandon · 20/11/2025 12:21

Which theatre was this? I'm guessing they must have had an unusually low stage as generally the stage is so high (so people further back can see) that the first few rows have to look up, and are therefore looking over the heads of anyone in front of them. This also tends to make the front row cheaper as you can't see stuff happening lower down/at the back of the stage.
I'm an average sized woman, and yes it's annoying when I get someone tall in front of me, but I wouldn't want to sit at the back as that's often also restricted. I find the dress circle best for children as the rake is generally better. Also this is why they have booster seats.

MoonBugs · 20/11/2025 12:21

My dh has a big head, broad shoulders and is 6’6 with long legs. I’m 5’3. Where do you propose we sit if we go to the theatre together?

he slouches down as much as he can- but his long legs make this very painful and difficult for him. He also (unless impossible to do so) always sits in an aisle seat and leans his head/legs out towards the aisle as much as he can to not block people’s view.

My perspective is he’s paying for a ticket as much as anyone else, why should he sit miles away in the cheap seats where he can’t see as well just because he’s tall?
I’ve been sat behind very tall people, as long as they’re not being deliberately obnoxious and they keep their head still (so I can look around them) then It’s not a them problem; it’s a me problem.

people are so entitled sometimes

Somnambule · 20/11/2025 12:21

What about people with big hairdos? Don't be daft.

SoScarletItWas · 20/11/2025 12:19

bilbodog · 20/11/2025 12:12

I sympathise OP as im short and often find i cant see and now dont go to the cinema or theatre as much as i used to. Our local cinema has seats at the back which are higher up than the rest so i always book those and sit looking down the centre isle so nobody can sit in front of me.

taller people dont get it!

We also can’t do anything about it!

I can’t shrink myself from 5’ 10” every time I walk into a theatre.

I am conscious of it. I do book the back row of the cinema. I always try and book an aisle seat in the theatre so that my legs aren’t annoying anyone.

But I will sit close to the front in the theatre (ideally on the first balcony up) and if someone short has the seat behind me, they can get a booster seat from an usher.

Importantly I sit still - I know how annoying someone fidgeting around in front can be just when you’ve sorted the best angle to watch the stage around them.

When I’m at a live gig I stand at the side, not in the front or in the middle of the crowd.

Beyond that (which is plenty) there’s not much I can do.

InterestedDad37 · 20/11/2025 12:18

Big heads and tall people should be forced to go to the back! Should be the law! 😀

brunettemic · 20/11/2025 12:16

Im guessing you want the website to be given access to their camera so it can measure their head and seat them accordingly?

EmShire · 20/11/2025 12:16

Not sure about this but I think tall people should think twice about sitting at the front. Also big hats aren't great for the people directly behind.

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