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To invoke the ‘otherwise’ option for school absence?

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KuanKaKu · 20/11/2025 10:58

AIBU to send this letter in and request temporary de-registration?
WWYD if you are a Headteacher and received this?
Dear Headteacher,
I am writing to inform you that for the period xxx 2026 to xxx 2026 inclusive, my children, [Child’s Name(s)], will be receiving their education otherwise than at school, in accordance with Section 7 of the Education Act 1996, which places the legal duty for securing a suitable education on me as the parent.
Section 7 states that:
“The parent of every child of compulsory school age shall cause him to receive efficient full-time education suitable to his age, ability and aptitude, and to any special educational needs he may have, either by regular attendance at school or otherwise.”
During this period I will be exercising the “otherwise” option. As such, my children will not be attending school between these dates. You may therefore treat them as temporarily deregistered for this period, as their education is being lawfully provided by me.
This is not a permanent withdrawal. My intention is for them to return to school-based provision on xxx 2026.
For clarity:
Parents are the duty-holders under Education Act 1996 s.7 with the right to elect for education “otherwise”.
Elective Home Education does not require the school’s permission (DfE Elective Home Education Guidance, 2019).
Temporary periods of home education are legally valid where the parent is providing suitable education under s.7.
Compulsory school attendance requirements under s.444 apply only where the parent is relying on school attendance to discharge the s.7 duty, which is not the case during this period.
Please confirm receipt of this notification for your records.

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TheaBrandt1 · 20/11/2025 11:16

Surely they would have to de register you as everyone else says. Otherwise everyone would just do this and it would be chaos! You’re in or you’re out you can’t have it both ways. Not fair to hog a space you’re not using until you deign to send your child back.

KuanKaKu · 20/11/2025 11:14

Ok thanks

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KuanKaKu · 20/11/2025 11:13

Is there a law that prevents temporary de-registration? People are saying no you can’t temporarily de-register your child but are not providing the legal basis to this. Does anyone actually know if the request in the letter is legal?

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StartingFreshFor2026 · 20/11/2025 11:12

No, unfortunately you are either home educating and don't need to be on roll at the school or you are not. Otherwise all parents would do this every time they wanted a holiday.

1099 · 20/11/2025 11:11

I think you'd be better moving this to Legal Matters, I suspect that if, as I suspect you think, you have found a loophole to take your kids on holiday, avoid a fine and still have a place when they get back. You will be disappointed.

pixiedust79 · 20/11/2025 11:08

You can’t just temporarily deregister. Either you want the school place or you don’t but after 3 weeks of absence the school can just remove them from roll.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 20/11/2025 11:08

KuanKaKu · 20/11/2025 11:04

So you don’t think specifying the ‘otherwise’ option is temporary will keep the place/s with full time education?

I'm not a legal expert but I would be astonished if you could hold onto your school place simply by announcing that the withdrawal is temporary. This would surely just result in parents "temporarily home educating" every time they wanted to take a term-time holiday or whatever.

You have a right to withdraw your child from school to home educate. I don't think you should expect the school to keep your child's place open for them.

BishyBarnyBee · 20/11/2025 11:07

KuanKaKu · 20/11/2025 11:04

So you don’t think specifying the ‘otherwise’ option is temporary will keep the place/s with full time education?

No. Because if your child has a place, their non attendance is counted towards the school's overall attendance. Which is a key performance metric for schools. So they have to take you off role.

You sound like you think you have found a clever work around the law but there really isn't one.

TranscendentTiger · 20/11/2025 11:06

KuanKaKu · 20/11/2025 11:04

So you don’t think specifying the ‘otherwise’ option is temporary will keep the place/s with full time education?

No, it almost certainly will not. Once you off-roll your child the space will be offered to the next person on the waiting list (if there is one).

RudolphTheReindeer · 20/11/2025 11:05

You can't hold the space. You're either home educating or not.

KuanKaKu · 20/11/2025 11:04

So you don’t think specifying the ‘otherwise’ option is temporary will keep the place/s with full time education?

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BishyBarnyBee · 20/11/2025 11:04

How long are you taking them out for? Is it for a holiday?

If they have a place at the school, they are expected to attend. If you withdraw them for home ed, they lose their school place.

In principle, you can't take them out of school and assume they can go back whenever you like. If the school has places, they will give you one. But they can't hold a place open for you.

autumn1638 · 20/11/2025 11:02

I’m not sure that you could temporarily with them. You’d need to check that out. I think that if you off roll them then you’d need to re apply for a school place and there’s not really a guarantee that the place would still be available. That was my understanding but correct me if I am wrong.