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Crossing the road when there’s not a green man

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JabbyMcJabFace16 · 19/11/2025 17:20

I’ve just had possibly the strangest interaction of my life and just need some opinions on it.

I was at a pretty busy junction that I cross everyday, twice a day. I know that between the first two sets of lights, there is a thirty second pause which is long enough for me to cross the road in. I went to step out during this pause when a woman stood next to me put her arm across me and said, quite pointedly “I don’t think so! We only cross when we see a green man, don’t we [child’s name]. She then held her arm across me until the green man came up.

I do understand that it’s important for parents to teach their children road safety, but I also know this junction so well and it’s absolutely freezing tonight. I was stood there for a good 3 minutes longer than I needed to be because this woman wouldn’t let me go.

AIBU to think this is just going too far?

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AllPlayedOut · 19/11/2025 17:23

Fuck that. I wouldn’t be putting up with that nonsense and I’d be crossing if it was safe to do so regardless of Mrs Busybody. Why did you put up with it?

PInkyStarfish · 19/11/2025 17:22

Why not set a good example to children and wait until the green man appears?

Well done that woman for putting you in your place