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“Shut up, piggy”.

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EddyF · 18/11/2025 19:48

Trump told a female reporter this. How come this behaviour is accepted but if it was former president Obama, people would have lost their mind. Obama had to practically be ‘perfect’. When Obama wore a tan suit, it was such a huge deal.

Racism is a sick illness.

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cardibach · 19/11/2025 13:51

Livelovebehappy · 19/11/2025 12:50

And what was the alternative they were offered? Someone rushed through at the last minute because the incompetent Democrats couldn't get their shit together…

Yeah. My cat would have been a better option and she’s brainless. There literally couldn’t have been a much worse option and pretending there was is simply an excuse made by people who voted Trump.

ShenandoahRiver · 19/11/2025 13:45

@Livelovebehappy

Would you prefer to see Liz Truss and Kwasi Kwarteng running the country again?

TheSwarm · 19/11/2025 13:02

Livelovebehappy · 19/11/2025 12:50

And what was the alternative they were offered? Someone rushed through at the last minute because the incompetent Democrats couldn't get their shit together…

No, they were offered a highly competent and intelligent woman.

And she didn't stand a chance, because that kind of person is threatening to so many in the US.

Fevre · 19/11/2025 13:01

Livelovebehappy · 19/11/2025 12:56

‘A bit useless’. Come on….you're joking right? This government is beyond useless on every level. And we have a chancellor scarily out of her depth, who we’re depending on to turn the chaos round, who keeps u turning on everything because she is clueless, and who in less than a week is going to be delivering a budget that is probably going to bring us to our knees. ‘A lot useless’ would be closer to the truth.

As imperfect as Labour is right now, they are trying to turn around an economy that has been annihilated by 15 years of the Tories, Brexit and COVID.

They inherited a catastrophic, chaotic fiscal nightmare and anyone thinking that it would be sorted out by now is delusional.

Anyway. That's all within the realms of normal politics. Trump and his administration are not. The two are not remotely comparable, imo.

Livelovebehappy · 19/11/2025 12:56

DdraigGoch · 19/11/2025 12:34

It's not really similar at all. We have a government who are a bit useless. The US has a corrupt, perverted, grifting toddler wielding a wrecking ball.

‘A bit useless’. Come on….you're joking right? This government is beyond useless on every level. And we have a chancellor scarily out of her depth, who we’re depending on to turn the chaos round, who keeps u turning on everything because she is clueless, and who in less than a week is going to be delivering a budget that is probably going to bring us to our knees. ‘A lot useless’ would be closer to the truth.

Fevre · 19/11/2025 12:51

Sartre · 19/11/2025 12:41

JD Vance was pretty sensible 10 years ago when he wrote Hillbilly Elegy. In it he said people didn’t like Obama because he wasn’t like them but that wasn’t to do with race, it was because he was middle class, educated and articulate.

Basically, they like Trump because, despite being a billionaire who was born into considerable wealth, he talks and acts more like they do. He says the sort of things lots of working class folk say down the pub. Same for Farage.

Agree, although I think racism and Obama was a factor. I remember one interview with MAGA supporters in 2016, that basically amounted to 'he hates the same people/things we hate.'

The fact that Trump hates them as well is another thing.

Livelovebehappy · 19/11/2025 12:50

IBorAlevels · 19/11/2025 11:05

I genuinely don't know what Americans expect at this point. He has a criminal record. He did the whole "grab em by the pussy" schtick. He is in the Epstein report. He has been bankrupt and has corruption track records going back decades. He always tries to spark division and hate. He has presided over telling people autism is caused by paracetamol and doesn't believe in Climate Change. He banned abortions FGS.

They VOTED for him. It isn't a game, they chose this.

And what was the alternative they were offered? Someone rushed through at the last minute because the incompetent Democrats couldn't get their shit together…

Fevre · 19/11/2025 12:47

DdraigGoch · 19/11/2025 11:41

I don't think that there has been a free and fair election in the US for a long time. Never mind Elon hacking the polling machines last year or whatever went on in Florida in 2000, the amount of gerrymandering and voter suppression is appalling.

I agree. I suppose I mean that we've seen the last one that presented - by and large - as being a democratic, free and fair election, with the results accepted by the AP and the rest of the world.

The next one is going to see that train hurtling off the rails. The groundwork is being laid for Trump's (or my wild card guess, Trump Junior) third term.I predict 'because of the safety of the country/some state of (self-made) emergency situation.'

American Democracy - as we know it, imperfections and all - will not survive Trump. He'll bring it all down with him.

Let's hope I'm wrong!

Sartre · 19/11/2025 12:41

JD Vance was pretty sensible 10 years ago when he wrote Hillbilly Elegy. In it he said people didn’t like Obama because he wasn’t like them but that wasn’t to do with race, it was because he was middle class, educated and articulate.

Basically, they like Trump because, despite being a billionaire who was born into considerable wealth, he talks and acts more like they do. He says the sort of things lots of working class folk say down the pub. Same for Farage.

DdraigGoch · 19/11/2025 12:34

Livelovebehappy · 19/11/2025 09:56

Similar to the situation we are in the UK really. Dumb people voting in Labour, not because Starmer was going to be a great leader, but because they wanted the useless Tories out. And now here we are with a government who is slowly bringing our country to its knees, with its main players exiting left stage due to fiddling/corruption (one currently who has escaped due to other big news story saving her arse) and we’re left with someone who is of no use because every time he tries to vote through anything of significance, his lefty back benchers vote against it, so we’re left with a leader who is not fit for purpose.

It's not really similar at all. We have a government who are a bit useless. The US has a corrupt, perverted, grifting toddler wielding a wrecking ball.

BeeWitchy · 19/11/2025 11:51

cardibach · 19/11/2025 11:46

Anything before the ‘but’ can always be discounted…

Sometimes yes, but not always.

MissyMooPoo2 · 19/11/2025 11:47

EddyF · 18/11/2025 19:48

Trump told a female reporter this. How come this behaviour is accepted but if it was former president Obama, people would have lost their mind. Obama had to practically be ‘perfect’. When Obama wore a tan suit, it was such a huge deal.

Racism is a sick illness.

You are being unreasonable to make this about race.

cardibach · 19/11/2025 11:46

RedTagAlan · 19/11/2025 09:06

Always a " but" somewhere.

Anything before the ‘but’ can always be discounted…

DdraigGoch · 19/11/2025 11:41

Fevre · 19/11/2025 00:05

This.

It's a series of increasingly head-in-hands dead cats from the WH.

My (depressing) belief is that we've seen the last free and fair presidential election in the US for a period of time. No country has an automatic right to a democracy, after all. Not even America.

Really worrying times.

I don't think that there has been a free and fair election in the US for a long time. Never mind Elon hacking the polling machines last year or whatever went on in Florida in 2000, the amount of gerrymandering and voter suppression is appalling.

DdraigGoch · 19/11/2025 11:36

Linzi2377 · 18/11/2025 23:42

I wonder why he despises the media 🤔

Perhaps it's because they call him out on his bullshit? The reputable ones do anyway.

oneoneone · 19/11/2025 11:32

DuncinToffee · 19/11/2025 10:47

Which media do you follow instead?

Oh, you know, X, TikTok, GB News, Fox, Facebook. No shit stirring or division to be found there.

Not to mention not having to worry about any pesky facts.

TemuTrinny · 19/11/2025 11:05

Themagicfarawaytreeismyfav · 19/11/2025 10:29

The mainstream media…shit stirring trouble makers who cause division!

Where do you get your news from?

IBorAlevels · 19/11/2025 11:05

I genuinely don't know what Americans expect at this point. He has a criminal record. He did the whole "grab em by the pussy" schtick. He is in the Epstein report. He has been bankrupt and has corruption track records going back decades. He always tries to spark division and hate. He has presided over telling people autism is caused by paracetamol and doesn't believe in Climate Change. He banned abortions FGS.

They VOTED for him. It isn't a game, they chose this.

StrikeForever · 19/11/2025 10:56

Ponoka7 · 19/11/2025 09:28

Well so has the UK ignored all the human rights abuses and murders, via Saudi because we want their money poured into our sport. It's actually worse than Trump's political motives. We protect the worse people imaginable. We don't ask for individual explanations from police officers and leaders why they've ignored child sexual abuse. There never was the prosecutions over Hillsborough/the Post Office scandal and now the morning sickness drug scandal etc. We can't point fingers.

And all that makes Trump’s behaviour acceptable? Your comment is ridiculous 🙄

IsawwhatIsaw · 19/11/2025 10:56

Sounds like the kind of insult that would be used in a Reception class by a 4 year old.

WalkDontWalk · 19/11/2025 10:55

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 18/11/2025 20:40

Thinking rationally here; he said "Quiet, piggy!". Not the same as saying "Shut up!". He's not a fan of Bloomberg which she is a reporter for. The outlet is probably a heavily-biased news outlet favoured by Democrats. He was probably thinking a lot worse but was tame in his words given he was on camera. 'Piggy' is hardly insulting and if you find that it is, then, well, no advice for you from me. It's all tabloid fodder designed to rile people up, and it's worked.

If you think that that's thinking rationally, you probably shouldn't be allowed anything sharp.

DuncinToffee · 19/11/2025 10:47

Themagicfarawaytreeismyfav · 19/11/2025 10:29

The mainstream media…shit stirring trouble makers who cause division!

Which media do you follow instead?

JHound · 19/11/2025 10:46

Themagicfarawaytreeismyfav · 19/11/2025 10:29

The mainstream media…shit stirring trouble makers who cause division!

How are they causing division by reporting Trump’s words?

Themagicfarawaytreeismyfav · 19/11/2025 10:29

TemuTrinny · 19/11/2025 08:47

What utter nonsense. Which media are you referring to specifically?

The mainstream media…shit stirring trouble makers who cause division!

JHound · 19/11/2025 10:04

EddyF · 18/11/2025 19:48

Trump told a female reporter this. How come this behaviour is accepted but if it was former president Obama, people would have lost their mind. Obama had to practically be ‘perfect’. When Obama wore a tan suit, it was such a huge deal.

Racism is a sick illness.

And let’s be clear Obama could not get away with a lot of things Trump has. He could not get away with calling female reporters “pigs”, he would never have been elected had he bragged about grabbing women “by the p*ssy”. And if Obama had multiple kids for 3 baby mothers (ok, “wives”) like Trump he would never get NEAR the presidency.

But there are certain “privileges” that afford different treatment based on your demographics.