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EddyF · 18/11/2025 19:48

Trump told a female reporter this. How come this behaviour is accepted but if it was former president Obama, people would have lost their mind. Obama had to practically be ‘perfect’. When Obama wore a tan suit, it was such a huge deal.

Racism is a sick illness.

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DdraigGoch · 21/11/2025 17:26

DuncinToffee · 21/11/2025 16:24

Whilst thinking of invading Venezuela and Mexico

He's already been bombing Venezuelan fishermen and has planted a flag on Mexican territory so...

DuncinToffee · 21/11/2025 16:24

sidebirds · 21/11/2025 09:05

Trump now in the midst of a fresh attempt to bring about peace in the war between Russia and Ukraine 🤔

Whilst thinking of invading Venezuela and Mexico

sidebirds · 21/11/2025 09:05

Trump now in the midst of a fresh attempt to bring about peace in the war between Russia and Ukraine 🤔

DuncinToffee · 21/11/2025 08:58

Livelovebehappy · 21/11/2025 08:17

And you know Biden was surrounded by ‘sensible people’ how? It really isn’t sensible to hide from your country that your President is ill and doesn’t have the capacity to make important decisions. The country had voted Biden in, not some faceless people who were more concerned about losing their own places of authority than having concerns for an ill man or a country with no leader. The Democrats manipulated and lied, and that isn’t ‘sensible’.

You watch Trump and you typed that with a straight face?

Livelovebehappy · 21/11/2025 08:17

DdraigGoch · 21/11/2025 01:28

Whereas the Republicans haven't fielded a candidate with mental capacity since the 2012 election.

Even in Biden's least competent moments, he was surrounded by sensible people who could keep the country running. The people who kept Trump in check last time around have all been purged, he is now surrounded by various alcoholics and media 'personalities' with no clue how to run a government. Meanwhile Peter Thiel and Steve Miller lurk in the shadows.

And you know Biden was surrounded by ‘sensible people’ how? It really isn’t sensible to hide from your country that your President is ill and doesn’t have the capacity to make important decisions. The country had voted Biden in, not some faceless people who were more concerned about losing their own places of authority than having concerns for an ill man or a country with no leader. The Democrats manipulated and lied, and that isn’t ‘sensible’.

Pharazon · 21/11/2025 07:48

Sparklesandspandexgallore · 18/11/2025 20:18

Why is he never brought to account for anything?

Brought to account by whom? He’s the most powerful man in the world and the supposed “checks and balances” built into the US constitution have been shown to be a paper tiger.

DdraigGoch · 21/11/2025 01:28

Livelovebehappy · 20/11/2025 22:16

I guess for much the same reason the Democrats didn't field a candidate with mental capacity until 2 months before the election when it was too late. It's unbelievable that out of 150milluon population that Biden, Harris and Trump are supposedly the best candidates they had at their disposal.

Whereas the Republicans haven't fielded a candidate with mental capacity since the 2012 election.

Even in Biden's least competent moments, he was surrounded by sensible people who could keep the country running. The people who kept Trump in check last time around have all been purged, he is now surrounded by various alcoholics and media 'personalities' with no clue how to run a government. Meanwhile Peter Thiel and Steve Miller lurk in the shadows.

Livelovebehappy · 20/11/2025 22:16

IBorAlevels · 20/11/2025 20:32

I would have voted for a potato rather than a felon. Why couldn't the Republicans find anyone without a criminal record?

I guess for much the same reason the Democrats didn't field a candidate with mental capacity until 2 months before the election when it was too late. It's unbelievable that out of 150milluon population that Biden, Harris and Trump are supposedly the best candidates they had at their disposal.

StandFirm · 20/11/2025 20:41

DuncinToffee · 20/11/2025 15:15

"Had they put a candidate forward who had the mental capacity and strength of character to lead, then they would have wiped the floor with Trump."

Instead they voted for a man who is now calling for the execution of Democrats

https://bsky.app/profile/kylegriffin1.bsky.social/post/3m62y6b5k622p

Trump is now seeming to endorse execution for his perceived enemies — retweeting a post that called for the hanging of Democrats who told servicemembers to refuse illegal orders.

He also claims the Dems are engaging in 'seditious behavior'.

Seditious behaviour...
He's one to talk.

IBorAlevels · 20/11/2025 20:32

Livelovebehappy · 19/11/2025 12:50

And what was the alternative they were offered? Someone rushed through at the last minute because the incompetent Democrats couldn't get their shit together…

I would have voted for a potato rather than a felon. Why couldn't the Republicans find anyone without a criminal record?

Fevre · 20/11/2025 18:14

DuncinToffee · 20/11/2025 15:15

"Had they put a candidate forward who had the mental capacity and strength of character to lead, then they would have wiped the floor with Trump."

Instead they voted for a man who is now calling for the execution of Democrats

https://bsky.app/profile/kylegriffin1.bsky.social/post/3m62y6b5k622p

Trump is now seeming to endorse execution for his perceived enemies — retweeting a post that called for the hanging of Democrats who told servicemembers to refuse illegal orders.

He also claims the Dems are engaging in 'seditious behavior'.

Here we go. The release of the Epstein Files will unleash more dead cats than a pet cemetery.

DuncinToffee · 20/11/2025 15:15

"Had they put a candidate forward who had the mental capacity and strength of character to lead, then they would have wiped the floor with Trump."

Instead they voted for a man who is now calling for the execution of Democrats

https://bsky.app/profile/kylegriffin1.bsky.social/post/3m62y6b5k622p

Trump is now seeming to endorse execution for his perceived enemies — retweeting a post that called for the hanging of Democrats who told servicemembers to refuse illegal orders.

He also claims the Dems are engaging in 'seditious behavior'.

Kyle Griffin (@kylegriffin1.bsky.social)

Trump is now seeming to endorse execution for his perceived enemies — retweeting a post that called for the hanging of Democrats who told servicemembers to refuse illegal orders. He also claims the Dems are engaging in 'seditious behavior'.

https://bsky.app/profile/kylegriffin1.bsky.social/post/3m62y6b5k622p

danascully96 · 20/11/2025 14:19

"Had they put a candidate forward who had the mental capacity and strength of character to lead, then they would have wiped the floor with Trump."

@Livelovebehappy Maybe the could have found another man to stand in Biden's place, but Biden was already the presumptive nominee.

Also, the Republicans should've put forward someone who wasn't a maniac like Trump. You didn't address Trump's "word salad" speeches.

CoffeeCantata · 20/11/2025 13:48

Hmmm - I wouldn't call racism.

But the comparison with Obama's conduct is painful. It's often mentioned in our house. When was the last time the US had a dignified, statesmanlike president we all respected? Obama.

It's not so much the race issue but the horrendous vulgarisation of the presidency and all its institutions that I notice. When I think that once George Dubya was mocked and seen as none-too-bright, unintellectual, right wing, gung ho etc. Come back, all is forgiven!

I think the final straw for me was the storming of the White House a few years ago. I thought "America is now a third world country - or is behaving like one". It's as though the barbarians have taken over.

Patricia69 · 20/11/2025 11:08

He’s never held accountable for anything, so he thinks he’s invincible. He is in a way as he gets away with it. He’s a coward and a bully and nuts . He’s ordinary and not above the law and an asdholr

RedTagAlan · 20/11/2025 09:19

DdraigGoch · 20/11/2025 09:06

And now a court has blocked Texas' redistricting. But the Californian one is already law so it goes ahead (and it's legal because it's not designed to discriminate on racial grounds like the Texas one was). The Texas Republicans were getting nervous about it anyway, the tighter you redistrict the more vulnerable to a swing you are, and now all of the publicity has galvanised other states into action.

Yup. And it's never ending.

What I have noticed that has stopped though, is Americans barking " we have check and balances" at you when discussing politics.

As we are all seeing, they don't have any checks and balances at all.

I reckon if we put a bunch of political scientists in a room and asked them to come up with a system, they would really struggle to invent a system as bad as the US one is now.

At least us Brits can effectively sack our PM.

DdraigGoch · 20/11/2025 09:06

RedTagAlan · 20/11/2025 08:51

Yup, US politics are really really dirty.

Have you seen the Gerrymandering that goes on ? Shocking. Picking and choosing demographic areas and bolting them together.

The 12 Most Gerrymandered Districts In America (ranker.com)

I have been following the Gavin Newsom V Texas redistricting battle. Newsom played a blinder. Texas redistricted to gain Repub seats, and Newsom done the same in California to wipe out potential Repub gains.

What happens to California's redistricting after Texas' congressional maps were struck down in court? - CBS News

I can totally understand US voters malaise at the dems rolling out the same "establishment" type candidates all the time.

This Newsom fella is the guy I am watching. He is out Trumping Trump in many ways.

And now a court has blocked Texas' redistricting. But the Californian one is already law so it goes ahead (and it's legal because it's not designed to discriminate on racial grounds like the Texas one was). The Texas Republicans were getting nervous about it anyway, the tighter you redistrict the more vulnerable to a swing you are, and now all of the publicity has galvanised other states into action.

Livelovebehappy · 20/11/2025 08:55

CurlewKate · 20/11/2025 07:59

No,I don’t get that point, although I see why people make it. If you change your vote to one that is diametrically opposed to everything you believe in because you don’t like the candidate, then that’s down to you as a voter. And if you chose Trump over Harris, then there’s a good chance racism and misogyny was involved too.

But Democratic voters didn’t necessarily change their vote. They just abstained from voting at all. Harris just didn’t appeal to Democratic voters at all, besides which she was pushed in at the last minute with barely any time to get the voters onside. Bear in mind too that she’d already been put forward as a possible candidate previously and polls had shown she was unpopular. Maybe there are a large demographic of voters in America who are misogynistic, but the Democrats knew that and still pushed forward with an unpopular candidate.

RedTagAlan · 20/11/2025 08:51

DdraigGoch · 20/11/2025 08:29

@RedTagAlan Dems outnumber republicans, but the problem is getting them to the polling stations.

There's a reason for that:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Voter_suppression_in_the_United_States
In March 2020, it was reported that Texas leads the South in closing down voting places, making it more difficult for Democratic-leaning African-Americans and Latinos to vote. The 50 counties that have experienced the greatest increases in African-American and Latino populations had 542 polling sites closed between 2012 and 2018, while those with the lowest increases in minority populations had only 34 closures

Yup, US politics are really really dirty.

Have you seen the Gerrymandering that goes on ? Shocking. Picking and choosing demographic areas and bolting them together.

The 12 Most Gerrymandered Districts In America (ranker.com)

I have been following the Gavin Newsom V Texas redistricting battle. Newsom played a blinder. Texas redistricted to gain Repub seats, and Newsom done the same in California to wipe out potential Repub gains.

What happens to California's redistricting after Texas' congressional maps were struck down in court? - CBS News

I can totally understand US voters malaise at the dems rolling out the same "establishment" type candidates all the time.

This Newsom fella is the guy I am watching. He is out Trumping Trump in many ways.

The Most Gerrymandered Districts In America

You've likely heard about gerrymandering in the United States. As the country becomes more and more divided over political issues, it's a term that comes up a lot. So what is gerrymandering, and why is it so bad?Gerrymandering is a tool employed by man...

https://www.ranker.com/list/most-gerrymandered-districts-in-america/eric-vega

Livelovebehappy · 20/11/2025 08:49

danascully96 · 20/11/2025 06:03

@Livelovebehappy ”Aren’t you a tiny bit pissed off that the Democrats acted with such stupidity?”

Nah, they knew a white man, even one with a declining brain, stood a better chance for election than a woman. Also, Trump’s mind is also wobbly. Have you seen his “word salad” speeches?

Well then that was stupid. If they honestly thought that someone clearly mentally unwell was going to be a good leader, apart from the fact that it was also cruel to use him in this way, then it says even more about the morals and character of these people. Not by any means championing Trump here, but pointing out that a lot of the blame lies with the Democrats. Had they put a candidate forward who had the mental capacity and strength of character to lead, then they would have wiped the floor with Trump.

DdraigGoch · 20/11/2025 08:29

@RedTagAlan Dems outnumber republicans, but the problem is getting them to the polling stations.

There's a reason for that:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Voter_suppression_in_the_United_States
In March 2020, it was reported that Texas leads the South in closing down voting places, making it more difficult for Democratic-leaning African-Americans and Latinos to vote. The 50 counties that have experienced the greatest increases in African-American and Latino populations had 542 polling sites closed between 2012 and 2018, while those with the lowest increases in minority populations had only 34 closures

CurlewKate · 20/11/2025 07:59

Livelovebehappy · 19/11/2025 17:09

But you do get the point that Trump being voted in was largely down to the Democrats? I mean, they were so dumb that they really thought they could sell the idea to the voters that Biden was competent and healthy, when it became apparent pretty early on inthe run up to the election that he really wasn’t. Aren’t you a tiny bit pissed off that the Democrats acted with such stupidity? I’d be pretty sceptical myself about a party who tried to sell this to the masses, that they’d be any better than Trump. At least with Trump the Americans pretty much knew what they were getting. The poor democrat voters had no idea who they were getting….

No,I don’t get that point, although I see why people make it. If you change your vote to one that is diametrically opposed to everything you believe in because you don’t like the candidate, then that’s down to you as a voter. And if you chose Trump over Harris, then there’s a good chance racism and misogyny was involved too.

Notonthestairs · 20/11/2025 07:28

cardibach · 20/11/2025 00:06

This has got abuser vibes…look what you made me do!
People who voted for Trump need to take responsibility for that. Staying home and not voting would have been better.

You didn’t expect Republicans to take responsibility for him did you?

danascully96 · 20/11/2025 06:03

@Livelovebehappy ”Aren’t you a tiny bit pissed off that the Democrats acted with such stupidity?”

Nah, they knew a white man, even one with a declining brain, stood a better chance for election than a woman. Also, Trump’s mind is also wobbly. Have you seen his “word salad” speeches?

RedTagAlan · 20/11/2025 02:12

cardibach · 20/11/2025 00:06

This has got abuser vibes…look what you made me do!
People who voted for Trump need to take responsibility for that. Staying home and not voting would have been better.

Agree with you re the vibes, but not the not voting bit.

If you have a vote, should use it.

A quick BING to confirm numbers, 37.4 million registered Republicans in the US, 44.1 million registered dems.

Dems outnumber republicans, but the problem is getting them to the polling stations. The Republican core though vote every time. And there is the electoral college, that benefits the repubs.

The amazing thing is with Trump tho, is he won the last election while showing apparent ignorance of how to win.

When he was saying thing on Fox news, along the lines of " we will win X state, and Y state", it actually disincentivizes his voters to vote. They might say " why bother, we will win anyway.".