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“Shut up, piggy”.

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EddyF · 18/11/2025 19:48

Trump told a female reporter this. How come this behaviour is accepted but if it was former president Obama, people would have lost their mind. Obama had to practically be ‘perfect’. When Obama wore a tan suit, it was such a huge deal.

Racism is a sick illness.

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Namechanged999999 · 18/11/2025 21:17

Carla786 · 18/11/2025 21:12

What did Obama do,? I have a list of bad policies, but did he stoop as low as Trump?

Trump is literally getting billions from a corrupt Saudi prince. Did he call someone piggy in order to take attention from that? Why is no one talking about the Saudi trump tower?? Trump is quite obviously just wanting to make billions from any corrupt shit he can find and he is doing it in plain sight. Maybe just me thinking that then?

OtherS · 18/11/2025 21:17

Well, you're right in saying everyone would have lost their minds if Obama had done it, but I really don't think that has anything to do with racism! Even people who dislike him acknowledge him as intelligent, dignified, well-mannered and very definitely presidential, and so would obviously be absolutely horrified if they saw him behave anything like this. Same goes for any other politician, including sex pest Clinton and barely conscious Biden. The fact that is isn't breaking headline news across the globe is precisely because we all know how revolting, dim-witted and ill-bred this repugnant little man is so we aren't even surprised anymore. Comparing him to Obama is downright offensive.

oneoneone · 18/11/2025 21:16

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 18/11/2025 20:40

Thinking rationally here; he said "Quiet, piggy!". Not the same as saying "Shut up!". He's not a fan of Bloomberg which she is a reporter for. The outlet is probably a heavily-biased news outlet favoured by Democrats. He was probably thinking a lot worse but was tame in his words given he was on camera. 'Piggy' is hardly insulting and if you find that it is, then, well, no advice for you from me. It's all tabloid fodder designed to rile people up, and it's worked.

Like many Trump defenders, I think you might be confusing 'thinking rationally' with rationalisation. It dripped out of his little anus-mouth, so it must be ok. Somehow.

To the pps who mentioned Jamal Khashoggi. Yes, that was a disgusting display, seeming to imply Khashoggi might have deserved his fate?

thetemptationofchocolate · 18/11/2025 21:16

Waitingfordoggo · 18/11/2025 20:50

@YorkshireGoldDrinker Of course it’s insulting! But the fact it’s insulting almost takes a back seat to how utterly fucking weird it is. It’s the sort of thing a small child might say to another small child.

But this is an old man saying it. An old man who happens to be POTUS. I think this would have been unimaginable just a decade ago.

A decade ago Trump was on the campaign trail for the first time and during that campaign he mocked a reporter's disability.
He's always been disgusting, and he always will be.

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CrystalMighty · 18/11/2025 21:16

LingeringDogFart · 18/11/2025 20:20

And yet if someone said ‘Quiet Piggy’ to Melania…

I would love for someone now to say that publicly to Melania. Just to see his reaction. Depressingly though, I think i can imagine.

Happyjoe · 18/11/2025 21:14

To be honest, it's quite mild compared to other things he is doing, Epstein, corruption, taking away aid, ICE, bombing boats and killing without due process, the list goes on...
Teflon, don't know why, but he seems to be made of Teflon. I long for the days (inc in the UK) where politicians had to have high standards and quit at first whiff of a scandal.

SilenceInside · 18/11/2025 21:12

PInkyStarfish · 18/11/2025 21:10

If you watch the whole thing she was going on and on and on and talking over him.

Oh right, well that totally explains and justifies what he said......

BlushingBrightly · 18/11/2025 21:12

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 18/11/2025 20:40

Thinking rationally here; he said "Quiet, piggy!". Not the same as saying "Shut up!". He's not a fan of Bloomberg which she is a reporter for. The outlet is probably a heavily-biased news outlet favoured by Democrats. He was probably thinking a lot worse but was tame in his words given he was on camera. 'Piggy' is hardly insulting and if you find that it is, then, well, no advice for you from me. It's all tabloid fodder designed to rile people up, and it's worked.

'Thinking rationally' 🤣🤣🤣

'Piggy is hardly insulting' 😂😂😂

Do tell us when your stand up act is touring

PandoraSocks · 18/11/2025 21:12

@YorkshireGoldDrinker If you said "quiet piggy" to someone in your workplace, what would happen?

Carla786 · 18/11/2025 21:12

BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 18/11/2025 20:24

Trump sycophants will accept anything
As would Obama sycophants

But most people are not just accepting that Trump said that. They just don't know what they can do any more, it's so low down on the list of things that man is getting away with (it's not even the worse thing he's said yesterday/today!)

What did Obama do,? I have a list of bad policies, but did he stoop as low as Trump?

SilenceInside · 18/11/2025 21:11

@Andregroup He has used the "piggy" insult before, several times, aimed at women. I think in his mind, attempting to insult what a woman looks like is the most effective insult you can make to a woman. That you aren't attractive to him. Therefore you are worthless in his eyes, because that's the only way he values women.

Carla786 · 18/11/2025 21:11

LilyCanna · 18/11/2025 20:29

He recently shared an AI video of him literally dumping shit on the American people from a plane.
It makes you feel you’re going insane or in some weird dream.

Yes, and the cultists defended that as perfectly professional! Insane....

PInkyStarfish · 18/11/2025 21:10

If you watch the whole thing she was going on and on and on and talking over him.

Carla786 · 18/11/2025 21:08

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 18/11/2025 20:43

It is insulting. Not a single other US president in living memory would have said such a thing in public. It's a mystery how Trump gets away with everything he says and does.

Have you seen Tiger King? Carol Baskin could be criticised for a lot, but many people who loved it often hated her yet ignored Joe Exotic's animal abuse.

There's a theory that bad people who revel openly in being bad, like Exotic and Trump, are better liked than people who are seen as hiding bad behavior behind a good front. Essentially, people become so cynical that openly bad behaviour is seen paradoxically as an indicator of honesty and goodness (vice signalling). Which is obviously corrosive

Also think badly behaved men can get away with more. Baskin could be compared to Hillary Clinton.

There's also the celebrity side. Trump & Exotic play off their behaviour as celebrity tantrums. Celebrity culture & individualism has long been big in the US. Tellingly, Exotic even got quite a few votes when he ran a presidential campaign.

Neil Postman foresaw this when he wrote about TV making people treat politics as a show rather than a serious matter. It had only got worse since then.

https://medium.com/@harrisonpurp/why-do-we-love-joe-exotic-and-hate-carole-baskin-695cca569009

Why Do We Love Joe Exotic and Hate Carole Baskin?

I don’t have an answer! But there is a pressing question on my mind about Netflix’s Tiger King

https://medium.com/@harrisonpurp/why-do-we-love-joe-exotic-and-hate-carole-baskin-695cca569009

Willcancelagainsoon · 18/11/2025 21:08

How is this racist?

Timeforabitofpeace · 18/11/2025 21:08

If anyone is the pig, it’s Trump.

Namechanged999999 · 18/11/2025 21:06

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 18/11/2025 20:40

Thinking rationally here; he said "Quiet, piggy!". Not the same as saying "Shut up!". He's not a fan of Bloomberg which she is a reporter for. The outlet is probably a heavily-biased news outlet favoured by Democrats. He was probably thinking a lot worse but was tame in his words given he was on camera. 'Piggy' is hardly insulting and if you find that it is, then, well, no advice for you from me. It's all tabloid fodder designed to rile people up, and it's worked.

If someone called you piggy you wouldn’t find it insulting??

JudgeJ · 18/11/2025 21:06

Sparklesandspandexgallore · 18/11/2025 20:18

Why is he never brought to account for anything?

By whom? For a very large number of Americans he is a hero, they care for nothing beyond their own shores and share his contempt of women. It really wouldn't surprise me if he managed to twist the rules for a third term, he will certainly be looking to place his family into the queue so he can continue to pull the strings.

tobee · 18/11/2025 21:05

He's reduced politics and the office of President of the United States to its basest level. That's what's concerning.

Eudaimonia11 · 18/11/2025 21:03

Trump can say and do whatever he wants with no consequences, it’s frightening.

If Keir Starmer was caught on camera saying that to someone, he’d be forced to hand in his resignation by the end of the day.

I was appalled (but not shocked) at his behaviour towards the ABC reporter at his press conference with the Crown Prince. He said something like “you’re a terrible person and a terrible reporter” and went on to indirectly threaten her job. Can you imagine saying “you’re a terrible person” to anyone in a professional work setting? It’s so personal and hurtful. She was doing her job, he could make a complaint about her manner but to be so horrible to her live on television was awful.

tobee · 18/11/2025 21:02

Of course I don't have authority over what anyone says. Nor does anyone else. If you think that's the whole point then I have no advice for you @YorkshireGoldDrinker .

Thebigonesgetaway · 18/11/2025 21:02

I am not sure many are accepting it op, and I don’t understand how you think it’s racism, Obama would never have said that.

Andregroup · 18/11/2025 21:01

Piggy? It's bizarre. Had he been reading the Lord of the Flies or something? But no, that would be too intellectual for him - maybe watching the film? It's just such a weird thing to say. Who calls anyone piggy these days? And for what - it used to be 'greedy pig' if you ate more than your fair share of the Sunday roast, but even that isn't really said anymore I don't think. Very strange thing for him to say. Just weird.

SwirlyGates · 18/11/2025 21:00

ShenandoahRiver · 18/11/2025 19:51

What is actually worse is that he is defending Prince Mohammed bin Salman in the White House this evening - defending him over the horrific murder of Jamal Khashoggi in 2018.

Horrendous. The man has no morals and no compassion.

Carla786 · 18/11/2025 21:00

ShenandoahRiver · 18/11/2025 20:42

@MO0N
Exactly. Marjorie Taylor Green has said she has received death threats after he called her a traitor. And she has been one of his staunchest defenders for years. But Epstein was a step too far for her.

I do respect her for that. Also for calling out the starvation of Gaza. Israel must defend itself but not by starving civilians.

She is loathsome in some ways but she has courage & principles.