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To think retail and fast food jobs teach you more life skills than school ever did?

53 replies

FrontTillPHD · 18/11/2025 15:13

People love to look down on retail, hospitality or fast food work, like it’s something you “grow out of” or leave behind once you get a “real job.” But honestly I think those jobs teach you resilience.

You learn how to stay calm under pressure, how to handle difficult people, how to read the room, how to speak clearly and how to meet people’s needs, fast. You don’t get that from sitting in a classroom or even from some fancy office job where you don’t deal with the public.

If you’ve done any customer-facing job, you know. There’s a toughness, a people-sense and a work ethic that gets built in, and it stays with you.

AIBU to think we don’t give enough credit to how much you grow in those kinds of jobs?

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Skybluepinky · 18/11/2025 15:24

School isn’t for life skills, parents should be teaching you life skills so if you are lacking not the schools fault.

Fearfulsaints · 18/11/2025 15:21

I think people give a lot of credit to those sorts of jobs and the skills you gain from them, which is why employers rate them so highly when looking for your next role.

I dont think the main purpose school is to teach those skills anyway.

I dont think people would 'grow out of them' if they paid more, or there were more options for career development. A lot of people want to do different work they find more interesting or financially rewarding or easier, or more social hours but it doesnt mean they dont value what they learned.

facewithnumber · 18/11/2025 15:16

Schools aren't there to teach life skills though. They teach academic knowledge.

Though I agree that having a job is very good for young people and teaches them important workplace skills.