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To be put off?

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Miny98 · 17/11/2025 23:01

By the guy I am talking to texting things like ‘you better be ready😉’ and ‘I don’t think I’ll be able to keep my hands off you’ and ‘do you reckon you’ll be able to handle me?’ And ‘we’re going to be up all night’ we haven’t been sexting or anything. Maybe a few suggestive texts. I’m supposed to be seeing him at the weeks and possibly go to his. Would this be off putting to you though?

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Miny98 · 17/11/2025 23:18

Arlanymor · 17/11/2025 23:11

Sounds like he has very specific expectations of the weekend ahead. Do you even want to go that far with him? I would be put off if he was making it out to be a fait accompli that we would sleep together - and in such a yuck way. It sounds like what my first ever serious boyfriend would text me... and we were 18/19 at the time...

Yes and we are actually 28/29. I haven’t dated anyone in a while!

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Arlanymor · 17/11/2025 23:11

Sounds like he has very specific expectations of the weekend ahead. Do you even want to go that far with him? I would be put off if he was making it out to be a fait accompli that we would sleep together - and in such a yuck way. It sounds like what my first ever serious boyfriend would text me... and we were 18/19 at the time...

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