I always had a good relationship with MIL... until I married her DS and gave birth to her GC. It's a tale as old as time really. It started with ridiculous stuff I just ignored, but a decade later and I've had enough, especially now she's upset DH as well. He still wants a relationship with her, which I respect, but I've said I'll only be visiting with him a couple of times per year - and won't have any contact with her aside from that.
It's sad, because I always thought we were close. She's essentially told DH this week she doesn't consider me to be part of her family and she doesn't like how much he does 'for me' (by this, she mostly means the school run). Add this to all the passive aggressive comments about how I'm harming my kids by working full time, not having my husband's tea on the table every night, etc, etc and I just feel done.
AIBU? Should I be able to suck this up? DH is supportive and says he doesn't blame me, but I guess people pleasing plus not wanting to make life difficult for DH is making me question everything.