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To think there's something really off about this woman?

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BelatrixLestrange · 17/11/2025 18:22

Sorry for the Daily Fail link, but this is the third video I've seen over as many weeks with this woman acting oddly possessive over Arianna.

AIBU to think her behaviour is off?

Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo cause a stir with ANOTHER 'ridiculous' red carpet moment | Daily Mail Online https://share.google/sqbD37a6vMwwNNn8m

Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo cause stir with red carpet stunt

The Wicked: For Good co-stars have had multiple 'bizarre' red carpet exchanges when promoting the first Wicked film, with yet another clip now resurfacing.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15297173/Ariana-Grande-Cynthia-Erivo-red-carpet-necklace.html

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AgnesXNitt · 17/11/2025 21:24

Ariana Grande getting named in the OP when the at least equally (and imo more) talented Cynthia Erivo gets "this woman" speaks volumes.

The marketing for Wicked has admittedly been strange - they are clearly LARPing as their characters.

BelatrixLestrange · 17/11/2025 21:22

This wasn't about their weight. It was about Cynthias weird possessive attention seeking behaviour towards Ariana.

It comes across creepy and narcissistic.

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TheKeatingFive · 17/11/2025 21:16

Thebigonesgetaway · 17/11/2025 21:01

Don’t understand why Michelle Obama is being mentioned on this thread, she looks amazing, and is a hugely intelligent women.

these two actresses are talented, but come across very very odd, and they do look under weight.

I expect she's being mentioned because she's lost weight and there was a bit of a segue into celebrities getting thinner

Thebigonesgetaway · 17/11/2025 21:01

Don’t understand why Michelle Obama is being mentioned on this thread, she looks amazing, and is a hugely intelligent women.

these two actresses are talented, but come across very very odd, and they do look under weight.

RescueMeFromThisSilliness · 17/11/2025 20:56

FlayOtters · 17/11/2025 19:14

Just to clarify, this is from the last film promo tour. It's an old clip that the daily fail are dragging up for no reason.

Bit of a quiet day on the sleb 'scandal' front, maybe.

They've probably had this story (for want of a better word) on the back burner for months already.

BelatrixLestrange · 17/11/2025 20:49

AlertGoldDeer · 17/11/2025 20:06

One day someone will figure out why people on here insist on the faux hatred of daily mail. Every other link posted on here is from daily mail. Who do you need to pretend, OP, that you don’t read it. You do, just own it.

The pretence is a bit sad and embarrassing.

Of course I read it. Otherwise where would I have got the link from? I still feel the need to apologise for its existence because it's a trash paper. And what?

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JoeSikoraTommysStory · 17/11/2025 20:48

‘It says raising eyebrows’ ironic when neither appears to have any.

lhavetoask · 17/11/2025 20:08

I think both of them are strange, it’s like they’re forcing the dynamic duo image.

AlertGoldDeer · 17/11/2025 20:06

One day someone will figure out why people on here insist on the faux hatred of daily mail. Every other link posted on here is from daily mail. Who do you need to pretend, OP, that you don’t read it. You do, just own it.

The pretence is a bit sad and embarrassing.

namechangetheworld · 17/11/2025 19:46

They're both equally odd. And their 'friendship' is quite clearly manufactured, since they're never seen spending any time together outside of Wicked promos.

Some competitive undereating must have been going on during filming, because this pair, and Michelle Yeoh, now look like walking corpses.

ThatCyanCat · 17/11/2025 19:40

Cynthia is a bit bonkers but it's almost unavoidable in that world, and it's not surprising that they're closely bonded after working on those two blockbuster films, plus they just naturally really get on, which is great given the roles they're playing. Both hugely talented too.

I do worry a bit about how thin they both are, though. I know they're naturally slim built but they do seem to have had a lot taken out of them. I hope they're both OK.

FlayOtters · 17/11/2025 19:14

Just to clarify, this is from the last film promo tour. It's an old clip that the daily fail are dragging up for no reason.

bottledboot · 17/11/2025 19:03

undereating even!

BlueBarnOwl · 17/11/2025 19:03

Michelle O:

To think there's something really off about this woman?
bottledboot · 17/11/2025 19:03

competitive underrating

SomethingAboutNothing · 17/11/2025 19:02

Just read the article and this is an old clip from the last film release. Still a very strange interaction but one that has been dragged out a year after it happened for the clicks.

TheKeatingFive · 17/11/2025 19:00

The body positivity movement is dead

TheKeatingFive · 17/11/2025 18:59

They both need help for eating disorders and their relationship appears a bit co-dependent and weird

BelatrixLestrange · 17/11/2025 18:57

Folie a deux, just looked that up. It definitely feels like something like that. Very codependent.

Though it makes me uncomfortable because Ariana seems so uncomfortable with everything this woman does, whilst simultaneously making excuses for her. She scares me a bit with her intensity.

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NoDramaJustDistance · 17/11/2025 18:57

Why can’t you just refer to “this woman” by her name? Rude as hell

Parsleyforme · 17/11/2025 18:56

I haven’t seen the whole interview but the DM video ends with them both making weird faces, Ariana looking a bit pissed off. It’s a weird thing to do in the middle of the interview. I’ve seen Ariana talk about how unhappy she was when she used to wear lots of tan, makeup and a fake pony tail, but she looked much healthier then. It must be stressful trying to live up to your dream role but something weird is going on here

DarkPassenger1 · 17/11/2025 18:54

Oof the original video loaded here. I feel like Cynthia really struggles with Ariana being the megastar and has to try and get attention any way she can off her. That necklace thing is just awful, Ariana is trying to speak and Cynthia is faffing around with her insane nails at her jewellery. It strikes me a bit possessive and jealous like she can't bear Ariana to have any attention without it including her.

That, or they mutually agreed on this intense public facing 'friendship' as part of the hype around the movie, and they're playing it up big time.

DarkPassenger1 · 17/11/2025 18:52

I saw the weirdest video where a presenter grabbed and shook Ariana's hand/arm up and down quite vigorously, on stage, and Cynthia leaned over and grabbed Ariana's arm back from him, while Ariana kinda stared at it dazed and trembling, and then Cynthia started like, kissing it? Whatever is going with Ariana, it seems Cynthia is well aware and feels like she has to protect her and step in to rescue her a lot. That, along with the actresses becoming skeletal, screams codependency. There's some really disturbing stuff going on during the filming of that movie imo.

StarlightRobot · 17/11/2025 18:52

I think they need an intervention for anorexia. Their management need to step in and get them real help. They are also role models for little girls. It is very concerning.

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