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To think there's something really off about this woman?

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BelatrixLestrange · 17/11/2025 18:22

Sorry for the Daily Fail link, but this is the third video I've seen over as many weeks with this woman acting oddly possessive over Arianna.

AIBU to think her behaviour is off?

Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo cause a stir with ANOTHER 'ridiculous' red carpet moment | Daily Mail Online https://share.google/sqbD37a6vMwwNNn8m

Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo cause stir with red carpet stunt

The Wicked: For Good co-stars have had multiple 'bizarre' red carpet exchanges when promoting the first Wicked film, with yet another clip now resurfacing.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15297173/Ariana-Grande-Cynthia-Erivo-red-carpet-necklace.html

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AnnunciataM · 28/11/2025 17:35

This is a wonderful piece about Cynthia taking the time to visit her old school. It's really quite touching to see how excited the girls are to see her and how emotional she gets about their admiration. What an inspiration she is for them.

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Catpuss66 · 24/11/2025 01:52

BelatrixLestrange · 21/11/2025 17:56

Goodness, not everything is racism. Honestly, you lot are as bad as the cafe owner who called me racist because I left feedback saying the plastic chairs were uncomfortable. Victim mentality at it's finest.

This sprung to mind from the film hidden figures

Vivian Mitchell (Kirsten Dunst), who claims she has nothing against Black people. Vaughan's simple and poignant reply, "I know you probably believe that",

littleblackdress26 · 23/11/2025 22:23

BelatrixLestrange · 17/11/2025 18:22

Sorry for the Daily Fail link, but this is the third video I've seen over as many weeks with this woman acting oddly possessive over Arianna.

AIBU to think her behaviour is off?

Ariana Grande and Cynthia Erivo cause a stir with ANOTHER 'ridiculous' red carpet moment | Daily Mail Online https://share.google/sqbD37a6vMwwNNn8m

No they're both behaving very off

BatshitOutofHell · 23/11/2025 22:16

TempestTost · 23/11/2025 22:10

Have you never seen The Wizard of Oz? The Wicked Witch of the West has been green since 1939.

Yes but in the original
film greenness wasn’t racialised. She was green because she was a witch. In the wicked films they try to make clunky (imo) political references to the real world. Some of the References do work I have to admit.

ThatCyanCat · 23/11/2025 22:15

BatshitOutofHell · 23/11/2025 22:08

I am not a fan of Wicked at all. And the green thing is one of many things about it that I don’t like. I find it an insult to people of colour and I am allowed to feel that. I don’t appreciate someone implying that I shouldn’t.

It's fine not to like Wicked. It's also fine for people to have different viewpoints to you. Otherwise, you couldn't have your view because it would be "implying" that I shouldn't have mine. See how this works?

And as a PP pointed out, Elphaba has been green for rather a long time....

I'm sure there were auditions for Wicked. I saw some clips of actresses who auditioned unsuccessfully. Erivo proved that she can absolutely do it and she's been critically acclaimed for her performance.

TempestTost · 23/11/2025 22:13

OP, I agree with you, I find watching the interviews with the two of them very strange and creepy.

TempestTost · 23/11/2025 22:10

BatshitOutofHell · 23/11/2025 21:56

I get casting her for her incredible singing but it just seemed so odd and clunky to me to use “greenness” as a metaphor for discrimination against people of colour. Well, I suppose green is a colour. I actually think it isn’t the casting of Erivo that bothers me, just the use of the colour green. It is odd to me. And I don’t see why someone should try to make me feel differently if that is what I feel.

Have you never seen The Wizard of Oz? The Wicked Witch of the West has been green since 1939.

BatshitOutofHell · 23/11/2025 22:08

ThatCyanCat · 23/11/2025 22:04

I don't see why, but at any rate, she's a magnificent actress and singer who's brilliant in the role, so there's nothing problematic to me.

I am not a fan of Wicked at all. And the green thing is one of many things about it that I don’t like. I find it an insult to people of colour and I am allowed to feel that. I don’t appreciate someone implying that I shouldn’t.

ThatCyanCat · 23/11/2025 22:04

BatshitOutofHell · 23/11/2025 21:57

Thinking about it I feel that if they did cast her for that reason it is actually an insult.

I don't see why, but at any rate, she's a magnificent actress and singer who's brilliant in the role, so there's nothing problematic to me.

ThatCyanCat · 23/11/2025 22:02

BatshitOutofHell · 23/11/2025 21:56

I get casting her for her incredible singing but it just seemed so odd and clunky to me to use “greenness” as a metaphor for discrimination against people of colour. Well, I suppose green is a colour. I actually think it isn’t the casting of Erivo that bothers me, just the use of the colour green. It is odd to me. And I don’t see why someone should try to make me feel differently if that is what I feel.

Well part of the point is that in the original, the Wicked Witch of the West's skin colour is used as a sign that she's evil; she's green, to be fair, which no human is, but it's still pretty ripe for commentary because of course many humans are seen the same way even when they are indeed human coloured.

However, you don't have to make it relevant to you if you don't want to. Erivo is not the first black actress to play Elphaba, but most actresses to play her on stage have been white. And all of them have been painted green.

BatshitOutofHell · 23/11/2025 21:57

ThatCyanCat · 23/11/2025 21:52

Do you think that might have been part of the reason they cast her as a character who experiences discrimination due to her colour? (And her incredible acting and singing talent as well.) I'm just taking a wild guess here...

Thinking about it I feel that if they did cast her for that reason it is actually an insult.

BatshitOutofHell · 23/11/2025 21:56

ThatCyanCat · 23/11/2025 21:52

Do you think that might have been part of the reason they cast her as a character who experiences discrimination due to her colour? (And her incredible acting and singing talent as well.) I'm just taking a wild guess here...

I get casting her for her incredible singing but it just seemed so odd and clunky to me to use “greenness” as a metaphor for discrimination against people of colour. Well, I suppose green is a colour. I actually think it isn’t the casting of Erivo that bothers me, just the use of the colour green. It is odd to me. And I don’t see why someone should try to make me feel differently if that is what I feel.

ThatCyanCat · 23/11/2025 21:52

BatshitOutofHell · 23/11/2025 08:11

I actually find the film Wicked so weird. They paint an actor green and say that she experiences discrimination because of it. The actress under the green paint is black. I am sure she experienced discrimination without being painted green.

Do you think that might have been part of the reason they cast her as a character who experiences discrimination due to her colour? (And her incredible acting and singing talent as well.) I'm just taking a wild guess here...

Rosegarden1 · 23/11/2025 08:15

I think they're both acting oddly. They look anorexic, particularly ariana grande. Hope they're getting some medical intervention if so.

TheKeatingFive · 23/11/2025 08:14

BatshitOutofHell · 23/11/2025 08:11

I actually find the film Wicked so weird. They paint an actor green and say that she experiences discrimination because of it. The actress under the green paint is black. I am sure she experienced discrimination without being painted green.

It's set in a magical land called Oz. It's not supposed to be a realistic depiction

BatshitOutofHell · 23/11/2025 08:11

I actually find the film Wicked so weird. They paint an actor green and say that she experiences discrimination because of it. The actress under the green paint is black. I am sure she experienced discrimination without being painted green.

ClemenceD · 23/11/2025 06:24

They're both bonkers. I call them The Skeleton Sisters.

TheKeatingFive · 22/11/2025 22:18

Ronathediva13 · 22/11/2025 22:15

Well aren’t you all delightful, body shaming two women and assuming something is “off” as they have formed a strong bond. Why can’t women build each other up like these two do instead of punching down like the perfect women of Mumsnet.

Expressing concern about weight loss of this magnitude is not 'body shaming' ffs. 🙄

I lost a dear friend and colleague to anorexia. It's a terrible disorder.

Ronathediva13 · 22/11/2025 22:15

Well aren’t you all delightful, body shaming two women and assuming something is “off” as they have formed a strong bond. Why can’t women build each other up like these two do instead of punching down like the perfect women of Mumsnet.

MusicMakesItAllBetter · 22/11/2025 17:00

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 22/11/2025 14:34

I’m sure she’s great- but I looked up what she’d been in and I hadn’t actually seen anything (granted I live under a rock!).

Bear in mind some of us who don’t pay close attention will have missed her because she’s painted green in the various promo poster! That won’t have helped her visibility with people who don’t watch interviews etc.

Fair enough

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 22/11/2025 14:34

MusicMakesItAllBetter · 22/11/2025 13:36

Maybe because she's an incredible performer who when training was told to lend her voice to the more lead roles that were filled by persons more suited to the role by colour, because they couldn't sing as well as her.
And now she's getting hers and rightly so. She's incredible and her energy is a totally different level that a lot of people won't get

I’m sure she’s great- but I looked up what she’d been in and I hadn’t actually seen anything (granted I live under a rock!).

Bear in mind some of us who don’t pay close attention will have missed her because she’s painted green in the various promo poster! That won’t have helped her visibility with people who don’t watch interviews etc.

MusicMakesItAllBetter · 22/11/2025 13:36

MrsSlocombesCat · 22/11/2025 12:59

I thought the vibe around her on Strictly was weird. I had never heard of her but everyone on the show treated her like she was some sort of goddess. I probably would've turned it off if I had been watching on my own. The sycophantic behaviour of the judges and celebrities was nauseating.

Maybe because she's an incredible performer who when training was told to lend her voice to the more lead roles that were filled by persons more suited to the role by colour, because they couldn't sing as well as her.
And now she's getting hers and rightly so. She's incredible and her energy is a totally different level that a lot of people won't get

MrsSlocombesCat · 22/11/2025 12:59

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 18/11/2025 18:34

I didn’t know who Cynthia was until she was on Strictly. I haven’t seen Wicked. I knew who Ariana Grande was from the awful bombing and older scandals. I was shocked when I saw her after Wicked as she so clearly looks like a shell of her former self.
I can’t comment on Cynthia as I don’t know how she used to look/usually looks. I would say I would struggle to remember her name as it’s only through one appearance on Strictly that I know her. She’s clearly well known to others, given her reception on Strictly. I would only probably only recognise her on Strictly or with Ariana Grande. Though if Ariana changed her hair and put on weight I wouldn’t recognise her either.

I thought the vibe around her on Strictly was weird. I had never heard of her but everyone on the show treated her like she was some sort of goddess. I probably would've turned it off if I had been watching on my own. The sycophantic behaviour of the judges and celebrities was nauseating.

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BelatrixLestrange · 21/11/2025 20:27

nomas · 21/11/2025 20:04

Sure you did.

Just like you what you mean with 'victim mentality'.

You are very transparent.

Oh no, nothing neutral about what I meant by victim mentality.

If your of that mindset and determined to see everything another person says as an attack, theres nothing I can say that will dissuade you.

It must be a very anxiety driven way to live.

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