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Am I too old at 50 to start exercising now?

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PurpleDisco · 16/11/2025 17:23

Nearly everyone I know has some sort of regular exercise routine going with either running or the gym etc. I’d like to be that person but I’m wondering if I’m too old now at 50 to start and have I seriously left it too late? I worry about my health though I’m not overweight, my BMI is 23.5. I walk to and from work everyday (2 miles) but apart from that I don’t do any exercise to exert myself. I keep reading that you should exercise to the point of being out of breath! Would it be dangerous for me to suddenly start now?

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Letmehaveabloodyusernameplease · 18/11/2025 12:15

You're never too old. I'm 53 and have started walking as often as I possibly can, mainly up huge hills, that gets your intensity minutes in. I can feel myself getting fitter and stronger.
You're doing great by walking two miles regularly, could you maybe add in some hills?
Easy ones to begin with then when you feel your strength building add in much harder ones.
The benefits of exercise are fantastic at our age.
Good luck!

BogRollBOGOF · 17/11/2025 18:18

One of my role models took up running in her 60s and is still running in her late 70s.

Walking a couple of miles a day is a great foundation, but it's easy to not walk briskly enough and just maintain a functional level of movement. No single exercise type will cover all aspects of fitness. Getting your heartrate up, using your range of mobility and resistance/ weight to build muscular strength are all important to cover.

Being strong and mobile through middle age into old age is the best way to improve your odds of a healthy old age with good quality of life.

My elderly relatives were of the generation that valued thinness and being "ladylike". Life became more sedentary in their middle age, and good muscle tone wasn't encouraged by lifestyle or exercise avaliability. They've struggled with osteoarthritis; in DM's case it has impacted her life for over 20 years. I hope that maximising my bone and muscle mass through middle age, I can delay such health issues.

Nothungrycat · 17/11/2025 09:15

I joined a gym about 18 months ago - I was then 63. I've used it mainly for cardio as I realised that just walking around my town wasn't doing enough to keep me fit and that was affecting my enjoyment of one of my main interests which is hiking/walking. It has really improved my fitness and means I have the confidence to join walking groups and go on walking holidays. I also regularly do pilates and have an e-bike which I use instead of short car journeys. All of these things are helping to keep me fit and active which is increasingly important as you get older. I only wish I'd started the gym earlier!

LondonRower · 17/11/2025 08:00

Absolutely not. I coach at my local rowing club and we get plenty of 50 somethings signing up to our beginner courses. Often they have literally done no regular exercise since they left school, are overweight and incredibly unfit. Its amazing to watch these individuals transform themselves in the space of six months from barely being able to sustain a few minutes of exercise to being able to do full sessions (weights, ergs, on the water) as well as dropping a load of weight. Its quite inspiring to be honest.

SunnyDolly · 17/11/2025 07:53

Not at all. Never too late! I would also recommend a PT if you can afford one and specifically someone who has expertise that will help you (for me this was finding an excellent post-partum PT, and now she is helping me with the early symptoms of perimenopause too) - worth every single penny. I have breaks from it and just crack on myself using the tools she’s provided me and then go back when I need a new plan etc.

The gym isn’t for everyone but it’s absolutely worth a shot OP! I have other friends who run, do Pilates, hike, etc. There’s something for everyone :)

HeidiLite · 17/11/2025 07:47

Even people over 65 who started exercising significantly improved:

  • Body fat mass (decrease)
  • Handgrip strength
  • Knee extension strength
  • Gait speed and “timed-up-and-go” performance (i.e., functional mobility)
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34763651/
facewithnumber · 17/11/2025 07:27

It’s the other way around.

You are too old NOT to start exercising.

You are entering the decades of decline and you will decline rapidly if you don’t start e revising to keep your strength, mobility and endurance up.

You can get away with doing eff all when you are young. You can’t now.

Dancingsquirrels · 17/11/2025 07:26

Not too late

Try a few things and see what you enjoy

Pilates, body conditioning and bidypump don't make you hot and sweaty but you have that great post-exercise feeling

Yabusux · 17/11/2025 07:24

I had a work medical when I was 51. I wasn't particularly out of shape but I found myself embarrassed trying to answer the doctor's questions about exercise (basically I wasn't doing any). I determined that by the next year's check up I was going to have something to say. I started to do just an hour a week , in the garage, with a routine for over 50s I found on-line. I didn't really know what I was doing but I said to myself if I manage just 5 sit ups, that's an infinite amount more than I was doing last week/ month/ year. 3 or 4 years on I'm exercising 3 times a week, I feel better about myself than I have for years, and people have commented on the positive difference.

StewkeyBlue · 17/11/2025 07:18

Not at all!

Some weights / strength training would be good.

Try Pilates, body pump classes (use modest weights) etc.

ReyRey12 · 17/11/2025 07:15

I would say that training to become a pro footballer might be out of reach. But exercising for yourself, not late at all! Start slowly and build on that. Find what you like and a club/class with appropriate level. You can even get a physio or a trainer to find out where you are at and to help with next steps.

SouthernAccents · 17/11/2025 07:11

PurpleDisco · 16/11/2025 17:23

Nearly everyone I know has some sort of regular exercise routine going with either running or the gym etc. I’d like to be that person but I’m wondering if I’m too old now at 50 to start and have I seriously left it too late? I worry about my health though I’m not overweight, my BMI is 23.5. I walk to and from work everyday (2 miles) but apart from that I don’t do any exercise to exert myself. I keep reading that you should exercise to the point of being out of breath! Would it be dangerous for me to suddenly start now?

Start slowly and go for it OP!

GripGetter · 17/11/2025 07:10

SugarPlumpFairyCakes · 17/11/2025 06:34

On an aside, I really wish people, especially, women would simply dismiss the mindset of being “too old” for this, that and the other.

It’s so restrictive and limiting. I too am guilty of it and often think how much more we would acheive if we simply assumed we wanted to do it, didn’t even consider age and just went ahead and did it.

Agree. You will never again be younger than you are today!

GripGetter · 17/11/2025 07:09

My Dr said that peri age is when women can benefit most from exercise and building muscle. It's swimming and Reformer Pilates that work for me. So rewarding.

JustMyView13 · 17/11/2025 06:48

The best time to have started, would’ve been c30 years ago. The second best time is today.

I would say don’t start with a big plan of going to the gym 5x per week. You won’t be able to sustain that level of change. I’d start by finding something you enjoy and adding it in 1 or 2 times per week, and then increase from there. The benefits of strength training cannot be understated. There’s lots of videos online to teach you technique if you’re looking for a low cost solution. Otherwise a PT should be able to help you get started.

SugarPlumpFairyCakes · 17/11/2025 06:34

On an aside, I really wish people, especially, women would simply dismiss the mindset of being “too old” for this, that and the other.

It’s so restrictive and limiting. I too am guilty of it and often think how much more we would acheive if we simply assumed we wanted to do it, didn’t even consider age and just went ahead and did it.

HeidiLite · 17/11/2025 06:02

Why I personally would say weights over cardio is that women in our generation were always told to do cardio for weight loss and to not touch weights, because you will immediately get bulky and unfeminine. So when you say 'exercise', GenX women will hear it as 'cardio'. Therefore, more likely to do that anyway.
But so many women wouldn't even consider weightlifting, which is so important when we age.

Aweekoffwork · 16/11/2025 22:45

I’m 61 and cycle 26 miles each week, walk every day and have just taken up Bhangra dancing 🤪

DoraSpenlow · 16/11/2025 22:32

I didn't start going to the gym until I was 60. Haven't managed to lose any weight though. I decided to start 'running' on the treadmill two months ago. Wanted to try to run a mile. Took me 14 minutes to start with. On Friday I managed 10 minutes 9 seconds. My personal best. I' m 72. It's never too late.

Eyesopenwideawake · 16/11/2025 21:59

SeaAndStars · 16/11/2025 17:51

I find this lady really inspiring https://www.instagram.com/jomoseley/

She is, and she's lovely 😊

PurpleDisco · 16/11/2025 21:54

It’s been a very busy day so just catching up on this thread now. Wow, with so many responses, I haven’t had time to read them all yet! The replies that I’ve read so far have been very inspiring and I’m glad to read so many of you are into fitness at all ages and in all kinds of ways.

So thank you for taking the time to give me the incentive I’ve needed for a while. I’ve got lots to read now!

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LancashireButterPie · 16/11/2025 21:35

Sara Cox has just ran back to back marathons in her 50s. I think she is all the proof needed.

MrsNathanDrake · 16/11/2025 21:34

Not at all! After years of being very unfit and extremely exercise averse, I have discovered reformer Pilates at 52 which I absolutely love. Can really feel the benefits in my core and overall strength, as well as my balance.

Chocolatepavlova · 16/11/2025 21:33

Delatron · 16/11/2025 20:56

I doubt 10-15 seconds of the OP getting her heart rate up is going to demoralise her but ok.

I only mentioned it as she said she wanted to get her heart rate up.
Intervals (at beginner level) for a short amount of time is far more doable than trying to fit in an hour plus of cardio and it is very effective. Many fitness trainers specialising in menopausal
woman do not recommend hours of zone 2 training for this age group. Surprised you are not up to date…if she walks 2 miles a day I think she can cope with getting her heart rate up a bit for 10-15 seconds at a time..

Walking is very good for you. You should also know that.

And yes I would prioritise strength training at that age! Then sprinkle the cardio on top but factor in the 2 miles of walking per day.

Who said anything about hours of zone 2? Not me 😊 maybe check what I’ve actually said before making ridiculous statements. I do specialise in menopausal women and I’ve never recommended ‘hours of cardio’, here or anywhere else.

10-15 seconds max effort will be a total waste of time for her, and yes, actually probably would make her feel like shit as she hasn’t got the fitness for it yet.

As I said, couch 2 5k is perfect for now, it’s 20-30 mins 3x per week and can be done from the front door. Once she has a bit more fitness interval training would be fine.

Wondering where I’ve said walking isn’t good… oh wait, more misquoting. 2 miles a day is about 30 mins/ 5000 odd steps, it’s fine but not enough and certainty won’t be enough to have developed a decent base level of fitness.

Anyway, carry on giving advice about something you have very limited knowledge of, probably having read Stacy Sims book 🦆

The best exercise is one that you’ll stick to, so good luck OP, I’m bowing out now, arguing with morons is not how I like to spend Sunday evenings. I just get so fed up of the misinformation being spread, but you can’t argue with stupid.

pambeesleyhalpert · 16/11/2025 21:33

You’re not too old! I go to a parent and baby cross fit and they do a never too old cross fit class. The beneifts Of exercising at any age are brilliant but even more so when you’re older!