Made myself worse

All these fillers and botox etc makes alot of men and women look older.
I love the natural look on anyone because they look normal when most just look like clones of eachother.

Its down to them that want its there choice.

My DP would never stop me doing what I wanted to my face but I’m completely certain he’d feel any of those things spoilt my looks because he likes the way I look now! And I’d feel the same about him. I usually do think anyone “tweaked” has spoilt how they look - I mean I’d never tell them because it’s their face and their choice, but I never think they look better.

So it sounds like he wasn’t saying it in a spiteful way aiming to hurt you, because he added on that he thinks you’re gorgeous?

I don’t really see what’s wrong with it. If my DH had Botox and fillers and I thought they were making him look worse, I would say so. He wouldn’t have to listen of course, and you don’t have to listen to your husband.
(Although if you don’t think he was saying it to hurt you, I would give more weight to his opinion than to any friends who might say “you look great!”, because they are unlikely to say anything else.)

He sounds like a guy who genuniely loves you as you are.

I like botox and filler don't look great on the majority of people. I also think it's far more noticable than some people think.

You have a confidence and self esteem issue, not a boyfriend issue.

There's just such a strong aesthetic choice now that normalises a certain 'done' look as so many women have a similar appearance (e.g. fuller lips, long eyelashes, strong brows) and this may be about trends and peer pressure. Someone who's older or more natural looking might find it jarring. Maybe the people who have it done can't see it like others do, we can rarely see ourselves as others see us anyway but it's not always an improvement.
The DH is saying he preferred the more natural beauty OP had before so tone it down, carry on or stop with the procedures - your face your choice. What do your (honest) friends think - the ones who don't do this stuff?

He's saying he prefers your natural beauty. Maybe you should listen to him!

Obviously it's your body, and presumably your money so your choice.

But if it's to look nicer for him he clearly would rather you didn't bother go to the expense or discomfort of doing these things.

It wasn’t the right time for him to say it, as a tit for tat during an argument, when emotions are already running high; but if DH was having cosmetic work done and I didn’t think it looked good, I’d tell him. Better to hear it from your partner, albeit it should have been said kindly. It sounds as though he’s been trying to convey that it’s unnecessary in saying you’re fine as you are and don’t need work done but it hasn’t been getting through.

He loves you as you are. I think he’s proven that by saying you don’t need your boobs done tbh. Many men would jump at the chance of their other half getting their boobs done.
A lot of men hate the look of women with lip fillers.

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I don’t think it’s a shitty thing to say at all. You think it’s an improvement, he loves you as you were, and as you were when he fell for you, and doesn’t think you look better like that which is fair enough.

I think he is allowed an opinion. After all it's nothing intrinsic to you - it's something you have done, which you have the option to not do. Just as if he grew/shaved a beard or shaved his head/dyed his hair blond. Would you feel unable to express an opinion on that? He's not telling you to do anything different, he's not saying he no longer finds you attractive - he's just saying he's preferred you before. That doesn't mean you need to stop doing it if it makes you happy.

For what it's worth I'm guessing it's the lips. Filled lips "ruin" faces really easily and I'm often amazed that the people who do it appear not to agree