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WIBU to attend A&E?

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GotSomeChipsAhoyIfYoureHungry · 15/11/2025 11:50

Hi everyone.

posting here for traffic.
my nan had DVTs and clots so it's in the family history.
I've been having a niggling pain in the back of my right calf. It's not overly painful and doesn't stop me doing anything. Can bear weight fine, I can stretch it. Stretching doesn't hurt but feels a bit uncomfortable / tight.
it actually hurts more when I'm sat still but I don't know if that's because if I'm sat not doing anything I'm noticing it more. Pain comes and goes, it's not there all the time.

pain is like a crampy dull ache pain, it moves slightly around my whole bottom of my leg towards my foot and up to my thigh. No swelling, no redness, no hot skin to touch.
I saw the GP this morning who essentially said because I don't have any of the classic signs that they don't think it's a DVT.

I have had high d-dimers before but never found a cause. I know they're non specific.

it's just bugging me because everyone says DVTs can be a silent killer and particularly women don't often get the classic pains, so I guess AIBU to attend A&E essentially for a mild - at times moderate achy calf?

I have a heart condition (LONG QT syndrome) I don't think that makes my risk any higher IFAIK, I'm slim, don't smoke, not event surgery and haven't had chemo since 2017. I'm 31 years old. Also haven't given birth in 5 years.
it doesn't stop me doing usual activities.

if anyone has any experience I'd be ever so grateful if you could share. Thank you!

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Simplelife1 · 15/11/2025 12:27

I personally wouldn't call what you have described an accident or an emergency.
Try a walk in centre or second opinion on monday from gp

TiredofLDN · 15/11/2025 12:26

Go go go.

GotSomeChipsAhoyIfYoureHungry · 15/11/2025 12:24

Don't have urgent care treatment centre unfortunately

however it has suddenly come up like this..

do muscle strains look like that at all? Pain is no worse thankfully!

WIBU to attend A&E?
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JudgeBread · 15/11/2025 12:07

You can go if you want but you'll be in for the long haul, a mildly aching calf is going to be dead bottom of the triage list on a rainy, stormy weekend.

Bertielong3 · 15/11/2025 12:06

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YouDriveMeCrazyButICanDoThatMyself · 15/11/2025 12:04

If you’ve already been assessed by a medical professional, your calf isn’t hot, swollen or red, then I wouldn’t think A&E is needed.
However, if you are overly concerned then by all means go, but take a charger, snacks, drink and a good book with you because after being triaged I imagine you will be in for a very long wait with it being weekend.

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