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Keeping kids in from play at lunchtime.

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0gfhty · 14/11/2025 18:43

I wonder what people think of this. My sons school has something called "times table club" during lunch time play for one day a week. Alll children in year 4 have to go to who don't know all their times tables yet. This hasn't been communicated to the parents but it seems to be true after speaking to some other parents and children. Apparently most of the children in year 4 are in this club. I dont think the children should lose their main playtime for this and if it is most children attending then it indicates to me that their lunch time is being used to teach the curriculum. I wonder what people's views are on this? How would you complain since its more about a general practice and not just my individual child? I have found the teachers to become a little hostile and defensive in the past about anything other than praise even when being polite and approachable.

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Jellybelly66 · 14/11/2025 19:59

ThatChristmasMug · 14/11/2025 19:07

WHY do you want to complain? Teachers can't' win.

Before school club? parents complain, too early
After school club? parents complain, not convenient, do you know how busy they are!

I have found the teachers to become a little hostile and defensive in the past
I wonder why

their lunch time is being used to teach the curriculum
it's also the teacher's lunch.. do you really think the teacher add to the teaching hours and sacrifice THEIR lunch for the fun of it? Seriously?

Exactly this...it's no wonder teachers are leaving the profession in droves with moaning Minnie's wanting to complain about their children losing 1 lunch break a week to bring them up to the level they should be at. How about a pat on the back hor the teacher giving up their lunchbreak.FFS the kids are not being starved of food they will still get to eat which is not always the case for the teacher🙄

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 19:58

Are there any other national tests that we need to be studying toward at home? Are all the apps compulsory? Because it sounds like this tt rockstars is nationwide. I thought there was a sats test in year 6 and that was it!

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Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 19:58

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 19:56

No I actually didn't sorry. We were given a qr code inside his planner that logs you into a variety of apps. But nothing was communicated from the school about when we should use them and what for. I assumed they were for later on in the year or for older years. I check all the school emails and newsletters carefully but this has not been included.

Good chance to feedback to the school about this omission.

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 19:56

FuzzyWolf · 14/11/2025 19:47

Do you mean TT Rockstars? That’s what he should have been practising for the last year or so at home.

Didn’t you think to ask if you received the details but weren’t sure what to do next? I’d recommended logging on and starting to go through the times tables. His test will be timed and he will expected to get them all right.

No I actually didn't sorry. We were given a qr code inside his planner that logs you into a variety of apps. But nothing was communicated from the school about when we should use them and what for. I assumed they were for later on in the year or for older years. I check all the school emails and newsletters carefully but this has not been included.

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Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 19:55

Kirbert2 · 14/11/2025 19:50

Mine is in Year 5 and doesn't know most of his timetables, I don't even know how he did for his Year 4 timetable test but I imagine not very well. It doesn't help that he HATES TT rockstars.

My son has had a lot of time off school due to medical reasons and I wouldn't mind as much if it was basically his whole class but I would mind if he was just one of a few.

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If he's had lots of time off, why would you resent teachers giving up their breaks to give him 1:1 (or small group) focused additional support? It's far more effective than in a group setting if it's solely focused on his learning needs. I think you have got this back to front. And there are plenty of other ways to learn timetables that don't involve the app.

Mols834 · 14/11/2025 19:53

It's concerning that the need for play and physical activity is often totally overlooked. They're probably taking nothing in after lunch because they've not had any opportunity to rest and play. Most children in year 4 are 8, they should not be sat down learning for almost 6/7 hours straight - we really have education wrong here.

Kirbert2 · 14/11/2025 19:50

Mine is in Year 5 and doesn't know most of his timetables, I don't even know how he did for his Year 4 timetable test but I imagine not very well. It doesn't help that he HATES TT rockstars.

My son has had a lot of time off school due to medical reasons and I wouldn't mind as much if it was basically his whole class but I would mind if he was just one of a few.

RichardGeresTie · 14/11/2025 19:49

As I tell the children at school, you won’t wake up one day and suddenly know your times tables. You have to practice them!
Log onto TT rockstars and do the soundcheck section with your child - this is an assessment part and will show you what he knows.

ThatChristmasMug · 14/11/2025 19:48

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 19:39

No I dont want to complain! That's why I'm on here scoping the situation. I haven't complained about anything but in thr past when I have raised issues (only twice) it hasn't gone down well and the teachers seemed defensive and honestly one seemed very frosty after that and I was surprised a professional would be like that. So I'm very conscious to stay away and not communicate concerns after that. I had no idea year 4 children needed to know these in year 4 until I saw some replies above and Im quite diligent about checking the school emails. I will definitely do some practicing with him and I'm sure he'll pick them up easily as hes otherwise been very good and enthusiastic with maths.

that might be why you got a "frosty" reply

I had no idea year 4 children needed to know these in year 4
It might be your school's fault, I have no way of knowing. Many schools inform parents, have a meeting or presentation for example at the beginning of the year, a "meet the teacher" kind of thing, or newsletter with details.

It's useful to know at the beginning of the year your child will go for 2 to 5 nights on a residential later on.

If you are kept completely in the dark, ask and suggest to the school they do some information.

I also found that volunteering and getting involved was a great way to meet the teachers and be more informed.

Yesimmoaningaboutbenefits · 14/11/2025 19:47

If parents actually bothered to do it at home, most would have learnt their times tables. No need for catch up during lunch (which the teacher will hate just as much, if not more, than the kids).

You'd be left with just the children with a genuine difficulty in memorising them/rapid recall which can be managed differently.

Parents need to stop expecting schools to do their job for them, and then moaning that the teacher is giving up her own free time to do it!

FuzzyWolf · 14/11/2025 19:47

Do you mean TT Rockstars? That’s what he should have been practising for the last year or so at home.

Didn’t you think to ask if you received the details but weren’t sure what to do next? I’d recommended logging on and starting to go through the times tables. His test will be timed and he will expected to get them all right.

PictureParfait · 14/11/2025 19:45

Sounds like a good process. I would not be complaining.

Pinkandpurple225533 · 14/11/2025 19:44

I would be grateful that the teacher is giving up their lunch break to give my child extra tutoring to get them up to speed. I would say thank you rather than complain.

Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 19:44

Can't be called jockstraps surely....

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 19:43

We dont do any because I had no idea that there was a test and his school haven't communicated this. We were given a link to this app called tt jockstraps in year 3 but I was awaiting instructions from the school on how and when to use it and I wasn't even sure if it was specifically for my child. I'll have another look at this tonight

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0gfhty · 14/11/2025 19:42

sittingonabeach · 14/11/2025 19:19

It’s one day a week.

They have a test at the end of the year. Learning times tables involves a lot of repetition. How much do you do at home. We used to do them on the school run, mixing up the tables

We dont do any because I had no idea that there was a test and his school haven't communicated this. We were given a link to this app called tt jockstraps in year 3 but I was awaiting instructions from the school on how and when to use it and I wasn't even sure if it was specifically for my child

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FuzzyWolf · 14/11/2025 19:42

I do think it’s concerning that so many in Y4 are needing this support because most schools work towards children knowing their times tables from young.

Whilst it suggests either the teaching isn’t very good or the parent support with maths at home is lacking, the school clearly are trying to help the children.

TheGoodEnoughWife · 14/11/2025 19:41

One day a week? No big deal.

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 19:39

ThatChristmasMug · 14/11/2025 19:07

WHY do you want to complain? Teachers can't' win.

Before school club? parents complain, too early
After school club? parents complain, not convenient, do you know how busy they are!

I have found the teachers to become a little hostile and defensive in the past
I wonder why

their lunch time is being used to teach the curriculum
it's also the teacher's lunch.. do you really think the teacher add to the teaching hours and sacrifice THEIR lunch for the fun of it? Seriously?

No I dont want to complain! That's why I'm on here scoping the situation. I haven't complained about anything but in thr past when I have raised issues (only twice) it hasn't gone down well and the teachers seemed defensive and honestly one seemed very frosty after that and I was surprised a professional would be like that. So I'm very conscious to stay away and not communicate concerns after that. I had no idea year 4 children needed to know these in year 4 until I saw some replies above and Im quite diligent about checking the school emails. I will definitely do some practicing with him and I'm sure he'll pick them up easily as hes otherwise been very good and enthusiastic with maths.

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JSMill · 14/11/2025 19:32

LittleMonsterWrangler · 14/11/2025 19:06

If it was only for the children who don’t know their times tables yet, I’d be working with my child at home to help them learn so they can go and play!

Exactly.

Bushmillsbabe · 14/11/2025 19:29

If you aren't happy with it you have a few options

  • Work extra hard at home on them so your child gets out to break
  • have a calm discussion around this with the school, thanking them for their extra effort but stating concerns regarding any measurable negative impact on your child - I presume there is something specific and you aren't just against this as a concept?
  • offer to come in and support with small groups, in the same way parents come in to do reading

But complaining is not a great option. Staff are very likely doing this in their lunch break out of goodwill, to help a class which is for whatever reason behind where they should be.

Many schools are quite receptive to productive feedback, so if you have an alternative idea on how to get the class up to scratch please share it with them.

PurpleCyclamen · 14/11/2025 19:23

I would be thanking the teacher for giving up their lunchtimes to give extra tuition to the children.
OP you need to encourage your child to practise their times tables at home everyday. Time tables are essential for maths - so many aspects of maths are dependent on a secure knowledge of times tables.

ThatChristmasMug · 14/11/2025 19:22

Strictlycomeparent · 14/11/2025 19:18

It’s because of the year 4 national times tables test and I totally agree with you. It’s unacceptable anyway but even more so because the children who most need support probably also most need movement breaks!
My child is in year 4 and the school have other ways of supporting children who need it.

What's so unacceptable? timetables are a life skill, surely you should be grateful the teachers are giving extra tuition if you can't teach them yourself at home?

FuzzyWolf · 14/11/2025 19:22

Hopefully it encourages parents to support learning at home so their child benefits from all of their playtime.

There is a national timed times table test in Y4 so it’s understandable school don’t want children to feel they fail it as that’s not good for their self esteem (and unless things have changed, the expected mark is 100%).

sittingonabeach · 14/11/2025 19:19

It’s one day a week.

They have a test at the end of the year. Learning times tables involves a lot of repetition. How much do you do at home. We used to do them on the school run, mixing up the tables