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Keeping kids in from play at lunchtime.

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0gfhty · 14/11/2025 18:43

I wonder what people think of this. My sons school has something called "times table club" during lunch time play for one day a week. Alll children in year 4 have to go to who don't know all their times tables yet. This hasn't been communicated to the parents but it seems to be true after speaking to some other parents and children. Apparently most of the children in year 4 are in this club. I dont think the children should lose their main playtime for this and if it is most children attending then it indicates to me that their lunch time is being used to teach the curriculum. I wonder what people's views are on this? How would you complain since its more about a general practice and not just my individual child? I have found the teachers to become a little hostile and defensive in the past about anything other than praise even when being polite and approachable.

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Pricelessadvice · 14/11/2025 21:09

Do they not send times tables home for them to learn? That was a staple weekly homework when I was that age. We had a spelling and times tables test every single week.

Strictlycomeparent · 14/11/2025 21:08

ThatChristmasMug · 14/11/2025 19:22

What's so unacceptable? timetables are a life skill, surely you should be grateful the teachers are giving extra tuition if you can't teach them yourself at home?

I am opposed to the removing of playtime for any reason really. Those children with the most challenging behaviour or need to catch up academically need to have big movement and play the most.

My child is practising at home his times tables, but for those who can’t or won’t I would like this to happen in school without the removal of playtime. I feel so strongly that it’s vitally important - more so actually than times tables (although it’s not an either /or and doesn’t have to be). Evidence also shows children learn more after exercise.

justasking111 · 14/11/2025 21:07

Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 19:07

This.

We used to do the times table on the school run. Otherwise at bath time, bed time. Wrote them up on a sheet stuck on a wall in the kitchen.

Did the same with spelling.

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 21:02

YarraValley · 14/11/2025 20:27

I don’t see why it’s the sole responsibility of the school to tell parents about the year four times tables tests, it’s been in the news. And really, parents should be teaching or at the very least, supporting the teaching of times tables anyway. Tests or not.

I follow the news quite closely and haven't been aware. Is there a reason why this has been in the news lately? I knew the children do tests in year 6 and the year 2 test was scrapped by the time he was in year 2. He generally achieves very well in school especially in maths and I had no idea he needed to know his times tables. I tended to avoid this like this when I work with him at home as times tables seem quite old fashioned

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Suntots · 14/11/2025 21:01

YarraValley · 14/11/2025 20:27

I don’t see why it’s the sole responsibility of the school to tell parents about the year four times tables tests, it’s been in the news. And really, parents should be teaching or at the very least, supporting the teaching of times tables anyway. Tests or not.

Of course it’s school’s responsibility to let parents know of upcoming tests and how they want the children to practice - apparently in this case with TTR. Education is far more school’s responsibility than it is their job to get involved with parking, interfere with parental choices about online access, advertise local charity events and complain about the contents of lunchboxes, but school seems to manage to send all those emails!

Bushmillsbabe · 14/11/2025 20:40

Mols834 · 14/11/2025 19:53

It's concerning that the need for play and physical activity is often totally overlooked. They're probably taking nothing in after lunch because they've not had any opportunity to rest and play. Most children in year 4 are 8, they should not be sat down learning for almost 6/7 hours straight - we really have education wrong here.

They won't be learning for 6 hours straight. They are still getting their morning break and their lunchtime when they eat, just not their lunch playtime.

And hopefully they have scheduled this on a day the children have a physical activity like PE or forest school or swimming, so they are still getting a movement break.

Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 20:28

Kirbert2 · 14/11/2025 20:28

It could be tried but I really doubt he'd see it as a positive thing, especially with his friends asking why he can't play outside etc.

As I've said, I'm glad his school haven't handled it in that way.

Fair enough.

Kirbert2 · 14/11/2025 20:28

Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 20:23

That's understandable to want to avoid that. But it could be explained to him as a positive thing for him?

It could be tried but I really doubt he'd see it as a positive thing, especially with his friends asking why he can't play outside etc.

As I've said, I'm glad his school haven't handled it in that way.

YarraValley · 14/11/2025 20:27

I don’t see why it’s the sole responsibility of the school to tell parents about the year four times tables tests, it’s been in the news. And really, parents should be teaching or at the very least, supporting the teaching of times tables anyway. Tests or not.

ClassicalQueen · 14/11/2025 20:23

If your DC don’t know their times tables by Year 4, they are in need of extra support. I’d applaud the school for this. I’m a teacher for reference.

Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 20:23

Kirbert2 · 14/11/2025 20:12

I wouldn't think badly of the teacher at all as like it's been pointed out, they'd be giving up their break too but I just know that my son would be gutted and feel punished and that is what I'd want to avoid.

That's understandable to want to avoid that. But it could be explained to him as a positive thing for him?

FuzzyWolf · 14/11/2025 20:21

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 19:56

No I actually didn't sorry. We were given a qr code inside his planner that logs you into a variety of apps. But nothing was communicated from the school about when we should use them and what for. I assumed they were for later on in the year or for older years. I check all the school emails and newsletters carefully but this has not been included.

It’s definitely time to feedback to the school because even if they have told the parents, it hasn’t been in a way that works (which perhaps reflects the number of them losing their break time now).

DarkLion · 14/11/2025 20:20

At my sons school we were invited to a parents assembly at the end of year 3 I believe it was about teaching maths at home. I’m 29 but many of the methods even I was taught have changed and I found it really helpful. It was in this that they went into the times table check in year 4. My son was using timetables rockstars regularly and got 100% on his check. I can’t understand for that reason why your child’s school didn’t do something similar because then it might have cut the need for children to lose their playtime along with teachers using their lunch time, even if only SOME parents did the work with kids at home because now you’ve found out you weren’t aware of what they needed to focus on so just seems to be something that could have been avoided

FuzzyWolf · 14/11/2025 20:19

Mols834 · 14/11/2025 19:53

It's concerning that the need for play and physical activity is often totally overlooked. They're probably taking nothing in after lunch because they've not had any opportunity to rest and play. Most children in year 4 are 8, they should not be sat down learning for almost 6/7 hours straight - we really have education wrong here.

You’re right, they shouldn’t be spending their lunch breaks learning; parents should have stepped in long ago.

Kirbert2 · 14/11/2025 20:12

Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 20:09

Fair enough if you work on it at home, but I don't think teachers using their own time to help kids to get up to speed who have already lost out on so much is something that is automatically bad.

I wouldn't think badly of the teacher at all as like it's been pointed out, they'd be giving up their break too but I just know that my son would be gutted and feel punished and that is what I'd want to avoid.

cardibach · 14/11/2025 20:11

FuzzyWolf · 14/11/2025 19:47

Do you mean TT Rockstars? That’s what he should have been practising for the last year or so at home.

Didn’t you think to ask if you received the details but weren’t sure what to do next? I’d recommended logging on and starting to go through the times tables. His test will be timed and he will expected to get them all right.

I’d have failed. Dyscalculics simply can’t do it. We can live useful lives though, so don’t worry about us failing a daft Y4 test.

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 20:11

No we did not get offered to come to anything like that. That sounds really useful! I would love to get a look in his classroom and I feel so in the dark about it and I worry about knowing so little about where he goes every day. Even on parent evening we could not go in the classroom because the teachers were not allowed to be alone in a room for their own safety (I assume something has happened in the past). I never feel like I can approach his teacher although he says she is nice

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Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 20:09

Kirbert2 · 14/11/2025 20:05

When all of his friends get to play outside because they were fortunate enough to not need so much time off? It would feel like a punishment to him and I'd question exactly how effective it would actually be. Not to mention the fact that he needs a break just as much as the children who do know their times tables.

We work on it at home and they do work on it with him at school too with adapting his maths work if necessary and maths interventions largely focusing on times tables. Thankfully, never at break.

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Fair enough if you work on it at home, but I don't think teachers using their own time to help kids to get up to speed who have already lost out on so much is something that is automatically bad.

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 20:08

ThatChristmasMug · 14/11/2025 19:48

that might be why you got a "frosty" reply

I had no idea year 4 children needed to know these in year 4
It might be your school's fault, I have no way of knowing. Many schools inform parents, have a meeting or presentation for example at the beginning of the year, a "meet the teacher" kind of thing, or newsletter with details.

It's useful to know at the beginning of the year your child will go for 2 to 5 nights on a residential later on.

If you are kept completely in the dark, ask and suggest to the school they do some information.

I also found that volunteering and getting involved was a great way to meet the teachers and be more informed.

No we did not get offered to come to anything like that. That sounds really useful! I would love to get a look in his classroom and I feel so in the dark about it and I worry about knowing so little about where he goes every day. Even on parent evening we could not go in the classroom because the teachers were not allowed to be alone in a room for their own safety (I assume something has happened in the past). I never feel like I can approach his teacher although he says she is nice

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cardibach · 14/11/2025 20:08

Notsurewhatisnormalanymore · 14/11/2025 18:54

It should be optional IMO but if the child doesn’t know their times tables into Y4 I think it’s imperative they catch up. For clarity I am a teacher end have two children in Y4 who aren’t fluent in all the multiplication tables despite me chanting with them, the teachers input and time on times table rockstars (seriously frustrated by it) I would just let it go tbh, it’s so important for all areas of life.

I’m dyscalculic. I’m 61 and don’t know my tables and believe me I’ve tried. I’ve also got O level B in maths and A level Chemistry, and I’ve managed to live a full and useful life. Not everyone can learn tables. I’d hope a teacher (I’m one) would recognise that.

sittingonabeach · 14/11/2025 20:08

Why wouldn’t you practise timetables with your child whether there is a statutory test or not. Why didn’t you ask the school about the apps?

ItsameLuigi · 14/11/2025 20:06

I'm so confused why do you not practice times tables with him? My son is year 3 and has ASD but since he was in reception I've been teaching him times tables. He can recite many of them off by heart now. Parents are the first teachers, even just 5/10 minutes per day makes a huge impact. Work with the school so he can get break time back.

Kirbert2 · 14/11/2025 20:05

Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 19:55

If he's had lots of time off, why would you resent teachers giving up their breaks to give him 1:1 (or small group) focused additional support? It's far more effective than in a group setting if it's solely focused on his learning needs. I think you have got this back to front. And there are plenty of other ways to learn timetables that don't involve the app.

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When all of his friends get to play outside because they were fortunate enough to not need so much time off? It would feel like a punishment to him and I'd question exactly how effective it would actually be. Not to mention the fact that he needs a break just as much as the children who do know their times tables.

We work on it at home and they do work on it with him at school too with adapting his maths work if necessary and maths interventions largely focusing on times tables. Thankfully, never at break.

Arlanymor · 14/11/2025 20:05

0gfhty · 14/11/2025 19:58

Are there any other national tests that we need to be studying toward at home? Are all the apps compulsory? Because it sounds like this tt rockstars is nationwide. I thought there was a sats test in year 6 and that was it!

Maybe all of this is the school's fault for not communicating - although it would mean that everyone else is in the same boat and you would have thought some other parents would have raised the issue before now. You need to ask the school because based on where you are located it's different, all of the nations run their own education systems, there is nothing UK-wide.

Chinsupmeloves · 14/11/2025 20:04

At secondary the number of lunch, after school, holiday and weekend interventions have become ridiculous! Gone are the days lessons were seen to provide a full curriculum of education, which is ironic because there was no technology to help for those wanting to do more outside of school.

I say this as a totally committed teacher who put on extra voluntary sessions after school before it became prescribed. Now mandatory for X one day, Y another day.

Partly to do with results league tables, Ofsted but also for those students who don't make the effort to complete work in school so interventions are made to 'make' them progress.