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Keeping kids in from play at lunchtime.

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0gfhty · 14/11/2025 18:43

I wonder what people think of this. My sons school has something called "times table club" during lunch time play for one day a week. Alll children in year 4 have to go to who don't know all their times tables yet. This hasn't been communicated to the parents but it seems to be true after speaking to some other parents and children. Apparently most of the children in year 4 are in this club. I dont think the children should lose their main playtime for this and if it is most children attending then it indicates to me that their lunch time is being used to teach the curriculum. I wonder what people's views are on this? How would you complain since its more about a general practice and not just my individual child? I have found the teachers to become a little hostile and defensive in the past about anything other than praise even when being polite and approachable.

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sittingonabeach · 15/11/2025 11:15

@cardibach if reasonable adjustments won’t help and a child can’t access the test then I assume they wouldn’t sit the paper as they would be working below standard.

cardibach · 15/11/2025 10:57

sittingonabeach · 15/11/2025 10:50

There are reasonable adjustments in the statutory test for pupils with dyslexia etc. And if children are showing problems with learning them, intervention classes like the one OP describes might be useful in identifying whether there is an underlying issue.

But most people who struggle to read, maybe because of dyslexia, don't usually proudly declare they can't read, whereas many parents (usually in front of their children) are quite happy to say they were shit at maths, and that gives the go ahead for children to declare they are shit at maths too and not put the effort in. It is fine to say you struggled, but then try and find ways to help your children. There are so many resources/aids available nowadays to help children with dyslexia etc to access reading, maths etc.

Dyslexia etc?
No knowledge of dyscalculia, which is different , then?
Just focussed on one issue.
This is very poor.

cardibach · 15/11/2025 10:56

sittingonabeach · 15/11/2025 10:51

@cardibach reasonable adjustments will be put in place. Many pupils will have a scribe or a reader (depending on the test)

That shows you have no clue about dyscalculia. A scribe or reader won’t help. I can read and write perfectly fluently. I was an English teacher. What I can’t do is manipulate or remember numbers. They make no sense. Drilling me just makes me feel stupid. What are you doing for children like I was? Because I fucking hated maths in primary school and lower secondary. Still got a B at O level, because I used a calculator whenever possible and can do mathematics. It’s arithmetic I can’t do (and remembering phone numbers, and access codes, and estimating, and measuring, and working out time, eg ‘what time is it an hour and 40 mins after 8.25? Not a clue mate).

sittingonabeach · 15/11/2025 10:51

@cardibach reasonable adjustments will be put in place. Many pupils will have a scribe or a reader (depending on the test)

sittingonabeach · 15/11/2025 10:50

There are reasonable adjustments in the statutory test for pupils with dyslexia etc. And if children are showing problems with learning them, intervention classes like the one OP describes might be useful in identifying whether there is an underlying issue.

But most people who struggle to read, maybe because of dyslexia, don't usually proudly declare they can't read, whereas many parents (usually in front of their children) are quite happy to say they were shit at maths, and that gives the go ahead for children to declare they are shit at maths too and not put the effort in. It is fine to say you struggled, but then try and find ways to help your children. There are so many resources/aids available nowadays to help children with dyslexia etc to access reading, maths etc.

Bluepiano · 15/11/2025 10:48

Givemeachaitealatte · 15/11/2025 00:15

I managed to pass my GCSE maths, obtain A levels, a degree, a master's degree and a great job all without knowing my times tables off by heart.

I don’t think anyone has said you can’t succeed in life without knowing your tables but for god sake, make his life easier if you can by giving him one less thing to work out while he’s trying to do increasingly difficult maths problems. It’s about reducing cognitive load.

cardibach · 15/11/2025 10:46

MrsBlobby95 · 15/11/2025 06:57

As a year 6 teacher, your child will struggle with the upper KS2 maths curriculum if he doesn’t know his times tables. The arithmetic SATs paper only gives 30 minutes to answer around 38 questions and relies heavily on times table recall. The best thing you can do is crack his tables now and then he won’t have to stay back for even more catch up sessions as SATs get nearer

Another good reason to get rid of pointless testing.
What adjustments are you making for dyscalculic students? (And some dyslexics have similar issues) Or are you making them feel like stupid, lazy failures? That’s how I felt.

Stormyday34 · 15/11/2025 10:46

Stormyday34 · 15/11/2025 10:45

I tend to agree with others that extra times table practice one lunchtime a week is a good idea.

Your school may be different, but at our school you can just catch the teacher at the end of the day and ask questions. I would ask about his progress with maths and times tables, explain that he’s mentioned to lunchtime practice and ask how he’s getting on.

It’s tricky for us because our kids go to after-school club but I try and make a point of turning up at normal pick up now and again so that I can talk to the teacher if need be

Stormyday34 · 15/11/2025 10:45

I tend to agree with others that extra times table practice one lunchtime a week is a good idea.

Your school may be different, but at our school you can just catch the teacher at the end of the day and ask questions. I would ask about his progress with maths and times tables, explain that he’s mentioned to lunchtime practice and ask how he’s getting on.

cardibach · 15/11/2025 10:43

CypressGrove · 15/11/2025 01:09

I'm certainly not an expert so maybe someone who is will also answer! But in my experience with DS during covid hime learning times was he had only so much in his tank, so to speak, when he came to sitting down and learning maths and because he was needing to spend time to work out basic things like 6*7 it was holding him back from actually really learning and getting a grasp on long multiplication and long division. When we stepped away from the curriculum for a bit and focused on times table we found picking up long multiplication and divisions much easier and quicker.

And yet in the real world he could use a calculator. Contrary to what my maths teachers told us everyone has one in their pocket these days. If they can be learned with some repetition, great. For some children (and adults) they can’t and we shouldn’t keep forcing them.
To put it into perspective - I don’t know mine as I’ve said a few times. My memory is excellent in learned Portia’s ‘quality of mercy’ speech from Merchant of Venice at 16 and I still know most of it. Inability to learn tables doesn’t always mean lack of effort. Some just can’t.

TeenToTwenties · 15/11/2025 10:43

My DD passed her GCSE maths this summer (Yay!!). In the non calculator paper she wrote out a times tables grid at the start so she had it to refer to for the rest of the time. Not at all ideal, but there are work arounds.

For the vast majority who can instant recall of learn times tables if they put the effort in, it is worth it and will make secondary maths easier. But some with SEN can't.

noidea02 · 15/11/2025 10:39

Notsurewhatisnormalanymore · 14/11/2025 18:54

It should be optional IMO but if the child doesn’t know their times tables into Y4 I think it’s imperative they catch up. For clarity I am a teacher end have two children in Y4 who aren’t fluent in all the multiplication tables despite me chanting with them, the teachers input and time on times table rockstars (seriously frustrated by it) I would just let it go tbh, it’s so important for all areas of life.

As a teacher have you never heard of dyslexia?! Please never say you are frustrated by children who are unable to learn by rote. My 22 year old, who is very bright, still couldn’t recite her times tables like that!! I’m fairly shocked by your comment

cardibach · 15/11/2025 10:39

Givemeachaitealatte · 15/11/2025 00:15

I managed to pass my GCSE maths, obtain A levels, a degree, a master's degree and a great job all without knowing my times tables off by heart.

Me too. Found out much later I have dyscalculia. Maybe you do too if they won’t stick despite you understanding the concepts and being able to do the mathematical parts. Arithmetic just isn’t something my brain can handle. Full and useful life, including one year training as an accountant (I passed the exams for Y1, just didn’t enjoy so moved on to something else)
So many on here declaring it’s laziness when they wouldn’t say that if a dyslexic person made errors.

sittingonabeach · 15/11/2025 10:36

These clubs exist partly because parents either can't (due to work commitments etc) or don't help their DC, so schools have to step in.

For those saying it is the school's responsibility to teach times tables, they do, but they need parents to help reinforce the concepts. It's a bit like teaching your young child the colours, animals etc when they first start to talk and recognise these things. You don't point out a cow to them once and tell them it is cow and it says moo, and then expect them to remember that. Like reading, times tables need to be repeated not just once for it to stick.

Depending on how old they are I bet many grandparents could rattle them off as they would have been deeply ingrained into them at school.

I think a lot of parents don't realise how crammed the national curriculum is. It should be detailed on your school's website. You will then see how much they have to fit in on each school day

rainbowstardrops · 15/11/2025 10:17

Oh and learning the times tables are incredibly important.
Im in my fifties but my second year junior school teacher (so year 4 these days), was a strict, formidable woman and I can still remember her ramming the times tables down our throats. At the time, it made me super anxious but all these years later, I’m thankful that I learnt them at that age.

JSMill · 15/11/2025 10:16

I work in a year 4 class some of the week. Since the beginning of term, the teacher has reminded the children every day about TTRS. She has given house points and offered other incentives. She had parents evening the week before half term and had the same conversation with every parent about times tables. Unfortunately it’s still the same children doing it, which is less than a third of the class. Parents just don’t seem to understand they also play a part in their children’s education.

rainbowstardrops · 15/11/2025 10:15

It doesn’t sound as if the school is very good at communicating but you (and his dad) have to take some responsibility for him needing to go to this club too. If there’s a qr code at the back of his book, you don’t need to be told to access the links - that’s obvious he should have been engaging with them! And if it wasn’t obvious to you, you should have asked his teacher.
With regards to missing lunch play, I don’t agree with that. I wonder how long this club lasts for though. It might just be 15 minutes before afternoon register. I still don’t agree with missing playtime though because children have to be super focussed all morning and they need some down time.

VickyEadieofThigh · 15/11/2025 10:10

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 14/11/2025 23:44

I totally disagree with this. Children need more time to play,outdoors especially and teachers need their break. TTR is something that can easily be done at home, in the car, wherever.

Except, as the OP has clearly demonstrated (and reinforced with her opinion that it's apparently unnecessary), many parents do not do this.

Baconbuttymad · 15/11/2025 09:40

@sittingonabeach Only Mon-Fri but weekends we do clubs and family stuff.
my in laws look after the kids but they’re old so can’t expect them
to understand or do all of their hwk

sittingonabeach · 15/11/2025 09:31

@Baconbuttymad so do you both work like that 7 days a week? Do you never do school/after school club run with DC, that's a good time to do some times table practice. If neither of you get home before 7 who helps your DC with their homework?

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 15/11/2025 09:31

Seems like the school has been very poor at communication in general. You should have been informed of the Y4 curriculum and any upcoming assessments. I'd have a word with someone on the SLT and maybe not this newly qualified teacher, she's probably under enough pressure.
If your boy likes maths then he'll probably love TTR. It's hard to get my DGS off it as he's always trying to beat his previous score.

Baconbuttymad · 15/11/2025 09:26

Also not everyone is good at maths. Some people hate it and actually struggle with it but might be better at humanities!

Baconbuttymad · 15/11/2025 09:21

@sittingonabeach
yes I read with my kids but I also work until 7 most evenings as does my other half so we’re not around all day. It’s the school and teachers job to teach the kids! We need to provide for them and keep a roof under their heads!!!!
also, a lot of kids work better with someone who is not their parent.

Eixample · 15/11/2025 09:15

I don’t think that the importance of physical activity should be underestimated.
The way they approach maths these days is very different to when I was at school so I do tend to wait until the school tell us what to practice when, but then ours are very open and proactive with their communication.
Could it be that the school don’t experience much cooperation or interest from the parents so assume there is no point telling them? Were they expecting the children to explain what the app was for? Or is it that this particular teacher doesn’t have good communication skills?

sittingonabeach · 15/11/2025 09:14

@Baconbuttymad do you not help your child with reading? Times tables are the same thing. The school teaches the child the times tables like they do reading, but as with reading the child needs to practise. If you can’t remember them then you can learn them with them. No wonder so many children struggle with maths when they have parents saying they can’t do maths, as if it is something to be proud of. You very rarely get people proudly declaring they can’t read.