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Who wants to wait whilst my kittens are born!

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Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 02:42

My girl is having her kittens! First one is here squeaking and healthy!

Second is imminent.

I think she’ll have 4 🤞🏽🤞🏽

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Puppylucky · 13/11/2025 08:51

And this is why we can't have nice things on this site anymore. Another thread has been derailed from its original intent by a load of aggressive posters intent on slamming the OP. We all get that there is a problem with unwanted cats and kittens. But that obviously isn't the case here. The OP has been very clear that this is a planned decision that has been thought through with the welfare of mum and kittens in mind. A bit of kindly advice around the need to spay mum quickly now is one thing, but constant hectoring about the wrongness of the situation s completely another.

MakeMineADietCoke · 13/11/2025 08:49

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 08:30

@EmpressaurusKitty @Pepperedpickles

i am perfectly happy with my decision to let my much loved cat have 1 litter. You have no idea for my reasons for letting her have them and they’re none of your business. I discussed it with my vet and my cat, the father and the kittens are well and healthy. If you think this comment is appropriate on a post where someone has already actually got the kittens then you need to give your head a wobble. I’m not asking you to look after them so jog on.

I’ve been up with her through the whole thing, monitoring and looking after her.

They are loved here and will be loved in their new homes which have already been allocated to close friends and family.

I’ve done nothing wrong.

Of course you’ve done wrong - you’ve deliberately bred from a moggy for no other reason than you wanted to.

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 13/11/2025 08:49

It’s a shame that experience working in cat rescue, and understandable concerns about the fate of unwanted cats, spoils your ability to enjoy the wonder and excitement of kittens!

Because, knowing all that, still…. Kittens! Adorable new born kittens!

It’s a shame vet fees are so high, or we could all have as many as we want/the cats want to share with!

OP, I misread your statement about talking it over with your vet. It looks a lot like you discussed this with your vet and your cat. Which was considerate of you!

Zempy · 13/11/2025 08:46

Gorgeous kitties! Thanks for the photos.

NamelessNancy · 13/11/2025 08:44

Superhansrantowindsor · 13/11/2025 08:18

Are there health benefits to letting a cat have a litter before spaying.

Not at all. Quite the opposite in fact. Pregnancy, kittenbirth and remaining entire carry health risks over and above getting spayed. (Doesn't mean it's never ok to choose to have a litter responsibly with good homes ready etc but it's absolutely not a reason in itself to breed from a cat)

ETA congratulations @Kittenwatch they're gorgeous.

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 08:44

Thank you for the overwhelmingly lovely posts.

I will ensure that I take lots of pics and give regular updates.

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ObelixtheGaul · 13/11/2025 08:43

I understand the importance of neutering, the overflowing rescue centres, etc, but could we not have had just ONE nice, cheery thread about sweet kittens?

Why must we spoil a nice moment for someone who isn't dumping the kittens in a shelter, isn't breeding her poor cat to exhaustion and isn't responsible for the huge numbers of cats in rescue centres?

Yes, there's a conversation to be had on those subjects, but right now we are looking at a clutch of cute newborns who all have homes to go to.

My own dear old mog died recently and this post made me smile. I'm sorry some people can't let you share your lovely moment, OP, without drowning it in the MN bucket of disapproval.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 13/11/2025 08:43

Oh my goodness! So much cuteness! That's a very proud mama! I hope they all have big milk bellies and mama is getting much-needed rest. Love these kinds of threads 😍

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 08:43

Daleksatemyshed · 13/11/2025 08:41

@Kittenwatch I hope you've got some sleep now. I'm still here for more kitten photos when you're ready 😍

Just up to the horrible posts but I’m about to get ready for work and then I’ll take some more.

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Daleksatemyshed · 13/11/2025 08:41

@Kittenwatch I hope you've got some sleep now. I'm still here for more kitten photos when you're ready 😍

Ruggerlass · 13/11/2025 08:41

BlueEyedBogWitch · 13/11/2025 08:05

I mean, they’re here now. Why be a misery about it?

You’re right they are. I don’t think anyone is being a misery about it and it’s a perfectly reasonable question to ask. Perhaps you need to spend time in an animal shelter to see the impact that not having your cat neutered has.
Of course this cat could have been adopted whilst already pregnant (though a good shelter won’t rehome a pregnant cat). Unless you’re a registered breeder it’s irresponsible to not get your cat or any animal neutered.

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 08:41

redboxer321 · 13/11/2025 08:34

I’ve done nothing wrong.

Citation needed.

You are not the arbiter of all that is right and I do not answer to you.

They are here. Go away or enjoy them. Don’t be a black cloud on some true joy for my family.

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Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 08:38

ShodAndShadySenators · 13/11/2025 08:04

I would reconsider the whole keeping one kitten thing - I had to rehome one of my cats because mum cat's instinct is to drive kittens away to their own new territories when they grow up. I hope this doesn't happen to you because it was heartbreaking for us and I still miss my rehomed cat terribly 💔 but it had to be done because they were both so stressed (to the point of illness) with each other's presence. Something to consider...

Thank you for this. I will be on the lookout for any issues. I did have a cat have a kitten when I was a child and we kept it and it was fine so fingers crossed.

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randomgeneratedusername1 · 13/11/2025 08:35

My gorgeous cat also had 5 kittens like yours op and both parents were fully black 4 of the kittens were fully black green eyes and one completely tabby cat with yellow eyes . My cat had her littter after lockdown we couldn’t get her spayed during lockdown it was a nightmare . We kept them all and they are now 3 yrs old and a proper family tribe alongside their 4 yr old mum and dad . Thank you for sharing it has bought back some wonderful memories for me.
🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛.

Myblueclematis · 13/11/2025 08:34

I'd love another cat, last one went two years ago but the vets are horrendously expensive if you can find one to take you on and food can be expensive if you want to feed them good quality.

I watch a lot of cat videos these days, that's my cat fix and also any pics appearing on here, the kittens are lovely and so sweet, I do envy the OP a little bit. 🙂

Regarding allowing cats to breed, I got one of my kittens back in the early 90s from a student who had two female cats in his one bed tiny house and both cats were pregnant at the same time. He hadn't bothered to get them spayed, said he couldn't afford it. I wish I could have taken all the kittens, all 8 of them but came away with just the one. All my cats were neutered, male and female as soon as possible but a little bit of me does wish I could have had at least one litter of kittens from one of the females.

redboxer321 · 13/11/2025 08:34

I’ve done nothing wrong.

Citation needed.

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 08:34

ShodAndShadySenators · 13/11/2025 08:23

It's funny how if someone posts that they've bought a pedigree kitten they're immediately lambasted about the fact that shelters are overflowing with cats (and puppies). It's not people who are buying a cat who are the problem there, it's people allowing their cats to breed. And it's not "an accident", if you don't get your cat neutered it's not an accident but something you've allowed to happen.

Saying that, OP's kittens are lovely and it's great that she's found homes for them already.

I wouldn’t have let her have kittens if I didn’t have close friends who wanted them. I purposely let her have them and I’m happy I did.

They have brought me and my children joy at a very difficult time in our lives.

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Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 08:32

Ihatemondays1962 · 13/11/2025 08:27

I am pretty shocked at anyone letting a cat having kittens. I am constantly seeing posts about rescues overflowing and the rescue system is at breaking point. Although you have found homes for them you have no control over those kittens once they are rehomed so they could go on an produce even more kittens. Saying it is a one and only litter makes it no better. I don't care if my post is seen as being miserable. Get your cat spayed!

I’ve clearly said she’s being spayed after this litter which is her first and only.

Of all the things to be bloody shocked about 🙄

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Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 08:31

BlueEyedBogWitch · 13/11/2025 08:28

I understand the problems. I have only ever had female dogs and cats, and spayed them all asap. No litters.

But, I repeat, the kittens are here now. They have homes. They’re cute. What does plopping onto the thread with disapproving comments actually achieve?

Precisely.

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Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 08:30

Pepperedpickles · 13/11/2025 08:21

Absolutely this. We don’t need to celebrate any more litters when the rescues are absolutely full of them.

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@EmpressaurusKitty @Pepperedpickles

i am perfectly happy with my decision to let my much loved cat have 1 litter. You have no idea for my reasons for letting her have them and they’re none of your business. I discussed it with my vet and my cat, the father and the kittens are well and healthy. If you think this comment is appropriate on a post where someone has already actually got the kittens then you need to give your head a wobble. I’m not asking you to look after them so jog on.

I’ve been up with her through the whole thing, monitoring and looking after her.

They are loved here and will be loved in their new homes which have already been allocated to close friends and family.

I’ve done nothing wrong.

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Ihatemondays1962 · 13/11/2025 08:29

mamagogo1 · 13/11/2025 08:28

To those saying that you shouldn’t breed or or buy kittens, perhaps if rescues were less draconian in who they allowed to adopt and feed were lower they would get homes for them. Rescues are so funny about children and pets, people who want pets have no choice but look privately and not everyone wants older animals

Planty of the smaller rescues are realistic. My friend just got a cat from a rescue and has a child and a dog already.

mamagogo1 · 13/11/2025 08:28

To those saying that you shouldn’t breed or or buy kittens, perhaps if rescues were less draconian in who they allowed to adopt and feed were lower they would get homes for them. Rescues are so funny about children and pets, people who want pets have no choice but look privately and not everyone wants older animals

BlueEyedBogWitch · 13/11/2025 08:28

I understand the problems. I have only ever had female dogs and cats, and spayed them all asap. No litters.

But, I repeat, the kittens are here now. They have homes. They’re cute. What does plopping onto the thread with disapproving comments actually achieve?

Ihatemondays1962 · 13/11/2025 08:27

I am pretty shocked at anyone letting a cat having kittens. I am constantly seeing posts about rescues overflowing and the rescue system is at breaking point. Although you have found homes for them you have no control over those kittens once they are rehomed so they could go on an produce even more kittens. Saying it is a one and only litter makes it no better. I don't care if my post is seen as being miserable. Get your cat spayed!

TigTails · 13/11/2025 08:27

What a shame. ☹️