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Who wants to wait whilst my kittens are born!

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Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 02:42

My girl is having her kittens! First one is here squeaking and healthy!

Second is imminent.

I think she’ll have 4 🤞🏽🤞🏽

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Happyjoe · 13/11/2025 13:58

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 13:52

She didn't mention her black daddy cat being neutred.

I didn’t say he was mine did I?

What’s the point in commenting if you prefer to believe based on your experience rather than what I actually say?

It renders any conversation pointless because whatever I say you won’t listen.

Seriously - why are you here @Happyjoe?

The kittens are here. There’s nothing for you to add. Go find someone else’s parade to rain on.

Be a responsible owner. Letting your cat out, intact is not responsible if daddy cat isn't yours. This isn't my experience, this is what you actually did, no?
Make sure the kittens are going to be neutered.

Rain on parade, lol, if you see what rescue folk see, you'd not say that. Glad you've nice homes lined up.

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 13:52

She didn't mention her black daddy cat being neutred.

I didn’t say he was mine did I?

What’s the point in commenting if you prefer to believe based on your experience rather than what I actually say?

It renders any conversation pointless because whatever I say you won’t listen.

Seriously - why are you here @Happyjoe?

The kittens are here. There’s nothing for you to add. Go find someone else’s parade to rain on.

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Happyjoe · 13/11/2025 13:50

KirstenNotKristen · 13/11/2025 13:28

I’m in London and got rejected from 4 big name rescues and 3 smaller local charities so I ended up buying from a breeder.

Did they say why?

Happyjoe · 13/11/2025 13:49

PullingOutHair123 · 13/11/2025 11:49

Hmmm

  1. You refuse to believe anything the OP says

  2. You continue to berate her for all the fictional stuff you have decided she will and won't do in the past, or in the present or in the future.

I really hope you don't work in a court of law.

And the very first thing you've missed out that leads me to disbelieve because seen and heard it before;

She let her cat have kittens when so many out there need homes.
She didn't mention her black daddy cat being neutered.

Millytante · 13/11/2025 13:48

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 03:38

Me too - they’ve always been my favourite.

We are keeping 1 and I hope it’s a black one. It’s my son’s choice though as it’ll be his.

Hope it’s not me being weird, but I really love to see a little boy with a beloved cat. Such an all-round encouraging sight.

Millytante · 13/11/2025 13:45

What a clever girl! How wonderful.
Right this minute Ive my two very elderly 🐾🐾 ladies on my lap but I still yearn for a few jolly kittens. Unlikely to ever happen again now Im so old, but aren’t they the best thing in the world?
Many congrats to the relieved mother and I hope her babies all thrive. Nothing makes a cat happier than this! x

KirstenNotKristen · 13/11/2025 13:28

Happyjoe · 13/11/2025 09:47

No other rescues around? Around here we have 5 different rescue centres.

My friend would not have rejected you because of a child, she works with CP. But she would reject if near a main or busy road.

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I’m in London and got rejected from 4 big name rescues and 3 smaller local charities so I ended up buying from a breeder.

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Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 13:13

@Growlybear83 thank you for being concerned. I’m not upset but I am a bit irritated by the lack of basic comprehension skills and the conjecture from some posters baffles me.

My vet told me I’d get people commenting stuff like this but said it’s lovely to do if the circumstances are right (which she agreed they were for me).

There have also been plenty of posts that have made their points respectfully which I’ve no problem with.

It’s the other type that have me 🙄

I will definitely post pics. DH says all is well and they are currently curled up with mum. Mum has eaten well and seems calm.

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Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 13:08

TooTiredMum2 · 13/11/2025 13:05

Me too! And worse, since it was pre-coffee when I read it for the first time this morning, I didn’t find anything strange about that and only now that I came back to this thread and saw your comment I realise that I misread it 😂😂

Omg it totally reads like that 🤣

Could you imagine?

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Growlybear83 · 13/11/2025 13:05

NettleTea · 13/11/2025 10:22

I swear someone could come on here having discovered the cure for cancer and there would be people telling her she was bad and wrong and selfish, and probably did it the wrong way.

Love your kittens OP

Sadly I think you’re right. I saw a comment near the start of this thread saying how nice it was to have a lovely happy thread with no nastiness. It didn’t last long before people descended to derail the thread and have a go at the OP. Many people clearly haven't bothered to read the OP’s posts properly and have failed to see that she has homes for the kitties, and is having the mother neutered.

I really hope the OP isn’t too upset by how her lovely thread has been taken over, and that she posts some more pictures of the beautiful kitties.

TooTiredMum2 · 13/11/2025 13:05

itsallbullshit · 13/11/2025 11:53

I read this as you’d discussed it with your vet and the cat 😂🤦🏻‍♀️

Me too! And worse, since it was pre-coffee when I read it for the first time this morning, I didn’t find anything strange about that and only now that I came back to this thread and saw your comment I realise that I misread it 😂😂

Growlybear83 · 13/11/2025 13:00

ObelixtheGaul · 13/11/2025 10:11

Other forums have sections dedicated to taking the piss out of Mumsnet users really? I bet that's hilarious 😂

Yes it is! 😆😆😆

TorroFerney · 13/11/2025 12:23

MakeMineADietCoke · 13/11/2025 08:49

Of course you’ve done wrong - you’ve deliberately bred from a moggy for no other reason than you wanted to.

you could say that for a lot of humans who “breed” when they absolutely should not.

well or for anyone who has a child, we do it because we want to. It’s not some altruistic act is it.

eyeses · 13/11/2025 12:18

Much of this sounds a lot like "Eat your sprouts, children are starving in Africa".

Congratz on your new arrivals OP, and well done for doing all the right things for the right reasons - doing them to appease the haters wouldn't have worked, as we see.
How wonderful for your son to learn and be part of how life happens. I hope they bring you all, and their new-families-to-be great joy.

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 13/11/2025 12:11

If you keep a female kitten will you let her have a litter as well? And then keep one of her babies??

I love kittens but letting moggies have a litter is irresponsible 🤷‍♀️ the world does not need 5 more cats.

BinNightTonight · 13/11/2025 12:08

So glad they are all well, and mum too!

Swiftie1878 · 13/11/2025 12:04

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 09:31

Mum and 5 kits doing very well.

Gorgeous! 😻
Long may it continue. 🩵🩵

AlltheHedgehogsontheWall · 13/11/2025 12:04

Thepeopleversuswork · 13/11/2025 08:17

You know nothing about how the OP is planning to manage this? I do think its important to spay cats but many people will allow a family cat to have a litter before having them spayed.

Why be so quick to jump in with judgement when you don’t know the circumstances?

We know the circumstances- shelters are overrun with unwanted cats and dogs.

The animals that are already here need looking after before people allow their pets to make more.

Having said that, it is true that rescues tend to have an awful lot of rules about adopting a cat. I looked into it a few years ago and the one local to me didn't allow anyone to adopt in December, didn't allow anyone with an under 5 to adopt, they would inspect your house for cat suitability, and several other things. In the end I gave up on it, and a few months later a local stray moved in of his own accord.

Carla786 · 13/11/2025 12:02

Me! 🐱

viques · 13/11/2025 12:02

Superhansrantowindsor · 13/11/2025 08:18

Are there health benefits to letting a cat have a litter before spaying.

No.

usedtobeaylis · 13/11/2025 11:59

WhatHoJeeves · 13/11/2025 11:50

Wow, the joy thieves are out in force today. Lighten up a little and enjoy the pictures of beautiful new kittens.

I love cats, ours are rescues and are neutered, as all our cats have been. But I can think of many more valid things to get upset about with regard to animal welfare than someone having a litter of loved kittens with homes to go to.

Same. Plus my personal view just isn't relevant to the thread. Anyone with a problem could have just answered 'not me' to the thread title and moved the hell on.

usedtobeaylis · 13/11/2025 11:57

How depressing to make your way through this thread and see that yet again people have to piss on someone else's parade for absolutely no reason. I wish someone would just take your keyboards away and you can go back to twitching your nets.

Congrats OP and I'm glad mama is doing well.

Superhansrantowindsor · 13/11/2025 11:56

This thread has been an eye opener.
I genuinely didn’t realise that so many people see nothing wrong with breeding moggys on purpose. In fact I didn’t know that people bred moggys deliberately. I’m so naive.

itsallbullshit · 13/11/2025 11:53

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 08:30

@EmpressaurusKitty @Pepperedpickles

i am perfectly happy with my decision to let my much loved cat have 1 litter. You have no idea for my reasons for letting her have them and they’re none of your business. I discussed it with my vet and my cat, the father and the kittens are well and healthy. If you think this comment is appropriate on a post where someone has already actually got the kittens then you need to give your head a wobble. I’m not asking you to look after them so jog on.

I’ve been up with her through the whole thing, monitoring and looking after her.

They are loved here and will be loved in their new homes which have already been allocated to close friends and family.

I’ve done nothing wrong.

I read this as you’d discussed it with your vet and the cat 😂🤦🏻‍♀️