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Who wants to wait whilst my kittens are born!

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Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 02:42

My girl is having her kittens! First one is here squeaking and healthy!

Second is imminent.

I think she’ll have 4 🤞🏽🤞🏽

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Happyjoe · 13/11/2025 17:20

KirstenNotKristen · 13/11/2025 15:04

Some of the reasons we received:

Concerns about us not being at home a lot - even though my husband works within walking distance of our home and I wfh twice a week.
Garden was too small and enclosed, some were not happy that we planned on cat fencing to ensure it didn’t roam free.
Concerns about us having children - even though we didn’t want any, still don’t want any and will never have any.
Two bedroom home was too small

That's utterly mad. Sorry...

SaffronsMadAboutMe · 13/11/2025 17:18

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 16:59

If you read my posts you would see that I have close friends and family who expressed an interest if I allowed her to get pregnant. I had homes for 6 kittens before we even allowed her to get pregnant. That’s 6 in addition to the one I’m planning to keep.

And I don’t have to answer any of your questions - you aren’t my boss or an authority figure to me; I don’t know why you feel entitled to demand that I do.

If you must know my vet didn’t ’recommend’ that she have kittens and I don’t say she did. But she told me if I wanted to it’s a nice thing to do and very rewarding if you can look after them. She advised on how to find a mate and getting her spayed as soon after her litter as possible.

If you don’t believe me the first time what what will mean you do the second time I answer? It’s a pointless exercise.

If you read my posts you would see that I have close friends and family who expressed an interest if I allowed her to get pregnant. I had homes for 6 kittens before we even allowed her to get pregnant.

They should've taken on 6 kittens who are already looking for homes then.

You allowing your cat to have a litter has potentially taken away those 6 homes from cats already in care.

Surely you can see you're adding to an already massive problem?

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 17:17

ginasevern · 13/11/2025 17:12

"Yes - it was ‘arranged’ as suggested by the vet - it felt very bizarre"

Your very own words OP.

Yes - how to find a mate was suggested - I honestly despair at the comprehension skills or lack thereof on here.

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ginasevern · 13/11/2025 17:12

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 16:59

If you read my posts you would see that I have close friends and family who expressed an interest if I allowed her to get pregnant. I had homes for 6 kittens before we even allowed her to get pregnant. That’s 6 in addition to the one I’m planning to keep.

And I don’t have to answer any of your questions - you aren’t my boss or an authority figure to me; I don’t know why you feel entitled to demand that I do.

If you must know my vet didn’t ’recommend’ that she have kittens and I don’t say she did. But she told me if I wanted to it’s a nice thing to do and very rewarding if you can look after them. She advised on how to find a mate and getting her spayed as soon after her litter as possible.

If you don’t believe me the first time what what will mean you do the second time I answer? It’s a pointless exercise.

"Yes - it was ‘arranged’ as suggested by the vet - it felt very bizarre"

Your very own words OP.

TimeForATerf · 13/11/2025 17:09

I've already posted here about considerations when kittens are born from a Cat Rescue perspective but I cant walk away from this thread without adding another post.

Whilst I appreciate these kittens already have homes I would ask the OP the following:

  1. Will the new owners still want them if they cant get the sex they want?
  2. Will the new owners still want them if they are found to have life long issues or an expensive special diet?
  3. Will the new owners want them when they realise they are black and white, the most overlooked and unwanted colour in rescues?
  4. Will you invest in the money and time if any of those kittens need hand rearing?

And my last and most important point:

Will these new owners vaccinate @ £75 for a kitten course, microchip @ £30.00 and neuter @ £100 when they take their kitten home. And if so, why didn't they adopt a kitten from a rescue centre where the full health check has been completed and all of the above has been done for just £100? Or will they just hope for the best and "let the females have just one litter" and let the Toms wander the streets for miles un-neutered adding to the population and risking getting knocked down.

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 16:59

ginasevern · 13/11/2025 16:50

But really, how are you going to ensure they don't fall into the wrong hands. And you didn't answer my question. Why did your vet recommend a pregnancy? That's almost unheard of in the veterinary world, or anywhere for that matter.

If you read my posts you would see that I have close friends and family who expressed an interest if I allowed her to get pregnant. I had homes for 6 kittens before we even allowed her to get pregnant. That’s 6 in addition to the one I’m planning to keep.

And I don’t have to answer any of your questions - you aren’t my boss or an authority figure to me; I don’t know why you feel entitled to demand that I do.

If you must know my vet didn’t ’recommend’ that she have kittens and I don’t say she did. But she told me if I wanted to it’s a nice thing to do and very rewarding if you can look after them. She advised on how to find a mate and getting her spayed as soon after her litter as possible.

If you don’t believe me the first time what what will mean you do the second time I answer? It’s a pointless exercise.

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FireandBrimstone · 13/11/2025 16:57

This is literally the epitome of a Mumsnet thread, where something on a topic as utterly wholesome and heartwarming as newborn kittens, can still be selfishly derailed by mean toxicity.

🙄🙄🙄

@Kittenwatch - I loved waking up to your thread this morning and it sounds like your clever Mama cat and her kittens are all being thoroughly well and responsibly cared for 🥰

ginasevern · 13/11/2025 16:50

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 16:46

I’m going to put them in a box on the drive with a ‘take one’ sign 🙄

But really, how are you going to ensure they don't fall into the wrong hands. And you didn't answer my question. Why did your vet recommend a pregnancy? That's almost unheard of in the veterinary world, or anywhere for that matter.

Zempy · 13/11/2025 16:49

You know @Kittenwatch, I am very old, and I have observed that some people become really angry, unpleasant and bitter as Christmas approaches. I used to work with a woman who displayed the kind of shitty ness aimed at you on this thread every bloody year as we got to mid November.

Let us be kind and generous of spirit and assume it’s a temporary affliction that causes them to be so negative about your lovely bundles of kitty joy.

I think ignoring those posts is probably the best course.

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 16:46

ginasevern · 13/11/2025 16:44

@simplesimoneatspie "no doubt they are cute, but I think you have made an irresponsible decision in letting this happen."

I agree. Animal shelters are bursting at the seams. Did your vet really recommend the pregnancy OP? On what basis? I find that rather hard to believe if you are in the UK. How are you going to go about homing the kittens responsibly?

I’m going to put them in a box on the drive with a ‘take one’ sign 🙄

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ginasevern · 13/11/2025 16:44

@simplesimoneatspie "no doubt they are cute, but I think you have made an irresponsible decision in letting this happen."

I agree. Animal shelters are bursting at the seams. Did your vet really recommend the pregnancy OP? On what basis? I find that rather hard to believe if you are in the UK. How are you going to go about homing the kittens responsibly?

ObelixtheGaul · 13/11/2025 16:34

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I second a pp who advised moving to the Litter Tray section.

Lancasterel · 13/11/2025 16:31

Gorgeous gorgeous cat and kittens! Thank you for sharing. My two cats are from a lady whose cat wasn’t neutered and who escaped. We’ve had them since kittens and they are the best cats I’ve ever had - so gentle, loving, brilliant at being cats/pets. My neighbour has rescue cats and although gorgeous they are extremely timid and obviously come with a lot of baggage bless them.
For us, with young children, we didn’t want a rescue who already had life experience and possible trauma, we wanted kittens and my goodness they bring so much joy, are the best pets ever and have taught the children so much about pets and animal care/ownership.

simplesimoneatspie · 13/11/2025 16:29

no doubt they are cute, but I think you have made an irresponsible decision in letting this happen.

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 16:25

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Growlybear83 · 13/11/2025 16:19

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 15:53

It’s quite the visual isn’t it? 🙈

It is! And the strumpet was very noisy as well! She brought him in on several occasions. 😆😆

TheBeaTgoeson1 · 13/11/2025 16:17

7 cats had 7 kits.

Now you have had kittens, then please be responsible and get your cat neutered.

Millytante · 13/11/2025 16:17

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 13:08

Omg it totally reads like that 🤣

Could you imagine?

Very easily!
There are times when, perhaps due to lack of sleep, I am convinced that my extremely elderly matriarch 🐾 is about to speak to me. In English.
My brain stops dead, as it freaks out in advance.
But she’d talk pure sense, I know that. She’s developed quite a rich language of chirrups and squeaks for communicating with me over the years, and I definitely understand her commands and observations!

FrangipaniBlue · 13/11/2025 16:06

Why is there always someone eager to piss on other people’s chips?

Your baby moggies are beautiful OP 🥰

ObelixtheGaul · 13/11/2025 15:58

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 15:52

This was exactly what we joked about as we drank coffee and gave them some alone time.

And then you put your head round the door to find them with their fur on end sharing a post coitus catnip cigarette.

'

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 15:53

Growlybear83 · 13/11/2025 15:51

We didn’t have much choice when our cat got pregnant - she brought her gentleman friend into the conservatory and they shagged for some time in front of my husband who was trying to work at the time 😆😆😆

It’s quite the visual isn’t it? 🙈

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Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 15:52

ObelixtheGaul · 13/11/2025 15:46

I've got this mental image now of you putting 'get it on' music on, dimming the lights and providing a romantic meal for two with some sort of aphrodisiac cat food on the menu.

This was exactly what we joked about as we drank coffee and gave them some alone time.

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PrizedPickledPopcorn · 13/11/2025 15:52

Gosh I miss the laugh emoji, @bigolbananasplit 🤣🤣

Growlybear83 · 13/11/2025 15:51

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 15:41

Yes - it was ‘arranged’ as suggested by the vet - it felt very bizarre 🤣

I was hoping for an errant orange one but nevermind!

We didn’t have much choice when our cat got pregnant - she brought her gentleman friend into the conservatory and they shagged for some time in front of my husband who was trying to work at the time 😆😆😆

ObelixtheGaul · 13/11/2025 15:46

Kittenwatch · 13/11/2025 15:41

Yes - it was ‘arranged’ as suggested by the vet - it felt very bizarre 🤣

I was hoping for an errant orange one but nevermind!

I've got this mental image now of you putting 'get it on' music on, dimming the lights and providing a romantic meal for two with some sort of aphrodisiac cat food on the menu.

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