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To wonder if people prefer the last government to this one?

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malificent7 · 12/11/2025 05:58

The amount of people who are saying they hate this government and would vote reform.
So let me get this straight: many would rather vote for someone who was a member of the facist party at university than labour? Er...ok then. It seems to me that most people are fairly racist and blame others for the state of the economy; immigrants, the disabled, sinle parents, working class etc.

The last government gave us Brexit which was a nightmare and landed us in the shit economically.
At least the roads are getting repaired under labour which is a tangible use of my taxes....and yet people moan about paying more taxes.

Im not saying Labour are amazing...tjey are not but are they worse than the tories?

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RainbowBagels · 13/11/2025 12:59

If Corbyn tore up the plans for that kind of approach then he’s an even bigger, selfish, divisive tool than I thought he was.
He is a vocal and lifelong brexiteer. If he's such an honest conviction politician, as his cult think, he would have had the courage of his own convictions and explained his presumably 40 years of anti EU thinking. Instead he dithered, prevaricated, realised that his puppet masters in Momentum were pro EU and decided to fudge everything to keep himself as Labour leader. The man's inexplicable legend far exceeds his ability, personality or intellect.

RobustPastry · 13/11/2025 11:39

taxguru · 13/11/2025 10:49

He lost a huge amount of traditional Tory supporters due to excluding 3 million self employed, freelancers and casual workers from the covid support schemes. They are the traditional Tory voters! He completely screwed them over and then repeatedly lied in the Commons about it, and unfortunately, Starmer and Reeves were too incompetent to properly challenge him about it as they were too thick to understand the reasons for the 3 million being excluded and believed the lies that Sunak said!

Not totally excluded. Sunak did allow them to take out ‘Bounceback Loans’ which they are still paying off..

HappyGolmore2 · 13/11/2025 11:38

malificent7 · 12/11/2025 05:58

The amount of people who are saying they hate this government and would vote reform.
So let me get this straight: many would rather vote for someone who was a member of the facist party at university than labour? Er...ok then. It seems to me that most people are fairly racist and blame others for the state of the economy; immigrants, the disabled, sinle parents, working class etc.

The last government gave us Brexit which was a nightmare and landed us in the shit economically.
At least the roads are getting repaired under labour which is a tangible use of my taxes....and yet people moan about paying more taxes.

Im not saying Labour are amazing...tjey are not but are they worse than the tories?

I’d prefer Putin to the last government …

RobustPastry · 13/11/2025 11:37

Yes. I won’t ever forgive Corbyn for fucking up the Labour response to those long years of awful Conservative Party infighting that finally resulted in a leaving the EU referendum manifesto commitment, and then in Cameron actually bringing out the Brexit referendum in 2016.

It should have been a matter of serious Labour party planning and strategy years in advance, the fact that the Tories even kept leaving the EU on the agenda, while Farage was gaining influence. Labour could have effectively poured cold water over the whole nonsensical, nationally self-harming thing if they’d not been complacent that people wouldn’t vote for things that are not in their own interests.

Labour could have questioned why we would ever want to spend the billions of public money and see all that parliamentary time wasted on a potential Brexit, rather than spending their own time in opposition trying to get the Tory gov to make progressive policy to help the lives of people in the UK.

Labour could have teamed up with other parties and demanded clear cross party rules about how referendum results would be treated, and demanded a national an enquiry into what Brexit even actually meant. This should have been done as soon as this became a Tory manifesto commitment.

If Corbyn tore up the plans for that kind of approach then he’s an even bigger, selfish, divisive tool than I thought he was.

Brexit wasn’t Labour’s fault- but it’s a national shame and failure of all the political parties, especially the incumbent Tories, that UK living standards had become so crap and UK people were feeling so left behind in swathes of the country, that so many of them voted to Brexit thinking it would somehow improve something. Or maybe just voted Leave as a furious fuck you to PM Cameron, not thinking it would sway the overall result.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 13/11/2025 10:50

taxguru · 13/11/2025 10:47

I agree. We could have had a much better "brexit" had all May's options not been vetoed by Parliament, particularly the left! It's why we ended up with "hard" Brexit because that's what Boris stood for in his GE landslide win.

What was the "soft Brexit" option put forward by May that the left rejected? As far as my memory serves me, she went for a fairly hard Brexit from the outset, justified by the ridiculous slogan that "Brexit means Brexit".

I'm genuinely interested to know what the softer option was that you think she was offering?

taxguru · 13/11/2025 10:49

noworklifebalance · 13/11/2025 10:45

I think Sunak may have been a good PM but who knows.
A significant stupid minority (maybe majority) focussed on the non-dom status of his wife, which was legal, and his own wealth and decide the likes of him are not for us and couldn’t possibly relate to the “ordinary” person (wtf is that anyway?).

He lost a huge amount of traditional Tory supporters due to excluding 3 million self employed, freelancers and casual workers from the covid support schemes. They are the traditional Tory voters! He completely screwed them over and then repeatedly lied in the Commons about it, and unfortunately, Starmer and Reeves were too incompetent to properly challenge him about it as they were too thick to understand the reasons for the 3 million being excluded and believed the lies that Sunak said!

EasternStandard · 13/11/2025 10:48

noworklifebalance · 13/11/2025 10:45

I think Sunak may have been a good PM but who knows.
A significant stupid minority (maybe majority) focussed on the non-dom status of his wife, which was legal, and his own wealth and decide the likes of him are not for us and couldn’t possibly relate to the “ordinary” person (wtf is that anyway?).

Yep

taxguru · 13/11/2025 10:47

snurtifier · 12/11/2025 23:37

Both parties are to blame for the Brexit mess. Cameron agreed to hold a referendum not because he thought it was in the national interest but because he wanted to stop his party splitting. Labour failed to get behind the Remain campaign and then acted against the national interest by refusing to support any of the deals that were put before Parliament.

I agree. We could have had a much better "brexit" had all May's options not been vetoed by Parliament, particularly the left! It's why we ended up with "hard" Brexit because that's what Boris stood for in his GE landslide win.

noworklifebalance · 13/11/2025 10:45

I think Sunak may have been a good PM but who knows.
A significant stupid minority (maybe majority) focussed on the non-dom status of his wife, which was legal, and his own wealth and decide the likes of him are not for us and couldn’t possibly relate to the “ordinary” person (wtf is that anyway?).

SushiDisco · 13/11/2025 10:07

malificent7 · 12/11/2025 06:09

In my area all the roads are being resurfaced...no more potholes.

Yes because the potholes are the biggest issue to country is facing right now.

Marshmallow4545 · 13/11/2025 09:51

Justchilling07 · 12/11/2025 22:38

You’re not keen on Kemi, but still think she’s the best bet! As far as Brexit goes, you really are splitting hairs.The conservatives were obviously in government then and it was their idea, decision to have a referendum.As you said they didn’t deserve to stay in power, but then you’re saying you’d vote for them next time!! Your post doesn’t make sense.

Of course their post makes sense. Politics isn't black and white. You don't have to love a candidate or agree with every one of their policies to vote for them. Sometimes it really is a case of voting for the best of a bad lot.

Labour don't get to wriggle out of their Brexit culpability because they weren't in power. Their actions during the referendum stand for themselves. Pretending that it somehow didn't count because they weren't in power is ridiculous.

I think the Tories had made too many mistakes and gone stale. Franky they were a mess. Labour had decades in the political wilderness to sort themselves out and people thought that they surely were a better option. People we disillusioned and just wanted to Tories out. This was wrong! Many people regret it. Sometimes the grass really isn't greener on the other side. Sometimes the grass is in fact dead.

scalt · 13/11/2025 08:37

38thparallel · 12/11/2025 21:14

We can't change the past, but the fuckers responsible should at the very least be held accountable.

@MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack what form would holding them accountable take?

Prison would be a start. True, we can’t imprison politicians for bad decisions, but we should be prosecuting those who are obviously at the centre of fraud, corruption and lies. Boris Johnson, I’m looking at you. If Joe Public can be imprisoned for lying about who was driving a speeding car, Johnson should be looking at twenty or thirty years for multiple counts of fraud while in a public office.

snurtifier · 12/11/2025 23:37

Both parties are to blame for the Brexit mess. Cameron agreed to hold a referendum not because he thought it was in the national interest but because he wanted to stop his party splitting. Labour failed to get behind the Remain campaign and then acted against the national interest by refusing to support any of the deals that were put before Parliament.

Tiedbutchorestodo · 12/11/2025 23:13

I’d have liked Rishi to have had a longer run as PM - it felt like things were starting to get back on track after Brexit (terrible idea and yes Cameron’s fault) and COVID (not convinced any government would done a good job with that).

I really really don’t like the current government - I’m not massively persuaded by any alternatives though either

Justchilling07 · 12/11/2025 22:38

RosesAndHellebores · 12/11/2025 06:22

The last government did not give us Brexit. There was a referendum and the British people voted for, and by a small margin, gave us Brexit. Brexit is history and if anyone thinks we would be better off had we stayed in Europe just look at the economic state of France, Germany and many other members of federal Europe.

The Conservatives did not deserve to remain in power at the last election but Labour have reverted to type and are gravely and grossly mismanaging the economy. The NI increase, particularly the lowering of the threshold to £5k, has plugged growth and resulted in job losses.

Where we are now was inevitable. I have never voted Labour and never shall because I am old enough to remember the 1970s shit show. Neither shall I ever vote Reform.

It may be helpful if the Liberals could possibly spare some thought for policy and strategy and share it with us. Ed Davey is a genuinely nice man and has worked tirelessly in his constituency but he shows no sign of leading the Libs into government.

Personally, I'm not keen on Kemi but presently she's the best bet.

You’re not keen on Kemi, but still think she’s the best bet! As far as Brexit goes, you really are splitting hairs.The conservatives were obviously in government then and it was their idea, decision to have a referendum.As you said they didn’t deserve to stay in power, but then you’re saying you’d vote for them next time!! Your post doesn’t make sense.

Hayley1256 · 12/11/2025 22:35

malificent7 · 12/11/2025 06:09

In my area all the roads are being resurfaced...no more potholes.

That's a local council decision not a central gov one.

EmpressoftheMundane · 12/11/2025 22:33

I preferred the previous government. The current government have put us in an economic doom loop.

Theimpossiblegirl · 12/11/2025 22:24

I voted for Labour for education. I feel very let down to be honest. The new curriculum doesn't go far enough and it's very secondary focused. Schools are struggling from years of cuts and underfunding but we trusted Labour to improve things. They haven't.

I would never vote Reform or Tory though. However bad people think Labour are, they would be (and have been) worse.

MrsLizzieDarcy · 12/11/2025 21:33

As a small business owner, this Government is genuinely terrifying me.

Genevieva · 12/11/2025 21:25

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 12/11/2025 06:04

The current government is a shit show.

But the Tories were an even shittier show, and Reform would be a fucking sewer.

I've heard a lot of people saying that they might vote Reform because "things can't get any worse". Er, yes they can... and will if people are stupid enough to elect them.

I will be voting for the least worst option at the next election, and for whichever party is most likely to keep Reform out.

Edited

If reverse that. The previous government was a dhit show, but this one is far shittier. They have been talking the economy into the ground from day one. Their rhetoric is scaring investment away and increasing borrowing costs, which means less money coming into the country and more of our taxes are spent repaying debt, instead of having that money for public services. It is palpably stupid.

Ticklyoctopus · 12/11/2025 21:23

PropertyD · 12/11/2025 21:22

Why won’t they be working?

Because it’s rare for a child needing significant support and who can only manage an hour of school a day, or who refuses school completely, to enter the workforce with no issue. I’ve heard this said by many teachers - they think a lot of them will be unemployable

PropertyD · 12/11/2025 21:22

Ticklyoctopus · 12/11/2025 15:05

We have a far more pressing problem on our hands which is the SEN crisis. I truly believe a quarter of current primary aged children will not work through some form of mental health issue or neurodivergence.

Why won’t they be working?

38thparallel · 12/11/2025 21:19

What is your definition of a mansion? grounds? Square footage? Value?

@GasPanic i would also like to know the answer to this.
Would a family of five living in a house with six bedrooms have to pay more tax than a single person living in a house with four bedrooms?
As the pp said, would value affect it?
Anyway, please let us know your definition of a mansion.

38thparallel · 12/11/2025 21:14

We can't change the past, but the fuckers responsible should at the very least be held accountable.

@MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack what form would holding them accountable take?

nearlylovemyusername · 12/11/2025 20:54

They are being held to ransom by their own backbenchers despite having a stonking majority

hmm... backbenchers are Labour, and reflect Labour values as much as KS, RR and the rest.
I'm really surprised that anyone's surprised, their course of actions was completely predictable and we discussed it here on MN in June 2024...