Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

WASPI Women - getting compensated

263 replies

CanSeeClearlyNowTheRainHasGone · 11/11/2025 20:02

I've just read this:

The government will reconsider its decision not to award compensation to Waspi women, Work and Pensions Secretary Pat McFadden has said.

And I'm livid at the incompetence of Labour.

Having put the issue to bed once, they are now going to create a heap of trouble for themselves.

Either they decide (again) not to make any payouts - in which case, cue more outrage from WASPI and negative headlines.

Or they decide now that they will make payouts - which goes directly against the whole "we have to raise taxes" budget.

Or are they really so stupid that they're going to carry on paying everyone, raising salaries for Public Sector, 2-child cap, WFP, etc and carry on bleating about a black hole and how we must all pay more tax.

Am I being unreasonable that this seems like madness?

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
cardibach · 02/02/2026 10:56

cotswoldsgal1234 · 02/02/2026 06:20

I am pointing out that a lot of wealthy people pay a lot of tax.

And a lot don’t. They get it offshore and into legal(but immoral) schemes. It was one of the drivers of Brexit as they’d lose some ways of doing that. The loopholes need closing.

cotswoldsgal1234 · 02/02/2026 06:20

Gremlinsateit · 01/02/2026 23:08

But the top 100 taxpayers are the ones who are, in fact, paying tax. The problem is the ones who structure their affairs so as to stay off that list - high net worth individuals and corporations.

I am pointing out that a lot of wealthy people pay a lot of tax.

Gremlinsateit · 01/02/2026 23:08

cotswoldsgal1234 · 01/02/2026 14:11

No. Read my words. The top 100 tax payers.

But the top 100 taxpayers are the ones who are, in fact, paying tax. The problem is the ones who structure their affairs so as to stay off that list - high net worth individuals and corporations.

crossedlines · 01/02/2026 14:14

The vast majority of women and men were aware of the changes. Specifically, the vast majority of women in the WASPI age range were aware. There was a massive national campaign about the changes. Leaflets, adverts in national papers, letters, pension statements which pretty much had ‘THIS IS IMPORTANT. READ IT’ as a header.

cotswoldsgal1234 · 01/02/2026 14:11

No. Read my words. The top 100 tax payers.

cotswoldsgal1234 · 01/02/2026 14:09

nomas · 12/11/2025 05:25

Fuck sake, seriously? Taxes are going to go up and now millennials and gen z (who won’t retire until age 68+) have to fund pension compensation for boomers who should have planned better. How is £1k each going to replace a pension anyway?

Fucking Labour.

I agree with you. Any half intelligent person knew the pension age was going up, way before it happened. They got to retire at 65. I am 59, so won’t retire until I am 67. But I have to accept it and get on with it. Should I start the campaign that it’s not fair that I have just missed retiring at 65? It’s getting ridiculous and like you I do not want to pay towards their compensation. The great thing for your generation is that companies have to offer pension schemes, which they didn’t have to when I was younger, so I hope you will be able to build bigger pots. I will always push for better conditions for the younger generation, you are having a tough time. Hang on in there and let’s hope things get better.

cotswoldsgal1234 · 01/02/2026 14:02

thankgoditssaturday · 12/11/2025 01:47

It’s probably some legal issue that they can’t just put to bed. Thank god people are able to have a voice and protect themselves when governments make changes. If you want to moan at the government, moan at them for not taxing the multimillionaires, why concentrate your annoyance on women that were approaching retirement then found out the goal posts had shifted massively for them. Women always hate on women don’t they?

Have you seen how much tax the top 100 tax payers paid last year?

Vivi0 · 01/02/2026 13:56

BIossomtoes · 01/02/2026 13:40

Can you two stop it, please?

Sure - this thread doesn’t affect me, so apologies for the derail.

BIossomtoes · 01/02/2026 13:40

Can you two stop it, please?

Vivi0 · 01/02/2026 13:37

Scotiasdarling · 01/02/2026 13:26

Calm down. Your post is a mix of offensiveness and fabrication.

"Bullshit comments" - rude, you just don't agree with me.

"Judgemental" - I don't believe I have said anything judgemental, if I have you'll have to quote me. You on the other hand have described my attitude as "horrendous" completely missing the point that my children do not need help, they are doing fine.

You are perfectly entitled not to like me, but surely "sickening" is a bit strong.

As for your last made up allegation, I have explicitly said that I neither need not want compensation. I came on to this thread on to counter the spectacular rudeness which some posters were directing at older women. And so of course I have found myself the target of it.

Calm down.

Really? Come on now…

“Bullshit comments" - rude, you just don't agree with me.

Kinship placements aside, no grandparent is raising their grandchildren for working parents. Helping out, yes. Raising? Don’t be so ridiculous. So yes, bullshit comments.

And so of course I have found myself the target of it.

You are the target of nothing beyond being called out for your comments about young families, and young women. As I said, your lack of awareness is abysmal.

Scotiasdarling · 01/02/2026 13:26

Vivi0 · 01/02/2026 12:59

I only posted on this thread because of your bullshit comments about grandparents raising grandchildren. Helping your children out isn’t raising their kids for them.

Since then, you’ve only shown just how judgemental of young families (women, particularly) you are, and the distain you hold for them.

I'm afraid I think that people who rely on unpaid childcare are centred around money, obviously they would have less if they paid for childcare.

I brought up two families (2 husbands), gave up work to look after them myself and would not have dreamt of asking old age pensioners to help me.

Your lack of awareness is abysmal.

People who rely on unpaid childcare do so because their options are limited. Kudos to them for trying to avoid becoming trapped on benefits.

It is a luxury to be able to give up work to raise your children. It is now unaffordable to be able to raise a family on one income. Thus, there is no choice but for both parents to work.

You don’t seem to be able to fathom why they would need help. Not everyone is you and had the same circumstances in life that you did. You can’t really see beyond your own situation. As I said, your lack of awareness is abysmal.

I think it’s horrendous that you wouldn’t have helped out your own children, and it speaks volumes about you.

You do expect these same young families (particularly younger women), however, who you judge for relying on “free childcare” to work, to continue relying on that free childcare so they can pay even more tax to compensate women like you. Despite you not even needing it.

Sickening.

Calm down. Your post is a mix of offensiveness and fabrication.

"Bullshit comments" - rude, you just don't agree with me.

"Judgemental" - I don't believe I have said anything judgemental, if I have you'll have to quote me. You on the other hand have described my attitude as "horrendous" completely missing the point that my children do not need help, they are doing fine.

You are perfectly entitled not to like me, but surely "sickening" is a bit strong.

As for your last made up allegation, I have explicitly said that I neither need not want compensation. I came on to this thread on to counter the spectacular rudeness which some posters were directing at older women. And so of course I have found myself the target of it.

crossedlines · 01/02/2026 13:19

AlcoholicAntibiotic · 01/02/2026 13:02

I have a lot of sympathy for the cohort who were given relatively short notice of the additional increase to their pension age.

I don’t have any sympathy for the rest of the WASPI campaign, some of whom seem to think they had a divine right to retire at 60. And must have been living under a rock if they hadn’t heard of the 1995 changes,

If the campaign had just concentrated on the small cohort who really were treated unfairly I think they’d have been a lot more successful.

Exactly.

Like I said, I was born and grew up in an era when women received the state pension at 60. The pension age was equalised (quite rightly) and then extended… I won’t received state pension until 67. And while obviously I’d prefer to get it sooner (wouldn’t we all?!) I understand the reasons behind the changes and the need for pensions to be affordable.

im afraid far too many women don’t give enough consideration to their financial future. Among friends, acquaintances, even family members of around my age there are women who:

*still think they ‘should’ be able to retire and get state pension at 60

  • have worked part time for years (in some cases never returning to full time even after their kids are adults) and are then surprised that their work pension is a fraction of what it could be

*have no interest in discussing or even thinking about pensions

The statistics show that women as a group are far more likely to be poor in their older age than men. It’s very frustrating when it’s women themselves who aren’t taking that fact seriously.

it’s also worth noting that the men in this age group have also been affected - those expecting to retire at 65 who’ve had their pensionable age pushed back to 66, 67…. Yet we don’t hear anything from them - presumably because they heeded the campaigns about pensions.

DaphneduM · 01/02/2026 13:12

BIossomtoes · 01/02/2026 13:11

As one of that cohort - thank you.

Likewise - thank you!

BIossomtoes · 01/02/2026 13:11

AlcoholicAntibiotic · 01/02/2026 13:02

I have a lot of sympathy for the cohort who were given relatively short notice of the additional increase to their pension age.

I don’t have any sympathy for the rest of the WASPI campaign, some of whom seem to think they had a divine right to retire at 60. And must have been living under a rock if they hadn’t heard of the 1995 changes,

If the campaign had just concentrated on the small cohort who really were treated unfairly I think they’d have been a lot more successful.

As one of that cohort - thank you.

DaphneduM · 01/02/2026 13:11

I was absolutely aware of the 1995 pensions act and the change to my pension age - no problem at all. But unfortunately I came into the cohort of women also affected by the 2011 pensions act. So under this 2011 act for example if you were born on 5 April 1953 you received your pension on 6 March 2016, but if you were born on 6 November 1953 then you received your pension on 6 November 2018 - so just seven months younger resulted in the timetable accelerating 2 years 8 months (on top of the 1995 increases obviously).

Birth dates between 6 April 1953 and 5 December 1953 were the most punitive - four months extra added for each month increase in your date of birth. That was what I thought was so unfair - it deliberately disadvantaged that cohort of women.

Surprise, surprise for equalisation in pensions age for men and women from 66 to 67 still under 2011 act the timetable reverts to only one month extra for each month increase in your date of birth. So those WASPI women in the April to December 53 cohort had four times the acceleration that the men had and much less notice.

But having raised my blood pressure writing all this - and it's been something I've always thought so unfair, I guess because for WASPI it's actually about not being notified under the 1995 act rather the 2011 act, I have to let it go. But that doesn't alter the fact the Ombudsman found in their favour and the government has reneged on this.

Vivi0 · 01/02/2026 13:11

Scotiasdarling · 01/02/2026 12:46

But at 15 we did have mini skirts and Mary Quant and Vidal Sassoon, and I think we had a lot more fun than young women seem to now!

Younger women do appear to be living rent free in your head.

cardibach · 01/02/2026 13:07

AlcoholicAntibiotic · 01/02/2026 13:02

I have a lot of sympathy for the cohort who were given relatively short notice of the additional increase to their pension age.

I don’t have any sympathy for the rest of the WASPI campaign, some of whom seem to think they had a divine right to retire at 60. And must have been living under a rock if they hadn’t heard of the 1995 changes,

If the campaign had just concentrated on the small cohort who really were treated unfairly I think they’d have been a lot more successful.

Absolutely. They are the only ones with any sort of case.

AlcoholicAntibiotic · 01/02/2026 13:02

I have a lot of sympathy for the cohort who were given relatively short notice of the additional increase to their pension age.

I don’t have any sympathy for the rest of the WASPI campaign, some of whom seem to think they had a divine right to retire at 60. And must have been living under a rock if they hadn’t heard of the 1995 changes,

If the campaign had just concentrated on the small cohort who really were treated unfairly I think they’d have been a lot more successful.

Vivi0 · 01/02/2026 12:59

Scotiasdarling · 31/01/2026 14:09

I can accept you being angry because you feel hard done by, but there is no need to make things up about me.

You say I am centred around money, nothing could be further from the truth. I have plenty of money and don't expect any compensation. I'm afraid I think that people who rely on unpaid childcare are centred around money, obviously they would have less if they paid for childcare.

I suppose some grandparents are short of things to do and don't mind being taken advantage of but I have my own busy life. Helping adults to parent isn't really helping, too often it seems to de skill them and they become even more dependent. My children have been completely independent since leaving university. Our relationship is one of equal adults.

"Perhaps I should have followed my own advice'
Why on earth do you think I didn't?
I brought up two families (2 husbands), gave up work to look after them myself and would not have dreamt of asking old age pensioners to help me. I loved every minute of it, but have no interest in children who aren't my own.

You should try not to make things up about other people to fit your own narrative.

I only posted on this thread because of your bullshit comments about grandparents raising grandchildren. Helping your children out isn’t raising their kids for them.

Since then, you’ve only shown just how judgemental of young families (women, particularly) you are, and the distain you hold for them.

I'm afraid I think that people who rely on unpaid childcare are centred around money, obviously they would have less if they paid for childcare.

I brought up two families (2 husbands), gave up work to look after them myself and would not have dreamt of asking old age pensioners to help me.

Your lack of awareness is abysmal.

People who rely on unpaid childcare do so because their options are limited. Kudos to them for trying to avoid becoming trapped on benefits.

It is a luxury to be able to give up work to raise your children. It is now unaffordable to be able to raise a family on one income. Thus, there is no choice but for both parents to work.

You don’t seem to be able to fathom why they would need help. Not everyone is you and had the same circumstances in life that you did. You can’t really see beyond your own situation. As I said, your lack of awareness is abysmal.

I think it’s horrendous that you wouldn’t have helped out your own children, and it speaks volumes about you.

You do expect these same young families (particularly younger women), however, who you judge for relying on “free childcare” to work, to continue relying on that free childcare so they can pay even more tax to compensate women like you. Despite you not even needing it.

Sickening.

crossedlines · 01/02/2026 12:56

The equalisation to pension age was made decades ago. Yes there was a shorter notice change later but this was massively publicised through public information leaflets, national advertising campaigns, pension statements etc. The investigation into the WASPI women concluded that something like 82% of affected women had bothered to take notice of this. Some of the minority who didn’t even admitted they hadn’t opened or read letters posted to them individually about their pension.

Of course no one likes having to work longer. When I was born and growing up the pension age for women was 60. I won’t receive a state pension until I’m 67. But I understand why. I’ve taken responsibility for my finances. I certainly don’t think people should be financially compensated for ignoring what was widely publicised.

cardibach · 01/02/2026 12:49

Flitteryflatteryflips · 31/01/2026 14:02

Yes we were paid less than men even for the same job. In my job, women couldn’t join the workplace pension scheme. Women were overlooked for promotions and many of us gave up work when we became pregnant.

I became a single parent in the 70s, I couldn’t get a mortgage. I was told patronisingly to go home and talk to my husband.

The sexism in society was terrible I agree. It wasn’t much better when I was a young adult, though by the time I needed a mortgage I could get it in my name. I was a teacher so the pension was compulsory but most other workplaces didn’t really bother.
It’s a different issue from the state pension though.

Scotiasdarling · 01/02/2026 12:46

But at 15 we did have mini skirts and Mary Quant and Vidal Sassoon, and I think we had a lot more fun than young women seem to now!

cardibach · 01/02/2026 12:40

Katypp · 31/01/2026 08:59

I would save your breath @BIossomtoes they don't want to know.
Nothing you or anyone else can say will shift the conviction that younger people are the most disadvantaged generation ever in the history of the world. The issues faced by earlier generations count for nothing because theirs are worse.
And I am laughing at the assertion by a couple of pps that they would be absolutely fine with being told two years before they retired that they had to work another six years. Of course they would.
Also laughing at the apparent recklessness of assuming you will retire at published state retirement age without carrying out extensive checks that nothing has changed. As if.
FWIW, I don't think WASPI women should be compensated because their hardship has basically been and gone and £3000 or whatever will do nothing to alleviate a problem that occurred years ago. Plus the country can't afford it.
However this dies not excuse the ignorance, spite and sheer unpleasantness on this thread, but it is ever thus on threads that suggest previous generations had their struggles too.

People weren’t told two years before retirement they had to work another 6 were they? There was a change to 65 which had a long notice period that everyone should have been aware of and then a short notice change of 2 more years (which I was also aware of, though I’m younger than those affected). As I say, I have sympathy, nobody wants to work longer, but it was a short extension.

Scotiasdarling · 01/02/2026 12:40

BowstotheSettingSun · 01/02/2026 09:47

If you were in your early sixties in 2033 it wouldn't be such a big tragedy though would it? Sure no one wants to work to 65 but it's a straightforward remedy and one that the vast majority of us are now having to take (and then some).

Preaching that it was terrible for some women to have to work to 65 is never going to play well to an audience of women that have to work to 67/68 or possibly longer.

You are missing quite a major point. The woman born in 1953 would in all probability have started work at 15. That was school leaving age, and only around 10% of people went to university (and fewer than half of that 10% were women). So their working life would be 50 years to get their state pension at 65.
Now that a majority of people go to university they don't start full time working till at least 21 so their working life to get their pension at 67 is actually only 46 years. But why let facts get in the way of a good story?

Swipe left for the next trending thread