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To find the obsession with Toby Carvery baffling?

111 replies

Kaykay90 · 11/11/2025 16:47

I went on Sunday and won’t be returning. Tiny portion of meat, kids running riot and it smelt like stale farts.

Anyone else struggle to see the appeal?

OP posts:
Zov · 11/11/2025 20:13

Jc2001 · 11/11/2025 18:43

I've been a few times and don't recognise what you say. I think it's maybe the area you live in. Try travelling to a nicer town next time.

This. ^ I think @Kaykay90 must live in an area that's not as nice as where many others of us live (who have nice Tobey Carveries.) Wink

Zov · 11/11/2025 20:12

@Kaykay90 · Today 17:01

We are going to stick to our country pubs for a home cooked roast in the future. Yes, you pay a premium but it’s worth it IMO - and also helps with regulating the clientele.

😂 Take it easy Hyacinth. 😆

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AD1509 · 11/11/2025 19:47

It’s just an adults maccys isn’t it? Not meant to be anything special

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 11/11/2025 19:43

FarmGirl78 · 11/11/2025 19:32

Ahh that's very interesting! I don't live in the West Mids, and I'm not even from there, but I did live there for 12 years. I still have a bit of an accent now and again. My heart still remains there so I love that you picked up on it. Is it the word "scutters" that gave it away? 🤣

Edited

Yes 😊 I lived in Birmingham for a bit but was told scutters is very much a Wolverhampton thing. ( is that true?)

FarmGirl78 · 11/11/2025 19:32

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 11/11/2025 19:28

How to say you are from the West Midlands without saying you are from the West Midlands 🤣

Ahh that's very interesting! I don't live in the West Mids, and I'm not even from there, but I did live there for 12 years. I still have a bit of an accent now and again. My heart still remains there so I love that you picked up on it. Is it the word "scutters" that gave it away? 🤣

LlynTegid · 11/11/2025 19:31

Not for me, but I can see the appeal be it a Toby carvery or another chain. Especially if you or any one of those with you are choosy in what vegetables you will eat.

sandrapinchedmysandwich · 11/11/2025 19:28

FarmGirl78 · 11/11/2025 16:56

And theres so many kids running round screaming and "What did I tell you about your fucking behaviour? You're a little shit!" shouty parents, because for all the local scutters it's a really posh place to eat out for family birthdays. Every few years I venture back and immediately remember why I hate it so much.

How to say you are from the West Midlands without saying you are from the West Midlands 🤣

FarmGirl78 · 11/11/2025 19:25

Rubyupbeat · 11/11/2025 19:01

@FarmGirl78 Wow, you must live in a really scummy area!

I think my mistake is when I come out of my town I turn right down the dual carriageway, towards a VERY scutty town, and the Toby is midway between. I need to turn start turning left. Its all relative isn't it? People further left who are even posher are probably distraught when they turn right from their own town and end up in mine 🤣🤣

TheWytch · 11/11/2025 19:03

Being veggie I wouldn't go for the carvery, but it was the breakfast option for somewhere we were staying like a Travelodge.

I rarely complain in an eating place but this was disgusting. The supposedly clean plates had food remnants dried on them - and this was almost all of them. We struggled to find a clean plate. Same with the glasses.

I will never eat in one again

Rubyupbeat · 11/11/2025 19:01

@FarmGirl78 Wow, you must live in a really scummy area!

FrankSinatraonToast · 11/11/2025 18:59

The stale fart smell would put me off. I o ly go to Carveries where the farts smell fresh.

HRTQueen · 11/11/2025 18:52

People like it because it cheap and good value for money not difficult to work out

what’s with MN and the not so hidden snobbery around Toby carvery

jay55 · 11/11/2025 18:50

I wish I lived near one. Or maybe it’s better I don’t. I really enjoy them. Cheap and straightforward, and a good way to get a good portion of veg into me.

Screamingabdabz · 11/11/2025 18:43

Same op. We booked on the back of everyone raving about them but left feeling quite traumatised about the whole thing. It was god awful. My DH is a pie and mash man so no snobby cuisine pretensions here but it was like going to a run down damp old house which had lots of sullen looking obese people and families in pyjamas (I’m not joking) and the food was virtually inedible.

I couldn’t wait to get out of there - I think we left most of the food and paid the bill as soon as we could.

In fairness we’ve had some shit carveries at really popular country pubs in bougie villages too. It makes me think that people don’t actually know what a good quality roast dinner actually looks and tastes like.

Jc2001 · 11/11/2025 18:43

Kaykay90 · 11/11/2025 16:47

I went on Sunday and won’t be returning. Tiny portion of meat, kids running riot and it smelt like stale farts.

Anyone else struggle to see the appeal?

I've been a few times and don't recognise what you say. I think it's maybe the area you live in. Try travelling to a nicer town next time.

Letsskidaddle · 11/11/2025 18:43

My closest one is excellent and has been run well for years. It’s quite small so never hugely busy. I’m a massive fan of a roast dinner - when I’ve got a roast craving, it’s great! I can eat as soon as I arrive and the quality is consistent. The roast potatoes and beef are always amazing! It’s not a ‘restaurant’ in the sense that some are, but it doesn’t pretend to be anything more than it is.

I’ve been to a couple that aren’t local and admittedly the surroundings weren’t as good but the food was pretty much the same (it was a bit noisier and more untidy, but was a really busy Sunday).

@Kaykay90Looking down on people who enjoy a Toby Carvery, and making assumptions about what they can and can’t afford, is really unpleasant. Check your own behaviour and attitude before belittling others; they’re not the problem on this occasion.

FarmGirl78 · 11/11/2025 18:43

EchoedSilence · 11/11/2025 18:40

We went to a Green King carvery on Sunday and the roast potatoes were amazing. I also had mash because why not?

That's the same chain as Farmhouse inns or whatever they're called. They're all "Farms". Just wonderful. Based on the mash AND the lack of sweary families.

devildeepbluesea · 11/11/2025 18:41

Kaykay90 · 11/11/2025 17:01

We are going to stick to our country pubs for a home cooked roast in the future. Yes, you pay a premium but it’s worth it IMO - and also helps with regulating the clientele.

Fucking hell

EchoedSilence · 11/11/2025 18:40

We went to a Green King carvery on Sunday and the roast potatoes were amazing. I also had mash because why not?

FarmGirl78 · 11/11/2025 18:40

FarmGirl78 · 11/11/2025 18:40

Are you kidding me? It's mash all the way for me. I'd be happy with just a plate of 50% turkey and 50% mash.

And a bit of cauliflower cheese on the sly.

FarmGirl78 · 11/11/2025 18:40

happygarden · 11/11/2025 18:12

I think they are gross too, it’s a quantity over quality thing.
Whats the mash all about?! who on earth wants mash with their roasts when you can have roast potatoes

Are you kidding me? It's mash all the way for me. I'd be happy with just a plate of 50% turkey and 50% mash.

Strider55 · 11/11/2025 18:38

I've never been impressed with their carvery but I love a Toby breakfast 🤤 it's the only time it's acceptable to have 5 sausages on your breakfast

FarmGirl78 · 11/11/2025 18:36

fivebyfivefaith · 11/11/2025 17:45

I go to the local stonehouse carvery, you get more meat there (so my dad reckons)
it’s clean, the food is hot and fresh and never any kids running about

I have a Farmhouse inns carvery about once a fortnight, much better quality. There's one not quite local to me that gives bigger portions of meat than my local one so I'll gladly drive out of my way for it. If I ever came into money I'd probably eat there every other night (yes, I'm an awful cook and don't mind admitting it!). Love love love a good carvery!!

My local Farmhouse has started doing all you can eat carvery which is just WONDERFUL. I've still never managed more than 3 trips up though. 😋

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 11/11/2025 18:34

happygarden · 11/11/2025 18:12

I think they are gross too, it’s a quantity over quality thing.
Whats the mash all about?! who on earth wants mash with their roasts when you can have roast potatoes

You have both. Obviously 🙄

LightDrizzle · 11/11/2025 18:34

We were amazed when a colleague of DH’s suggested we go to a pub near them that does a great Sunday Lunch. He attended catering college in his youth and considered himself a foodie. We followed him and his wife in our car from their house and he pulled into a Toby Carvery! I wonder whether he didn’t know it is a chain? It was so odd. Like saying you know a place near you that does a great burger and rocking up at McDonalds.

I wasn’t impressed with the food, the roast potatoes and Yorkshire puddings were poor. This is over a decade ago though. I haven’t been back.

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