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Do you think we should life the two child benefit cap?

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Marshmallow4545 · 11/11/2025 07:16

I believe that the majority of people think that the cap should remain and child poverty should be tackled in different ways.

Personally I would like to see children on FSMs allowed free access to after school extracurricular clubs and activities. I would also provide more poor families with access to food banks and would look to stock these with a range of healthy and nutritious options either through donation or state funding if required. I would also look to recruit volunteers to offer advice on health and diet in these places. I would provide clothing and school uniform banks with high quality, second hand clothing that kids would actually want to wear. I have some branded 'fashionable' stuff my kids have grown out of that's still in great condition that I would happily donate.

All of the above in my view is preferable to lifting the cap and would be more effective in tackling the impact that child poverty has on the child.

So AIBU that the two child cap should remain and we should look at other more direct ways to tackle child poverty?

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GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 11/11/2025 08:47

Yellowshirt · 11/11/2025 08:42

Labour needs to cut the credit cards up and stop spending money that's not in the bank. Cut all welfare and put it towards debt.
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Nothing is being done to help working people. A single person earning less than £30000 now may as well give up work and claim benefits.

You know that “cut the credit cards up” type reasoning and so-called austerity is partly what has got us into the mess we’re in?

It’s been proved not to work.

kirinm · 11/11/2025 08:46

Didn’t the Tories do a great job of making people hate other people. It’s so present in all areas of life now.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 11/11/2025 08:45

I think they should have lifted it as soon as they came into power, as it’s a cruel policy which has pushed many children into poverty.

No axe to grind as I don’t get any benefits and only have two children anyway. But I do care about people other than myself!

EasternStandard · 11/11/2025 08:45

AirborneElephant · 11/11/2025 08:33

If Labour simultaneously increase the welfare bill while raising taxes then they have completely trashed their manifesto promises and will be opening the door wide to a reform government. They have no popular mandate for that and no, I hope they do not lift the cap. There are other ways of protecting children that do not involve rewarding feckless parents. I desperately hope they come to their senses but unfortunately I think Starmer is far too weak to stand up to the left wing of his party.

This is likely to try and squash MPs who are angry about the breaking of the manifesto pledge.

The electorate won’t take tax rises and benefit increases. They’ve probably given up on what people think entirely, just trying to stay in leadership.

kirinm · 11/11/2025 08:44

Kirbert2 · 11/11/2025 08:11

Child benefit has never been capped. It is the child element of UC which was limited to 2 children back in 2013 I think it was.

Sorry you’re right although child benefit has a type of cap as well.

My point still stands however. It shouldn’t be lifted.

lostintranslation148 · 11/11/2025 08:44

I thought the government were desperate for money? So they're going to tax everyone more so they can pay people who want more kids than they can afford - and encourage people to stay on benefits by getting paid to have more and more kids.

Nobody wants kids living in poverty but why are people having more kids than they can afford? They're obviously not the most responsible of parents and we're just encouraging them to have more.

I've managed to have sex for 35 years and only get pregnant once, it's really not that hard.

We don't need more kids if the 5% of the population (3 million people plus) who don't work started working. There are plenty of people to go around, what there aren't enough of are jobs. A higher birth rate isn't going to lead to more jobs, it's going to lead to more people on benefits because they can't find jobs.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 11/11/2025 08:43

Benefits should be treated the same way as charitable aid for other countries. It's an emergency fund to get you back on your feet. Not a long term option.
We have seen that charity does not work. It does not help third world countries to get themselves out of poverty.

No, I do not agree with lifting the 2 child cap. I believe parents should be encouraged to work, save, educate themselves in order to get themselves and their children out of poverty.

I don't want to pay / can't pay anymore tax. I am not taking anymore food from my kids table to give it to someone else...

Yellowshirt · 11/11/2025 08:42

Labour needs to cut the credit cards up and stop spending money that's not in the bank. Cut all welfare and put it towards debt.
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Nothing is being done to help working people. A single person earning less than £30000 now may as well give up work and claim benefits.

x2boys · 11/11/2025 08:42

Kendodd · 11/11/2025 08:38

Child benefit is capped. It's capped my income, if you earn over a certain amount you don't get it.

Yes i realise that most benefits are means tested
But some posters seem to think that child benefit is capped at two children it isn't, you can have ten children and if your eligible for child benefit you will get it for all of them
It's the child element of universal credit that is capped at two children.

BIossomtoes · 11/11/2025 08:41

Milly16 · 11/11/2025 08:31

It's the falling birthrate. We need people to look after us and generate tax income in our old age.

Exactly this. There are over four million children living in poverty now. I don’t want to live in a country where this is the case. The cap should absolutely be lifted and if parents’ behaviour contributes Sure Start should be resurrected.

1apenny2apenny · 11/11/2025 08:40

I don’t think it should be lifted. Tax should not be increased and the 2 cap lifted.

We are told that lifting it will lift children out of poverty yet when it comes to it no-one will show figures to prove this and we’ll still have thousands in poverty. There never seems to be enough money. Many people are restricting to 1 child, sometimes 2, it’s sensible, it’s manageable esp in cases where relationships go wrong.

People talk about needing more workers - really? Have you read the multiple posts of people not being able to get jobs. Seen the benefits bill for those that aren’t working? Whose to say all these extra children will be taxpayers?!

I have no doubt they’ll lift it. Giving more to their voter base and screwing the rest of us, except when we all change our habits so get tax take actually falls.

Snorlaxo · 11/11/2025 08:39

If living in poverty means living in households earning less than 60% of the median income, who are the new people ending up living in poverty if the cap is lifted? I’m not saying don’t help children but I assume that the people below the new poverty figure will be the disabled and pensioners who also have limited choices to increase income.

My area has schemes where you can get things like second hand uniform and children’s winter coats at very low prices. It costs money to get to this warehouse but it is both environmentally friendly and a helpful idea.

I believe that many schools do subsidised (free) breakfast club and after school care for low-income families too (maybe FSM?) I think that taxpayers would prefer practical help like that so parents can work.

Mrswhiskers87 · 11/11/2025 08:39

vivainsomnia · 11/11/2025 07:29

Personally I would like to see children on FSMs allowed free access to after school extracurricular clubs and activities
Genuinely curious about why. I always considered these a luxury not a need.

I agree with some of it, to an extent. You can get good second hand clothes on Vinted nowadays.

Sadly, if you provide families on very low income the same 'luxuries' than those that people working stressful and longer hours are proud to be able to give their children, you take away the incentive to do so.

Its a hard line to try not to penalise anyone.

Enriching activities where children get to find hobbies, learn new skills, keep fit and meet other kids should not be considered a luxury. Unfortunately years of austerity means we no longer have youth clubs and similar community initiatives that provided children with something to do. In some areas this pushes kids into gangs and crime, in other areas it means kids are isolated, not realising their full potential and potentially physically unhealthy. All kids deserve the same opportunities.

Also your point about no incentive to work - that’s simply not true. Many children who would benefit from extra support as detailed in the OP come from working families. But we’re living though a COL crisis and wages are low in this country. Imagine wanting to deprive children from some second hand nice clothes because some richer families have had to buy their kids nice clothes brand new?!

Kendodd · 11/11/2025 08:38

x2boys · 11/11/2025 08:35

Again its not child benefit that has a cap its never been child benefit
Its the child element of universal credit that's capped and its significantly more than child benefit .

Child benefit is capped. It's capped my income, if you earn over a certain amount you don't get it.

HappyGilmorex · 11/11/2025 08:37

TigerRag · 11/11/2025 08:33

But is it right that parents just over the threshold can't afford another child but someone on UC could have another because others will be paying for it?

I don't really understand your point. Is it that because Family A can't afford a third child because they're over the the threshold, the children in Family B should be made to live in poverty as some kind of cosmic retribution?

x2boys · 11/11/2025 08:35

SuffolkSun · 11/11/2025 08:29

My belief is that child benefit should be given as vouchers which are restricted in how they are spent. Yes this is very nanny state, but there is always a perception benefits are spent on alcohol, vales or cigarettes

You assume that CB is spent on fags n' drink, perhaps. Don't assume it's general. As the vast majority of parents receive CB, and CB is there to assist with all the costs associated with bringing up children (which go far beyond feeding them) have you thought through how your scheme will work? I'm always struck by how often many proposed "solutions" to lowering the cost of a govt-funded thing are more complex and would involve a huge amount of additional costs (admin, printing) to implement them.

Again its not child benefit that has a cap its never been child benefit
Its the child element of universal credit that's capped and its significantly more than child benefit .

Andanotherplease · 11/11/2025 08:35

It’s the right thing to do to lift the 2 child UC child element cap. There are other ways to tackle the huge debt the country is in. This is a sensible and caring move if they do lift it and will restore confidence in Labour. I’m 100% behind this. It may very well be what stops Reform as well.

traintonowheretoday · 11/11/2025 08:35

Yes it should stay unless they also address the unfairness in the whole child benefit system

why should “poorer” families be supported to have more children paid for by the taxpayer than they can afford but others are not by way or the child benefit higher income charge which penalises single income families

ChubbyPuffling · 11/11/2025 08:34

AI will be foremost in the mind of the government think tanks, we are moving towards universal income. Everyone will be on benefits.

I think raising the 2 child benefits cap will have precious little effect. But the money will get spent (not put into savings) by the families who need it... its one way to boost the economy a little bit.

PathOfLeastResitance · 11/11/2025 08:33

Marshmallow4545 · 11/11/2025 07:16

I believe that the majority of people think that the cap should remain and child poverty should be tackled in different ways.

Personally I would like to see children on FSMs allowed free access to after school extracurricular clubs and activities. I would also provide more poor families with access to food banks and would look to stock these with a range of healthy and nutritious options either through donation or state funding if required. I would also look to recruit volunteers to offer advice on health and diet in these places. I would provide clothing and school uniform banks with high quality, second hand clothing that kids would actually want to wear. I have some branded 'fashionable' stuff my kids have grown out of that's still in great condition that I would happily donate.

All of the above in my view is preferable to lifting the cap and would be more effective in tackling the impact that child poverty has on the child.

So AIBU that the two child cap should remain and we should look at other more direct ways to tackle child poverty?

Absolutely everything you have listed as ideas is what is provided at my school.
in terms of the cap and lifting it, I don’t know enough to comment.

AirborneElephant · 11/11/2025 08:33

If Labour simultaneously increase the welfare bill while raising taxes then they have completely trashed their manifesto promises and will be opening the door wide to a reform government. They have no popular mandate for that and no, I hope they do not lift the cap. There are other ways of protecting children that do not involve rewarding feckless parents. I desperately hope they come to their senses but unfortunately I think Starmer is far too weak to stand up to the left wing of his party.

Advocodo · 11/11/2025 08:33

I think we should scrap the 2 child only. The birth rate is falling. We need more children to be born. It’s a problem throughout the western world.

TigerRag · 11/11/2025 08:33

CorneliaCupp · 11/11/2025 08:26

Of course the cap should be lifted! I can't understand why anyone would want children to stay in poverty when experts have told us how to prevent that!

But is it right that parents just over the threshold can't afford another child but someone on UC could have another because others will be paying for it?

EasternStandard · 11/11/2025 08:33

Milly16 · 11/11/2025 08:31

It's the falling birthrate. We need people to look after us and generate tax income in our old age.

We don’t. But the time they enter the workforce it’ll be changed by AI.

HappyGilmorex · 11/11/2025 08:32

AlexaBeQuiet · 11/11/2025 08:26

This! If you have to rely on benefits you should not be having more kids! Poverty should be managed in other ways.
If you have 2 kids and can’t afford 4 don’t have them!
I have a Merc but would like a Porsche but I can’t afford one. I don’t expect the tax payers of this country to pay for it.

By a Porsche isn't a child, is it? It's a machine, not a person. But whether you like it or not these children exist, and they grow up in poverty, and that blights their whole lives. And lifting the two child cap is the difference between 500,000 existing children growing up in poverty, or growing up with the basic necessities of life.

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