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Neighbour has complained about Portaloo

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Helenwalker2 · 10/11/2025 17:24

We are having some work done on our house which has required a portaloo to be placed at the front. This was a requirement of both parties who quoted if we weren’t to allow access to a toilet indoors for the various trades who will be on site (absolutely no chance with the horror stories I’ve read on here and from a couple of friends).

Our property is at the end of our street so we have only one direct neighbour. When it was first delivered the woman who lives next door made a comment about it being unsightly and hoping it won’t be there for too long - I confirmed the works are going to take up to 3-4 weeks but would keep her updated.

We are 2 weeks on, and this morning our neighbours husband knocked. He said they are unhappy with the smell and want us to move it to the back of our house in the garden. I confirmed we had previously asked and this wasn’t possible. Note we don’t believe there to be any smell albeit were away this weekend.

The woman then knocked this afternoon. Moaning about how bad it smelt at the weekend and how we are unreasonable to have placed it outside the front of our house and so close to their windows.

I said the work is still on plan and it will be gone in the next week or two. She then said she is going to complain to the council as they’ve had ‘advice’ that it isn’t permissible to place portaloos at the front of houses where there’s an attached house (as both ours is being semi detached).

AIBU to stand firm? We don’t believe there’s any truth in what she’s said and by the time the council get round to doing anything, it should be gone.

OP posts:
divorcinganabsolutewanker · 11/11/2025 15:10

Redpeach · 10/11/2025 17:36

Wouldn't it be cheaper and easier to let them use yours and employ a cleaner? Have you never had a party? Same difference

As if.

vellichoria · 11/11/2025 15:07

Franpie · 11/11/2025 14:49

But you could have just asked him to tidy up after himself. It’s not that difficult. I always ask that my contractors tidy the site at the end of every day. Decent ones don’t even need to be asked.

He did tidy the general rubbish after himself (e.g. packaging etc) but it's not realistic to have asked him to mop the floor in the toilet for example. And to be honest I wasn't that keen on asking him to open the window after his number 2. Yes, I can be judged for that but I am just not comfortable having the conversation, and I can see why others just would feel the same about asking adult s to clean the toilet after themselves etc. Especially, if there isn't an established habit to do that and you may have to repeat yourself more than once. It would have been worse if there are multiple people working on your house.

CitizenofMoronia · 11/11/2025 15:01

decorate it with bunting and fairy lights... and one of them battery-operated air freshners that poof when you walk past.

tempname1234 · 11/11/2025 14:53

Forgive me if this is written already and I missed it, but you say the portaloo is where it is because of a work van and a skip. These things may be able to be manoeuvred so the work van is by the wall, then skip, then portaloo.

Also, does the portaloo need emptying?

you’re not unreasonable to have a portaloo. We had for our building works. We too have a wall between house but also huge hedges and the portaloo was towards the end of the driveway so as far away as possible from our neighbour’s home/windows. You can imagine a few weeks worth of sewage is going to smell.

Franpie · 11/11/2025 14:49

vellichoria · 11/11/2025 13:24

When we were redoing our kitchen, our kitchen supplier asked us if we wanted one. I said "no" and came to regret it in the end but in retrospect if I opted for one, I would have come to regret it anyway as our kitchen nightmare installation went on for 5 months instead of the promised 4-5 weeks!

Still, I don't see it as being the same as the old colonial families making their servants use a separate loo. Our fitter, for example, used our downstairs loo. Naturally, he never removed his boots throughout the installation and I had to live with the dirty floor on a daily basis. If that wasn't enough, he wasn't exactly keen on cleaning up after himself or leaving the window open, so we had to endure that too. Not many people fancy dealing with that after the person or people, who are essentially strangers in their home.

But you could have just asked him to tidy up after himself. It’s not that difficult. I always ask that my contractors tidy the site at the end of every day. Decent ones don’t even need to be asked.

IAmKerplunk · 11/11/2025 14:49

Helenwalker2 · 11/11/2025 14:41

If it smelt then we would - thankfully it doesn’t.

According to you and your contact (who obviously has skin in the game to say it doesn’t smell and your neighbours are just trying it on). But for good neighbourly relations (and for the benefit of those who use the portaloo) why wouldn’t you ask for it to be emptied after a couple of weeks? We all have different strength senses and maybe your neighbours can genuinely smell something - why not make life nicer by getting the portaloo emptied and give your neighbours a bunch of flowers?

healthadvice123 · 11/11/2025 14:48

So are you saying its not been emptied since the start of the job as will only be emptied when job is finished ? Thats gross and be very surprised if no smell if been in use for 2-3 weeks and not emptied ? The neighbour is entitled to talk to you about it if she can smell it and as you were not there at weekend , you can’t say for certain it didn’t smell.
sod being poor workmen using it as well. If not been emptied for a few weeks.
personally would rather they used a toilet in my house that flushed that have a plastic container of crap in my garden. But reality is neighbour doesn’t like it, you want it so neighbourly relations will change and chances are in future they won’t consider you either in something they do . Actions have consequences but sometimes you just have to accept that.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 11/11/2025 14:45

Helenwalker2 · 11/11/2025 14:41

If it smelt then we would - thankfully it doesn’t.

Except it does. You know this because your neighbour has told you. A quick google suggests they should be emptied once a week at minimum.

CharlesChicken · 11/11/2025 14:42

I'm afraid YABU then, op. Have a google to check what's normal re emptying. It really isn't normal to leave it for 4 weeks and my sympathies are now with your neighbour.

Helenwalker2 · 11/11/2025 14:41

IAmKerplunk · 11/11/2025 14:34

I would still request the loo to be emptied before the works have finished

If it smelt then we would - thankfully it doesn’t.

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IAmKerplunk · 11/11/2025 14:34

Helenwalker2 · 11/11/2025 14:31

I’m not sure if you are in the UK or not but there is certainly no warm days in November - especially where we are in a rural area in the North.

I would still request the loo to be emptied before the works have finished

Helenwalker2 · 11/11/2025 14:33

We can pay extra to get it emptied sooner but given the work is on track to finish soon we don’t see the extra expense to be necessary. We would have considered the wine/chocolates idea prior to the woman making a show of herself about the council. As it is, we will remain polite but won’t be spending a penny on them.

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Helenwalker2 · 11/11/2025 14:31

RedRoss86 · 11/11/2025 14:22

It wouldn’t bother me workmen using our downstairs toilet but that’s beside the point.

The point is your neighbour has said there is a smell.
It’s been there 2 weeks, unemptied of wee etc … a warm day, a bit of wind in the right direction and I’m sure there must be a bit of a smell.

Ask yourself, why would they lie?

If they knock again are you going to say ‘well my DSIS says there isn’t a smell.’?

Why can’t it go out the back garden?

I’m not sure if you are in the UK or not but there is certainly no warm days in November - especially where we are in a rural area in the North.

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RedRoss86 · 11/11/2025 14:22

It wouldn’t bother me workmen using our downstairs toilet but that’s beside the point.

The point is your neighbour has said there is a smell.
It’s been there 2 weeks, unemptied of wee etc … a warm day, a bit of wind in the right direction and I’m sure there must be a bit of a smell.

Ask yourself, why would they lie?

If they knock again are you going to say ‘well my DSIS says there isn’t a smell.’?

Why can’t it go out the back garden?

Northernladdette · 11/11/2025 14:13

Perhaps she would allow the builders to use hers? 🫤

Nearly50omg · 11/11/2025 14:12

Piglet89 · 11/11/2025 13:17

Completely agree with this.

She doesn’t HAVE a downstairs loo!! They would have to go upstairs walking mud all over her carpets to the one toilet in the house!! For £40 a week I know what I’d choose!

nomas · 11/11/2025 14:05

Newbie8918 · 11/11/2025 14:03

You are very adamant that it doesn’t smell so maybe in future you’d consider allowing tradesmen to use the indoor toilet? I’m 12 months (on and off) into major renovations and wouldn’t dream of denying anyone use of my loo! The only time I’d consider a portaloo is if there was no alternative, eg the bathroom being fitted/no running water etc.

If it doesn't smell, why would she open up her indoor loo to the tradies?

nomas · 11/11/2025 14:05

Can't you give your council a call? At least you'll know she's talking rubbish next time she door steps you.

Newbie8918 · 11/11/2025 14:03

You are very adamant that it doesn’t smell so maybe in future you’d consider allowing tradesmen to use the indoor toilet? I’m 12 months (on and off) into major renovations and wouldn’t dream of denying anyone use of my loo! The only time I’d consider a portaloo is if there was no alternative, eg the bathroom being fitted/no running water etc.

Francestein · 11/11/2025 14:00

Maybe suggest that the workmen knock on her door every time they need to void their bowels or bladders and see how much she hates it then…

CharlesChicken · 11/11/2025 13:50

IAmKerplunk · 11/11/2025 13:10

@charleschicken This is where it says it won’t be emptied until collection at the end of the job

Edited

Thanks. Unemptied for 4 weeks is grim and I bet it smells after 2. Ask to have it emptied.

Re builders using the normal loo- I think this depends on the project. If you have 20 blokes on site doing messy outdoor work it's not practical for them to use the indoor loo for all sorts of reasons and they would not want to. It's not like having some chap in to do a bit of tiling.

ChubbyPuffling · 11/11/2025 13:48

A month without being emptied/changed. Ewwwwwwww.

No wonder they are complaining. Probably thought it would be changed every week and are gobsmacked that there's effectively a deepening bucket of crap in a shed by their window.

DecoratingDiva · 11/11/2025 13:46

My neighbour had one in his front yard for nearly 1 year when he had work done. It was emptied monthly.
It didn’t smell.
I found that the radio & swearing were far worse than the portals.

MrsSkylerWhite · 11/11/2025 13:41

Bobiverse · 11/11/2025 13:35

The alternative wouldn’t be worth thinking about? Eh? It’s people using the loo. Jesus.

Didn’t you know? Contractors are good enough to work for you but not to use your facilities 🙄

vellichoria · 11/11/2025 13:39

IsItSnowing · 11/11/2025 13:25

If she complains to the council they may send an environmental health officer to check on it. If you're right and it doesn't smell then they will go away happy. I assume it is being emptied and cleaned regularly since this is usually part of the service. When we had one for our building work it was done weekly.

In the current climate, all work is likely to be completed before the council even looks at the complaint!

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