Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think airborne musical chairs shouldn't be a thing?

31 replies

Quimtessence · 10/11/2025 15:21

Recently, traveling solo, and as I settled into my window seat, got comfy and the airplane doors finally closed, I realised that on this 90% full flight the two seats next to me remained unoccupied. Yippee! This is a rare win and as it was a 6 hour overnight flight where sleep was expected, very welcome that I’d be able to stretch out. Also no one to wake and clamber over if I needed the bathroom. That is until nearly an hour into the flight a bloke from one of the middle seats got up and without a by your leave, plonked his arse into one of the seats next to me and remained there for the rest of the journey, watching a film!
Exact same thing happened on the flight home, except this time the flight was only 60% full and during daytime, so not quite so galling. This time, a little old lady, without any acknowledgement or word to me sat herself down in one of the empty seats next to me and stayed there for the duration.
Who is being unreasonable here? Are unoccupied seats fair game for anyone wanting to upgrade from their assigned one or am I the one with a sense of entitlement thinking I have some sort of ownership of empty seats next to me and should be left to enjoy the rare luck I thought I had been handed?

OP posts:
takealettermsjones · 10/11/2025 15:33

Nobody is entitled to any seat other than the one they've paid for. Maybe they had asked cabin crew if they could move?

Wonderknicks · 10/11/2025 15:30

How many seats did you pay for? If you paid for all 3 you could ask them to move, otherwise the seats were fair game.

saveforthat · 10/11/2025 15:30

Top tip. Lie across all the seats and shut your eyes as soon as the seat belt signs are turned off.

user2848502016 · 10/11/2025 15:27

YABU - they’re not your seats you have no more right to them than they do

SockFluffInTheBath · 10/11/2025 15:24

I suppose they’re as entitled to the empty seats as you are OP. Both of you have paid for one seat, and neither of you for those seats. I do understand why it would be nice if they stayed somewhere else though.

WonderlandWasAllAHoax · 10/11/2025 15:23

Why should you get three seats for yourself while other people are crammed in like sardines?

Swipe left for the next trending thread