This is our first year hosting. And dh is really the one wanting to go all out. He has even suggested we go room to room in our house and do a bit of a spruce up - painting over scuffs, decluttering etc. He said it would be nice to go into the New Year feeling fresh.
I mean the house is kept in a decent state. No kids. But two large dogs.
To me this overboard and kind of makes the idea of hosting oppressive. He’s put it forward as a nice thing to do together but he said he’s happy to crack on without me. But obviously I feel that’s a bit mean.
Who’s the crazy one?