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To think the UK unfairly taxes families?

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OwnGravityField · 09/11/2025 12:52

I have just found out that the UK is an outlier, in that it completely stops collecting a form of social tax (NI in the UK) once someone gets to pension age.

In every other country, pensioners’ contributtion as a proportion of income is much more similar to working households.

Example of disparity in the UK:

A working person earning 25k pays:

  • Income tax: £2,486
  • NI: £1,002
  • total = £3488

A pensioner with an income of 25k pays only:

  • Income tax: £2,486
  • no NI
  • total = £2486

So, a UK worker on 25k pays 40% MORE total tax than the pensioner (the difference between 2486 and 3488).

Let’s compare with a beloved utopia of fairness, such as Sweden: worker on similar salary pays 9% more tax than a pensioner.

Yes, other countries have slightly larger differences, but none except France come anywhere close to the UK difference in tax treatment between workers and pensioners.

In the interests of balanced sharing of info: France is tax and spend basket case. France taxes workers roughly twice as hard as pensioners. It’s obscene and the country is practically bankrupt.

Most other European countries narrow the gap by keeping small health or social contributions on pension income.

You might be thinking most UK pensioners don’t have 25k coming in? Nope. 3 million have individual incomes of 25k or more.

Anyway, I think it’s shocking that people at the most expensive time of their lives (kids, mortgage, food) are taxed so much more heavily. AIBU?

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MrsSkylerWhite · 09/11/2025 16:24

Mumptynumpty · 09/11/2025 16:11

I don't know anyone who could afford to be a SAHM in the 70s, 80s or 90s. Tbh there wasn't any childcare for much of it. My mum used to leave us at home alone to go to work with the neighbours keeping an eye out. My sisters and I broke into (and out of) our home everyday because mum locked us out while working. We did walk to school on our own at 5 years old too.

You've watched too much TV. Working class women have always worked. The SAHM mum is a myth unless you were middle class.

Similar. Was alone from 7-7, Saturdays too when mum worked over time, from aged 10. From around 11, locked out all day because id left the grill on one day making toast and she came home to an house full of smoke. No idea if there was any “childcare” available. Next door neighbour sometimes gave me some squash and biscuits.

bottledboot · 09/11/2025 16:24

"Roughly 79 per cent of those aged over 65 own their homes, with more than 4 per cent still having some mortgage to pay off. Soaring asset prices have, in turn, created immense household wealth that subsequent generations have not benefited from; cohorts born after 1970 have acquired property wealth at a significantly lower rate, with most of the benefits accumulating to those born in the 1950s. Savills have estimated that as a result, the over-50s account for about 78 per cent of the UK’s privately held housing wealth."

"The result of these higher prices has been to trap people in the private rented sector even as rents soar. In 2022, housing costs took up 24 per cent of the income of a typical household renting in Britain, as opposed to 16 per cent of the budget of those who were paying off a mortgage. Both sets could feel hard done by relative to previous generations, however: in 1980, a 30 year old could expect to spend about 10 per cent of their income on housing."

"In 2018-19, the government spent roughly £14,655 for each child in Britain, £10,178 for each working age adult, and £20,789 for each pensioner. Spending on the last group has risen even as spending on other groups has fallen. Similarly, NHS spending on the over-65s has hovered around two fifths over the past decade, with spending on this group set to rise as its numbers swell. "

I know the truth is uncomfortable but it's still the truth. We have an ageing population and as a whole they have taken more out of the system than they have put in. This doesn't mean every pensioner is rich or there aren't young feckless people. But it does explain part of our issue with productivity & growth.

TwoTuesday · 09/11/2025 16:23

Families with young kids get other things though, like tax relief on childcare, child benefit, tax credits, depending on income obviously. Pensioners don't get the equivalent. It probably evens out? Pensioners have usually paid in for a lot longer too and have had all their lives to build up assets, so are bound to be better off in general as a group, than those just starting out.
I do think income tax and NI should be combined though, and both workers and pensioners should pay the same. It makes things overly complicated to have 2 taxes that differ depending on age.

Gingernessy · 09/11/2025 16:21

OwnGravityField · 09/11/2025 16:18

You did have it easier, as did I when my now adult children were younger. I had no UC or childcare paid for (as is the case for most parents today) and had hardly any maternity either. But still, we had disposable because mortgage, transport costs, taxes, council tax, energy bills and food costs were not as high compared to wages as they are today. Our children are earning exactly the same wages as I did all those years ago and yet their outgoings, including taxes (because they keep on being hoiked up) are much higher. Yes, they get a coffee, but what do you expect of a generation that has given up hope of affording a house or to have children? I despair at the tin-eared approach of the older generation.

The fact is, even without inflation eroding away wages, younger workers pay 40% MORE tax than pensioners. The disparity has never been so stark between generations or when compared to other civilised countries.

If your children are earning the same as you were years ago then you must have been on an above average salary and your children haven"t got themselves lucrative careers

MrsSkylerWhite · 09/11/2025 16:20

bottledboot · 09/11/2025 16:08

@MrsSkylerWhite i'm talking statistically though?

Fair enough. I don’t know what stats are. Grew up with a ft working mum too (I’m 61 now, as did my husband, 67) though part time.

NamelessNancy · 09/11/2025 16:19

bottledboot · 09/11/2025 16:13

@NamelessNancy great graph, it will get ignored though.

Maybe a line for the price of avocados would change everything though?!

OwnGravityField · 09/11/2025 16:18

lazyarse123 · 09/11/2025 16:00

God. How far back are you going for that to be true?
We are pensioners. Dh worked full time and in the early years I became a child minder and then worked opposite hours to dh. I was a sahm for 3 years. We didn't have a holiday until youngest was 5 and that was a caravan in Wales. Please don't believe the myth that we had it easy. We didn't.

You did have it easier, as did I when my now adult children were younger. I had no UC or childcare paid for (as is the case for most parents today) and had hardly any maternity either. But still, we had disposable because mortgage, transport costs, taxes, council tax, energy bills and food costs were not as high compared to wages as they are today. Our children are earning exactly the same wages as I did all those years ago and yet their outgoings, including taxes (because they keep on being hoiked up) are much higher. Yes, they get a coffee, but what do you expect of a generation that has given up hope of affording a house or to have children? I despair at the tin-eared approach of the older generation.

The fact is, even without inflation eroding away wages, younger workers pay 40% MORE tax than pensioners. The disparity has never been so stark between generations or when compared to other civilised countries.

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SpanThatWorld · 09/11/2025 16:15

bottledboot · 09/11/2025 15:58

Maybe we should stop funding childcare then to make it really fair. Pensioners never had tax payers money funding childcare.

Because fewer mothers worked and don't forget there was far more social housing.

When was this?
Social housing hasn't been plentiful since the 1960s. Both my parents grew up in postwar council houses but, when they married in the mid60s, found that waiting lists in London were years long. They were living in one room in an HMO for the first couple of years of married life, both working double shifts to save a deposit. Were they alive now, both would be in their 80s.

Plenty of people who are now pensioners are 20 years younger than my parents would be. They (soon to include me) grew up watching all the social housing being sold off while we were still at school. We bought houses with 100% mortgages and watched prices tumble, living in negative equity for years.

Lots of people on this thread have a very odd idea of when "pensioners" were young.

Ponderingwindow · 09/11/2025 16:14

I don’t think this is the best example of problems in the uk tax structure. Reducing taxes on pensioners is a structural design.

look at things like how 2 parts of a couple can earn 99k, but if one person earns 101k, the tax rules change entirely. These are ways tax laws hurt working families.

Jojoanna · 09/11/2025 16:13

But women did work , however if they hadn’t worked and contributed they would still get state pension

bottledboot · 09/11/2025 16:13

@NamelessNancy great graph, it will get ignored though.

bottledboot · 09/11/2025 16:12

Families get so much more today than I got when I had my first child in 1993.

Do they @Katypp? Child benefit was universal then wasn't it?

Would you like to go back to the days of six weeks at 90% pay maternity leave followed by 12 weeks at SMP?

I had my dc in the 00s and it wasn't that different to the above. I only got the "free" hours for a little bit.

Younger parents are so quick to jump on everything they think pensioners get, but forget - or ignore - that they have had hardships too.

I think you are confused, pointing out government policy has made pensioners richer and younger people poorer doesn't mean no pensioner is in poverty or experienced hardship. Why would you conflate the two?

And of course, when it is suggested they may like to pay into a pension so they can have the comfortable retirement they so resent the so-called boomers for, they also think they are uniquely placed in struggling to find the money to do so.

But private pension schemes are not as generous now & state pension age has increased despite no increase in healthy life expectancy so how can it be the same?

lazyarse123 · 09/11/2025 16:12

WestwardHo1 · 09/11/2025 13:52

Ah that old chestnut. People buy these things because marketers are so very very successful. Are you you telling us "older generations" were actually faced with the same barrage of consumerist marketing, day in day out every day of their lives but they - unlike the Modern Feckless - had the moral fibre to resist it?

No we just didn't have the money available to spend.

BritHoward · 09/11/2025 16:11

It’s going to happen, they will abolish NI but they’ll do it by gradually adding to income tax. Employers will still be left with a NI bill. People should be taxed equally.

Mumptynumpty · 09/11/2025 16:11

OwnGravityField · 09/11/2025 13:17

Because they could afford for one parent to stay home. Nah, you can’t pull that one on me!

I don't know anyone who could afford to be a SAHM in the 70s, 80s or 90s. Tbh there wasn't any childcare for much of it. My mum used to leave us at home alone to go to work with the neighbours keeping an eye out. My sisters and I broke into (and out of) our home everyday because mum locked us out while working. We did walk to school on our own at 5 years old too.

You've watched too much TV. Working class women have always worked. The SAHM mum is a myth unless you were middle class.

NamelessNancy · 09/11/2025 16:09

bottledboot · 09/11/2025 16:03

I think maybe if people stopped frittering and spending money on endless tech, frequent expensive holidays, take aways, coffees, nails, new cars etc ( all things older generations managed to do without)they may find children far more affordable.

Yes, it's nothing to do with housing costs and wage stagnation 🙄

Quite.

To think the UK unfairly taxes families?
KrystalStubbs · 09/11/2025 16:09

moderndilemma · 09/11/2025 12:56

Here we go yet ANOTHER ageist thread.

Yep, any excuse on here.

Allthings · 09/11/2025 16:08

National insurance makes you eligible for in work benefits as well as a state pension. By default when you get to state pension age, you are no longer eligible for those in work benefits even if you are still working. Hence NI only being payable by those under state pension age.

I think there are greater issues with those choosing not to work and the self employed avoiding paying NI rather than a cohort of pensioners who have paid it during their working lives.

bottledboot · 09/11/2025 16:08

@MrsSkylerWhite i'm talking statistically though?

Gingernessy · 09/11/2025 16:05

OwnGravityField · 09/11/2025 13:08

This is a good point, but then again there are also so many households with two people on circa 25k who might get nothing. I think my point still stands that in this country, we are unfair in our treatment of younger workers.

NI is paid towards earning a state pension and provides working age benefits.
Why should pensioners still pay NI once they've paid the required years and are no longer entitled to the benefits NI provides.
Current pensioners didn't constantly moan whilst they were working about what previous pensioners were paying in tax - most of them raised their kids without the tax credit/UC largesse of today - no working 24 hours and being topped up by the state back then.
Perhaps if we stop subsidising young families to not work we can all pay less tax/NI

BritHoward · 09/11/2025 16:03

I agree we need to abolish NI snd tax income fairly.

MrsSkylerWhite · 09/11/2025 16:03

bottledboot · 09/11/2025 15:58

Maybe we should stop funding childcare then to make it really fair. Pensioners never had tax payers money funding childcare.

Because fewer mothers worked and don't forget there was far more social housing.

I didn’t go out work when our kids were young (30 and 22 now) because my husband worked away from home a great deal but I hosted sixth form students. Most mothers we knew worked at least part time, many full time in professional careers. Nursery fees were huge then, too.

bottledboot · 09/11/2025 16:03

I think maybe if people stopped frittering and spending money on endless tech, frequent expensive holidays, take aways, coffees, nails, new cars etc ( all things older generations managed to do without)they may find children far more affordable.

Yes, it's nothing to do with housing costs and wage stagnation 🙄

Katypp · 09/11/2025 16:02

bottledboot · 09/11/2025 15:56

The UK has not prioritised young people or families and instead given money to older generations. However there a huge share of the vote so it's not unsurprising but it's one reason productivity is so low.

Pointing out these facts though means you get accused of ageism.

Families get so much more today than I got when I had my first child in 1993.
Would you like to go back to the days of six weeks at 90% pay maternity leave followed by 12 weeks at SMP? Or no flexible working? Or no subsidised/free childcare?
Younger parents are so quick to jump on everything they think pensioners get, but forget - or ignore - that they have had hardships too. And of course, when it is suggested they may like to pay into a pension so they can have the comfortable retirement they so resent the so-called boomers for, they also think they are uniquely placed in struggling to find the money to do so.

lazyarse123 · 09/11/2025 16:00

OwnGravityField · 09/11/2025 13:17

Because they could afford for one parent to stay home. Nah, you can’t pull that one on me!

God. How far back are you going for that to be true?
We are pensioners. Dh worked full time and in the early years I became a child minder and then worked opposite hours to dh. I was a sahm for 3 years. We didn't have a holiday until youngest was 5 and that was a caravan in Wales. Please don't believe the myth that we had it easy. We didn't.