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To get signed off for one wisdom tooth extraction

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SadlyNotATroll · 09/11/2025 12:22

I had a severely impacted lower wisdom tooth removed on Tuesday. It’s now Sunday and I am still really struggling. I am not a wimp by any stretch and have had 2 sections and a couple of other minor ops in my life, but this has been by far the hardest thing to recover from. I can’t help but feel like a bit of a fraud though. I had a GA, have 8 stitches and have bruising down to my chest. However I was discharged with no pain relief at all and told to expect a few days of “discomfort”. I’m due back at work tomorrow but am considering asking the GP to write me a fit note for the week. Does that sound ridiculous? I can’t eat or talk without feeling like my jaw is broken. I am meant to talk at a conference on Tuesday but can’t fathom how I’ll do it.

OP posts:
Hoodlumboodlum · 09/11/2025 13:28

God I must have been lucky when I got my infected and impacted wisdom tooth removed. I would have been fine to go back to work and hour afterwards.

SadlyNotATroll · 09/11/2025 13:17

Thanks all. This is really comforting. I rarely need time off sick and feel stupidly guilty when I do which I know is daft. I’ve had to get some codeine from my dad (I know it’s naughty but I am desperate) just to get some sleep. My lovely dentist neighbour checked me over and it’s not dry socket or infected, just a brutal recovery.

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examiner76 · 09/11/2025 13:03

I’ve only been off sick once in the last 5 years of my current job. It was for my wisdom tooth removal recovery. The pain was so intense I could not function (dry socket). You can self-certify for a few days though shouldn’t need a note.

LivingDeadGirlUK · 09/11/2025 13:02

Your not unreasonable at all OP, I think they doctors are totally unrealistic with recovery times for wisdom tooth surgery. I had 3 out under GA and they told me I could go to work the next day, I ended up passing out and being sent home in a taxi.

candycanetime · 09/11/2025 13:01

My impacted wisdom removal was 100 times worse than a c section. I took a week off in the end. It's the worst thing I've ever recovered from.

oustedbymymate · 09/11/2025 13:00

Not unreasonable. You can self certify for a week

amber763 · 09/11/2025 12:59

Get signed off. I hope you feel better soon

bloodredfeaturewall · 09/11/2025 12:54

not unreasonable
you don't feel fit to work so take another couple of days for recovery. wisfom tooth removal can be brutal (as your bruises attest) and your body needs time to heal.

bloodredfeaturewall · 09/11/2025 12:54

not unreasonable
you don't feel fit to work so take another couple of days for recovery. wisfom tooth removal can be brutal (as your bruises attest) and your body needs time to heal.

DratThatCat · 09/11/2025 12:33

Absolutely get your fit note. I've had 2 impacted wisdom teeth removed and I had 2 weeks off work for both. I was in a customer facing role at the time and I just wouldn't have been able to talk.

I hope you're feeling better soon.