Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to be considering only ordering online from Amazon ongoing?

85 replies

Americasfavouritefightingfrenchman · 09/11/2025 11:08

I’ve been trying to avoid Amazon and order direct from smaller companies if ordering online for I can’t find things easily in the shops. Over the past week ordering Christmas gifts though:

  1. My husbands beer advent calendar has been delivered to completely the wrong place (there is a delivered photo of a door that looks nothing like anything on our street). I can’t get a response from the company that it was delivered by (DHL) or the shipper

  2. A set of beauty products sent with Evri show as having been delivered (at 2am?!) but are not here three days later and no delivery photo. I emailed the seller and they responded the courier tracking shows them being in the area and it’s marked as delivered and the photo shows it was. I’ve responded saying that may be true but if it is I can’t see any of that info in the Evri tracking app so can they please share it.

  3. A 3rd parcel with some personalised items for the kids (again delivered via Evri) was just dumped on front steps while it was raining and some are now ruined. Seller is blaming me as says I shouldn’t have allowed delivery to a safe place (the front door step isn’t my safe place, the shed is)

I don’t love Amazon but round here their delivery drivers at least actually show up with things and on the odd occasion there is an issue you just fill in a form and they refund you without any fuss. I’m currently down £200 in things I may or may not be able to get the money back and with loads of additional hassle/admin. Am I just horrendously unlucky here or are deliveries generally a total disaster area?

OP posts:
ApathyCentral · 09/11/2025 11:41

On the actual OP though - just be sure to order mainly from ‘fulfilled by Amazon’ stuff. Some of the small retailers are hit and miss.

ApathyCentral · 09/11/2025 11:40

WildLimePoet · 09/11/2025 11:38

I think that ship has sailed. You’re about 20 years too late to make that argument.

Anyway, at this point, unless it’s a bookshop (and ours are doing fine) I’ve stopped caring if there are bricks and mortar shops.

WildLimePoet · 09/11/2025 11:38

SheinIsShite · 09/11/2025 11:32

Sure, if you're happy with there being no bricks and mortar shops left in your local area.

I think that ship has sailed. You’re about 20 years too late to make that argument.

TooManyCupsAndMugs · 09/11/2025 11:36

Get your parcels delivered to an Evri pick up point or to an inpost locker and pick them up at your convenience. I never get Evri parcels delivered to home, for the reasons you describe (I've had Evri drivers insist they've knocked on the door when I'm 3 feet away from it)

Feelingsunny · 09/11/2025 11:36

A lot of UK businesses sell through Amazon...

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 09/11/2025 11:33

Amazon are fast, reliable, never any issues with returns. They’re not massively cheaper now, they’re just easier and better.

We went to a large department store yesterday, they had hardly any sizes of anything. Just order online!! Was the answer from the assistant.

SheinIsShite · 09/11/2025 11:32

Sure, if you're happy with there being no bricks and mortar shops left in your local area.

ChocHotolate · 09/11/2025 11:29

I use Amazon a lot because it just works. Reliable delivery either to my house or a very convenient locker, arrives on time and any returns accepted no problem at all.

Americasfavouritefightingfrenchman · 09/11/2025 11:26

ThatLemonBear · 09/11/2025 11:13

Touching wood, but I’ve never had a problem with Evri or Yodel, and our DPD driver is lovely, he insists on carrying parcels into the house if they are heavy. That said, I have read horror stories on FB from people in the next village to us, so maybe I’m just lucky. Personally I am shunning Amazon wherever possible, I’d far rather support UK businesses and TBH it pays to check their prices too, as sometimes I can find things cheaper elsewhere. I hope you track down the missing parcels,especially the beer advent calendar, I’d be bereft if my wine one had gone astray 😱

I totally agree on the supporting uk business front and we do try where we can. Think I’m just feeling super fed up at the moment. I particularly want the beauty one as it has a cool free gift they are out of stock of.

OP posts:
ThatLemonBear · 09/11/2025 11:13

Touching wood, but I’ve never had a problem with Evri or Yodel, and our DPD driver is lovely, he insists on carrying parcels into the house if they are heavy. That said, I have read horror stories on FB from people in the next village to us, so maybe I’m just lucky. Personally I am shunning Amazon wherever possible, I’d far rather support UK businesses and TBH it pays to check their prices too, as sometimes I can find things cheaper elsewhere. I hope you track down the missing parcels,especially the beer advent calendar, I’d be bereft if my wine one had gone astray 😱

Swipe left for the next trending thread