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AIBU to not trust my estate agent is acting in my best interest?

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Mary959 · 07/11/2025 00:09

I thought that estate agents acted for the sellers interests - especially given that it is the seller that ultimately pays them.

As you can imagine, I was therefore quite concerned to receive the following paragraph included in a reply from my estate agent. I had asked him to put the property back on the market after I verbally accepted an offer of £10k below asking price. The estate agent tried everything he could to dissuade me from putting it back on - despite it being my right to have the property listed until contracts have been exchanged. Eventually they called the buyer and they increased their offer to the asking price so long as it remains off of the market.

It was the Estate agent that provided the valuation initially, and I am concerned that they may have undervalued it. The house received this offer only two days after it being on the market (the buyer has listed their house up with the same estate agency).

Am I getting a bad deal here? Why would the Estate Agent try so hard to dissuade me from re-listing the property? They are meant to follow my instructions and act in my interests - not the buyers!

This is the part of their response that caused me so much concern (below) :

“The property remains listed as SSTC (Sold Subject to Contract) online, so it can still be tracked publicly. However, the buyer has already incurred costs by instructing solicitors and completing anti-money laundering checks, so it would be unfair to fully remarket the property at this stage. We only marked it as SSTC after those steps were completed.”

OP posts:
Office365Error · 07/11/2025 00:19

Most buyers want houses off market. It's usually part of the offer. To give them some credit they may have worried buyer will retract offer. SSTC is absolutely normal. It is sold subject to contract.
Just to add if house I was buying was fully remarketed, i would immediately back out before I aquire more costs in process which will obviously not go well

Timeforhector · 07/11/2025 00:16

You are definitely being unreasonable if you think the estate agent acts in the interest of anyone other than the estate agent.
Did you get valuations from other EA before you put it on the market as that should give you an idea of a reasonable asking price.
It is unusual to put the house back on the market after you have accepted an offer though as it is unfair on the prospective buyer. If you weren’t happy with the offer then why did you accept it?

Finto1111 · 07/11/2025 00:13

Estate agents are a business.

i thought we all know that estate agents ultimately look out for themselves first.

I didn't trust my estate agent the whole way through My house sale. I stayed with him as he didn't do anything terrible. But I definitely never trusted him, I analysed everything he did and I made my own choices.

Only you are looking out for you.

Make your own choices. You can go against estate agent advice.

If you really dont like your estage agent, get rid of him and get a new one. Look for reviews first

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