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Mid argument with boyfriend

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Whatwouldyoudo111 · 06/11/2025 19:02

Will try to keep this short and sweet, however I need opinions.

As per the title, mid argument with boyfriend as I feel he has lied to me about where he stayed on two separate occasions earlier in our relationship (have been together for 13 months). He has denied this, but regardless during this argument I spitefully brought up his ex partner, insinuating she is a plain Jane (yes I know) and he came back to me and said she isn’t she has great tits a great ass and an athletic body she’s fit. He then reaffirmed she does have great tits!

He has since apologised and has said he said it to hurt me, but I honestly feel he’s crossed a serious line in already a pretty serious predicament we were in.

wwyd? AIBU? For the record he is 33.

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Butterflywings84 · 06/11/2025 19:09

It sounds like you are both saying things to hurt each other. Take a step away, calm down and then talk again when you are both feeling more rational

Coconutter24 · 06/11/2025 19:09

You were admittedly being spiteful and you then didn’t like how he reacted…. Serves you right 🤷‍♀️ he’s not going to agree with you she’s a plain Jane, he obviously found her attractive as he was with her. Play stupid games win stupid prizes

ghostyslovesheets · 06/11/2025 19:07

Honestly you both sound daft - silly tit for tat mud slinging

you mention his age but not yours, are you both in your 30’s? So much silly drama