To expect partner to accept job offer?

Have you changed the locks?

Have you made the police report?

Have you contacted the relevant organisations about your docs?

This is IMPORTANT

So you dumped him and kicked him out, but didn’t take your keys away from him? So he could come back. Didn’t think to take his keys away before now?

Have you actually ended the relationship?

I imagine he’ll be back in your house in a few months and you’ll be back to accepting his behaviour because you want a man around.

This was systematic sabotage designed to punish you.

The 'deep cleaning' was a smokescreen to make him seem reasonable and helpful - while making it easy going into all your private property in detail, when he knew you'd be out at work. He knew you'd have refused him entry.

And how old is your daughter?? She must have been frightened having him banging about her home with nobody else there - just how hard do you have to slam/kick an oven door to break it?

Get those locks CHANGED.

Make a police report and take their advice. I doubt he's really tipped your documents - tell them about this NOW because they may find the folder hidden wherever he's staying now.

Might be worth contacting Action Fraud for their advice, too - he's probably planning something.

https://www.actionfraud.police.uk/

I'm not sure logging things achieves anything - reporting the theft of the sensitive documents (individually listing official documents like passports) and getting a crime number would be a good start, and then applying for new passports stating clearly that the old one was/ ones were stolen.

I think the 'deep clean' was his paraphrase of 'go through all her stuff till I find the bits I want". Sadly.

He must have been angry when he broke the oven door. And very angry to bin the important paperwork. Change the locks. He is furious and will try various tactics to get back including threats of self harm, sob stories, manipulating tactics to make you feel guilt/ empathy. " deep cleaning" another tactics to show he has done " something". A bit like a trade off in his eyes.

Agree with above.
It's critical that you report this to the police.
He entered the house without your permission, did damage and has removed your personal papers.

Ask to speak to the Duty Sargent to report this and for a crime number.

Identify theft is widespread.
Protect yourself.

He's a wrong 'un.

Good thinking!
Yes he's taken them to do identity theft and take out loans.
Absolutely go to police and get this recorded officially. Also check out how to protect yourself and do it now. He could have already started applying for stuff.
Police 100%. And inform ALL your banks.

I'd kick him out.

I actually think it’s a good idea to report to the police and say you think he’s taken them and said he binned them and are worried about identity theft etc as revenge

Be very careful - those documents could be used to commit fraud, attempt to take out finance in your name. Make sure that you change all your passwords everywhere. Make sure you have no financial links to him.

I highly doubt he accidentally threw those away. Change your locks and tell him that he can have his belongings back, when he returns your belongings. If he refuses I would 100% contact the police over that. The threat of it might be enough for that folder to reappear.

Yeah, I called that one wrong. Sorry he’s such an arse, OP.

Hope you have read OP most recent post.

Please don't underestimate what he's done OP.

Have you thought about logging this with the police - or threatening to?

Well done OP!

He wouldn’t get any of his belongings until I had money for my oven. I’d respond in a stressed way to all requests ‘ of course I will arrange something to collect your things but I cannot even think about it now, I’m replacing all my documents you binned and you haven’t sent money for my oven door.’ Then just repeat, repeat.
him: so I’m coming for my things this afternoon.’ You: no that doesn’t work for me, have you sent money for my oven yet?’

I would be losing my shit. He was asked to leave and without authorisation re-entered your property, caused criminal damage and theft.

Have you checked all the hidden clothes? Or has he trashed them on the quiet as well as deliberately taking away your proof of identity, your proof of qualifications, your proof of eligibility to work, proof for claiming benefits, things that cannot be replaced or at least cost hundreds in total to do so (or can be flogged to somebody for identity fraud)? Any jewellery or electricals gone missing as well?

Bet if the police were involved with this unlawful entry, deliberate damage and theft, he'd suddenly find the folder.

He's deliberately sabotaged you and damaged your belongings.

And why is it seemingly mandatory that this man remains in your life?

Breaking the oven door and throwing away your important paperwork was no accident that was deliberate what made him think that your clothes needed to be put into bags.

Far out!

(and they wonder why we are now all staying single)

I wonder could it be called criminal damage?
He didn't have permission to be in your home.
I really think it is worth a call to 101 to report.

Wanted to add. Just how hard was he banging about in order to shatter the oven door. As others have said none of this was accidental.