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Do you buy anything marketed to men that is just as good, or better than the "womens" version?

191 replies

somethingnewandexciting · 04/11/2025 20:00

We all know women pay more for everything, clothes, beauty, toiletries etc, the pink tax or whatever they call it (cba to look up references and stats, it's a thing).

On that, and because I am a bit more broke than usual this month, what do you feel you save on by buying that isn't the mainstream? I saved £20 on a pair of walking boots last week because I bought the men's ones - am a size 8 which can hard to get in women's shops anyway. I also get men's razors, shaving foam, jumpers and boxer shorts - so much more comfy!

What am I missing? Interested in multivits (currently get one that is designed for women but am wondering if its just the same stuff as men get, maybe with folate added?) and other clothes or better quality things that are made to last.

As for the AIBU - AIBU that in 2025 we should not have to double check prices of the same things against men's products because they know we will pay more even though we earn less?

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LakieLady · 04/11/2025 21:00

Another wearer of men's socks,which are so much better than women's socks. They're a good 3" longer and seem to last 3 x as long, too.

Auburngal · 04/11/2025 20:57

QueenOfThorns · 04/11/2025 20:17

Can you please tell me where you get these? I have two brushed cotton pairs that I bought from Next years ago, but they’re a little past their best now! Next don’t seem to do them anymore, and the ones I’ve seen in other places aren’t very nice looking

https://tuclothing.sainsburys.co.uk/product/tuc145915800

They have some ladies' checked PJ bottoms but they are £13. These are £10 each!

somethingnewandexciting · 04/11/2025 20:56

AgentPidge · 04/11/2025 20:53

I can't get the shoes I want in women's (Merrell barefoot trainers) so I was wondering about getting them in the men's. This thread has given me hope! They look the same but I imagine they'll just be a bit wider.

Time for some nice thick men's socks then! 😉

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somethingnewandexciting · 04/11/2025 20:55

ObsidianTree · 04/11/2025 20:52

Mens fleecey hoodies. Couldn't find a women's version that was not some thin crap hoodie. Apparently men can wear warm clothes but women have to have thin fashionable hoodies.

Which is ridiculous because they carry fat equally all over the body and so run hot, whereas we feel the cold more and end up with see through T shirts and jumpers up to our wrists with any wind blowing a hooley through them!

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Auburngal · 04/11/2025 20:53

Men's socks. They are about an inch longer in length and thicker. Have a mix of men's and women's. I told my former colleagues in my supermarket working days this and they bought them up when a few lines got reduced.

I do have men's hoodies as 5ft 8. I just wish I could buy a ladies' pink, cornflower blue or purple which is decent in length. I'm a size 18

AgentPidge · 04/11/2025 20:53

I can't get the shoes I want in women's (Merrell barefoot trainers) so I was wondering about getting them in the men's. This thread has given me hope! They look the same but I imagine they'll just be a bit wider.

ObsidianTree · 04/11/2025 20:52

Mens fleecey hoodies. Couldn't find a women's version that was not some thin crap hoodie. Apparently men can wear warm clothes but women have to have thin fashionable hoodies.

somethingnewandexciting · 04/11/2025 20:51

Nivea men anti-age 2 in 1 power moisturiser looks quite good with SPF30 and only £11! I don't even think Aldi's own face cream with SPF is that cheap!

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MinnieMountain · 04/11/2025 20:50

Another tall woman who wears men’s PJs. Mine are from M&S.

Anyahyacinth · 04/11/2025 20:48

Razors as so many have said but also underpants mens pants are about 3 times the thickness of cotton and quality which I appreciate 🤷‍♀️

PruthePrune · 04/11/2025 20:48

Mens deodorant is way better than womens

Winterjoy · 04/11/2025 20:47

Men's tshirts are always lovely and thick compared to the paper-thin see-through ones in the women's section.

Peridoteage · 04/11/2025 20:46

Socks, razors, sometimes shoes.

Its not as big a price difference at it used to be.

LaurieFairyCake · 04/11/2025 20:46

I’m an age 11-12 in the boys sections. I am currently rocking very cool dinosaur pyjamas.

evtheria · 04/11/2025 20:45

Shirts (like the striped, office type) from charity shops. Yet to find a women’s one I wanted.
When I go trying on perfumes I usually do Men’s, then Unisex, then maybe Women’s if I know they contain specific notes I like. Sadly no money-saving there, though, they cost the same!
Sweatshirts also tend to look better and be thicker from men’s department.

I’m short and have size 3 feet so can’t get away with much else but I’d love to fit vintage menswear.

TellingBone · 04/11/2025 20:42

Electric shaver
Tee shirts for gym. I'm short but most women's are still not hip length on me.

Takingbackmylife · 04/11/2025 20:41

Yes Tetra Zebra soap for men… but I use it and I’m a woman! I love the Ozone it’s delightful! I hope they’ll be doing some offers for Xmas!

totallyoutnumbered · 04/11/2025 20:39

Just for men on my lashes and brows. Saves a fortune and no trips to the salon

GellerYeller · 04/11/2025 20:38

Razors.
Trainers.
A bike(tall with long arms so it is more comfortable for me.
Chanel mens perfume. I’m not a floral gal.
Have been known to use husband’s eye cream too.

YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · 04/11/2025 20:36

Razors, socks, slippers, thermals, jumpers, denim, dressing gowns

SoSoLong · 04/11/2025 20:34

Not really, but I'm only 5'4 and wear size 4 shoes. I buy some kids stuff though and I've got a lot of hand me downs from my son, who has long outgrown me - I've got enough sports gear, joggers and jackets of his to last me for years.

somethingnewandexciting · 04/11/2025 20:33

Spent a lot longer than I thought I would looking at Men's Deodorant section on Boots. Weirdly interested in the fruity looking Old Spice but worried I'll be walking around feeling like my dad in the 80's

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BinToucher · 04/11/2025 20:32

Men's running tops, I like baggy tops but in nice wicking fabrics but that have little key pockets and are long at the back over your bum. They seem to think all women want to wear cropped hoodies and gymshark sports bras to run in, while surely most of us want to cover up a bit.

CaptainSevenofNine · 04/11/2025 20:29

Oh yeah. Men’s pyjamas too. Love them.

CaptainSevenofNine · 04/11/2025 20:28

I love men’s socks. The size range is better. For the size of my feet my size is the top of the range on ladies socks but mid range in men’s socks. I hate socks that are too tight.

I wear men’s jumpers and jackets (long arms, women’s clothing always too short).

I use men’s deodorant.

I like the wider fit on men’s shoes. I hate my toes being squished!