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Do you buy anything marketed to men that is just as good, or better than the "womens" version?

191 replies

somethingnewandexciting · 04/11/2025 20:00

We all know women pay more for everything, clothes, beauty, toiletries etc, the pink tax or whatever they call it (cba to look up references and stats, it's a thing).

On that, and because I am a bit more broke than usual this month, what do you feel you save on by buying that isn't the mainstream? I saved £20 on a pair of walking boots last week because I bought the men's ones - am a size 8 which can hard to get in women's shops anyway. I also get men's razors, shaving foam, jumpers and boxer shorts - so much more comfy!

What am I missing? Interested in multivits (currently get one that is designed for women but am wondering if its just the same stuff as men get, maybe with folate added?) and other clothes or better quality things that are made to last.

As for the AIBU - AIBU that in 2025 we should not have to double check prices of the same things against men's products because they know we will pay more even though we earn less?

OP posts:
MCNAMARA · 04/11/2025 21:50

Hoodies

landlordhell · 04/11/2025 21:50

I tend to buy children’s T shirts from Next - age 15-16 is about a 10-12.

landlordhell · 04/11/2025 21:47

Razors are same price when I check. I have bought Just for Men beard dye for my eyebrows. Lasts ages.

isitmyturn · 04/11/2025 21:44

Lju · 04/11/2025 21:38

Honestly this is the bit that always baffled me. do we run cold? Or are our clothes just unfit for purpose? Based on the fact that my son's t-shirts, joggers and jumpers are usually way thicker than my daughter's I'd say so. I almost never shop in the girls section as who wants threadbare garments?!

I was reading The island of sea women about sea divers, where the women make better divers as they have better fat reserves and can stay in cold water longer without getting hypothermia...at which point I felt a little flag go up. I'm always cold, but apparently I have a body better suited to living in cold temperatures? Hmm. Calling shenanigans on you fashion industry!

Edited

I don't know how old you are but for me there was a massive change at menopause. Long after hot flushes have gone I run warmer in general.

Lju · 04/11/2025 21:38

somethingnewandexciting · 04/11/2025 20:11

Yes @Goldeh the quality is markedly different. You'd not think men ran hot and women cold if you had a sample of clothes made for each sex, would you?

Honestly this is the bit that always baffled me. do we run cold? Or are our clothes just unfit for purpose? Based on the fact that my son's t-shirts, joggers and jumpers are usually way thicker than my daughter's I'd say so. I almost never shop in the girls section as who wants threadbare garments?!

I was reading The island of sea women about sea divers, where the women make better divers as they have better fat reserves and can stay in cold water longer without getting hypothermia...at which point I felt a little flag go up. I'm always cold, but apparently I have a body better suited to living in cold temperatures? Hmm. Calling shenanigans on you fashion industry!

Cel77 · 04/11/2025 21:33

Socks.
Shower gel.

spinspinsugar55 · 04/11/2025 21:31

Razors - Gillette the best anyone can get at a fraction of the pink price! Closer shave, as they advertise for men’s chins, but great for my ankles….do we not deserve a closer shave?! 🪒

isitmyturn · 04/11/2025 21:30

Trainers and walking boots as I am size 8.
I've tried joggers and jeans but they're not the right shape, I'm very pear shaped and the hip to waist ratio is wrong on mens.
I've had some success with shorts though. The long walking shorts with zipped pockets. Men's are cheaper and longer, though can be snug on the hips.
Edited to add trainer socks. Mens socks are bigger in the same size and slightly higher on the ankle.

pandaskitchen · 04/11/2025 21:27

Same as a previous poster, but Men's running tops. Karrimore in particular- cover your bum, moisture wicking, last ages.

Men's cashmere sweaters from M&S, much better quality than the ladies. Longer body, keep their shape better. The arms are a bit longer, but I just pull them up.

Work bags/laptop bag's marketed for men. Much better made and constructed.

Razors, shaving foam etc I get whatever is cheapest. Men's or women's.

EBearhug · 04/11/2025 21:25

Razors.

Jumpers. I wanted a plain navy wool jumper. Struggled to find a woman's jumper in natural fibres, and those I did find were mixed with polyester or acrylic.

I am currently wearing a man's 100% lambswool jumper from M&S. (TK Maxx also had jumpers in wool and cashmere, to be fair.)

RunningNananananananananana · 04/11/2025 21:22

Auburngal · 04/11/2025 20:53

Men's socks. They are about an inch longer in length and thicker. Have a mix of men's and women's. I told my former colleagues in my supermarket working days this and they bought them up when a few lines got reduced.

I do have men's hoodies as 5ft 8. I just wish I could buy a ladies' pink, cornflower blue or purple which is decent in length. I'm a size 18

Gildan hoodies come in loads of colours if you're happy with plain. Fairly cheap too.

https://www.buytshirtsonline.co.uk/hoodies-c1/pull-over-hooded-tops-c76/gildan-softstyle-midweight-fleece-adult-hoodie-p12688

Silverfoxette · 04/11/2025 21:17

This thread is great, I do all these things too. I love the men’s jumpers and t shirts in primary

Mumofsoontobe3 · 04/11/2025 21:15

Men's razors and shaving foam. Men's socks for winter! DH laughs when I wear his socks but they're much thicker than any woman's socks and they keep my feet warm!

labamba18 · 04/11/2025 21:14

Dressing gowns! Don’t know why but men’s are always better - I always steal my husbands then just bought the same one as him

Newsenmum · 04/11/2025 21:11

Underwear 😳 It made me realise how uncomfortable woman’s underwear was. I know you can get women’s boxers and theyre not bad but I still prefer DH’s!

Love men’s socks - wider calf.

Obvious stuff like razors, face wash, shaving foam, face wash even.

FatalCattraction · 04/11/2025 21:09

totallyoutnumbered · 04/11/2025 20:39

Just for men on my lashes and brows. Saves a fortune and no trips to the salon

Absolutely this, lasts longer too, on brows and in terms of number of uses from a box of dye.

But not lashes though surely?? 🤔

Newsenmum · 04/11/2025 21:09

not men’s but get cotton pads from baby section not beauty

Runnersandtoms · 04/11/2025 21:08

houseofisms · 04/11/2025 20:12

Razors!! I just can’t get on with women’s ones with all the fancy guards and lotions etc

I use an old fashioned metal razor with replaceable blades. Works out loads cheaper. The box of blades will probably last the rest of my lifetime (partly cos I rarely shave in winter) and cost a few quid. I can't see any difference in use compared to disposable ones.

My dd, 17 is a quirky dresser, very small boobs and hips and not keen on anything low cut or tight. She likes to buy men's hawaiian shirts (size s is loose and comfy on her). Also wears men's or unisex tshirts as she doesn't like the shorter cap sleeves on a lot of women's ts.

Mostly men's clothing is no use to me as it's the wrong shape for me.

JillyJoy · 04/11/2025 21:07

Sainsbury's have warm men's PJs.
Aramis, for daytime wear.

FatalCattraction · 04/11/2025 21:06

Anyahyacinth · 04/11/2025 20:48

Razors as so many have said but also underpants mens pants are about 3 times the thickness of cotton and quality which I appreciate 🤷‍♀️

Where from please! Do they have a gusset?

FatalCattraction · 04/11/2025 21:04

Men’s socks, they come up mid calf, perfect for autumn / winter, why women’s are so short is beyond me.

I would like some nice cotton jersey boxers but men’s have a seam where it would irritate me and an opening!
Still searching ….

PickledOnionOverdose · 04/11/2025 21:03

ObsidianTree · 04/11/2025 20:52

Mens fleecey hoodies. Couldn't find a women's version that was not some thin crap hoodie. Apparently men can wear warm clothes but women have to have thin fashionable hoodies.

Primark have been good for this.

Auburngal · 04/11/2025 21:01

I also believe men's t-shirts are more pure cotton or a higher % cotton if mixed materials

canorcant · 04/11/2025 21:00

@Auburngal have you looked at Next? I have a lovely men’s purple hoodie from there, but a couple of years old now.

I like men’s outdoor clothes - I’m tall so walking trousers need to be extra long. They actually have decent pockets, and the waterproof jackets have arms that are long enough and the back isn’t up above my waist.

Also buy men’s shirts, razors, socks, gym and running gear, trainers and shoes - I’m a wide fit and large size, got some lovely men’s Ugg leather Chelsea boots in the sale. Sometimes boxers as I’m sick of my knicker’s gusset disappearing!

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