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Do you buy anything marketed to men that is just as good, or better than the "womens" version?

191 replies

somethingnewandexciting · 04/11/2025 20:00

We all know women pay more for everything, clothes, beauty, toiletries etc, the pink tax or whatever they call it (cba to look up references and stats, it's a thing).

On that, and because I am a bit more broke than usual this month, what do you feel you save on by buying that isn't the mainstream? I saved £20 on a pair of walking boots last week because I bought the men's ones - am a size 8 which can hard to get in women's shops anyway. I also get men's razors, shaving foam, jumpers and boxer shorts - so much more comfy!

What am I missing? Interested in multivits (currently get one that is designed for women but am wondering if its just the same stuff as men get, maybe with folate added?) and other clothes or better quality things that are made to last.

As for the AIBU - AIBU that in 2025 we should not have to double check prices of the same things against men's products because they know we will pay more even though we earn less?

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askmenow · 05/11/2025 03:50

carconcerns · 04/11/2025 23:08

I want some cosy joggers, recently bought 'long' from marks and Spencers and they were only just about long enough prior to being washed and dried and I'm not that tall! Any suggestions?

Mens teddy joggers from Sainsburys.... really cosy fleece, wash, 1600 spin and dry in an hour. Really long and pockets... Great for winter wear around the house.

FullOfMomsense · 05/11/2025 02:34

Deodorant and razors! I cannot stand wearing mens scents but the Deodorant is just so much better. I roll on at 5am and still smell fresh at 10pm after an intense day, even after workouts. Razors are smoother, easier to use and cleaner. Women's razors with the ridiculous plastic shaped heads just get in the way!

mathanxiety · 05/11/2025 01:43

Wool socks
Disposable razors
Anti perspirant-deodorant

spoonbillstretford · 05/11/2025 01:33

Plus men's clothing is often cut to allow you to have muscly arms and legs and cut to be a relaxed fit, not body-skimming. I'm hardly a body builder but have always done weights and am fairly solid of limb and I can actually get my legs in straight cut trousers.

spoonbillstretford · 05/11/2025 01:25

I get men's Nivea roll on if it's on special offer. Smells nice too.

I've had men's chinos from.M&S before - the women's in the same price at the time were all too short as they only came in 29" leg length, and were not as good quality cotton for the same price, plus they were all pastel shades and not navy blue nor black. With the men's I could buy them by waist measurement and inside leg. So they fitted better and were better quality.

Hiking gear - tend to get men's fleece and waterproofs as women's tend to be fashion rather than comfort cut and too tailored. I don't want darts and tailoring in a fleece.

MarxistMags · 05/11/2025 01:19

@somethingnewandexciting And jumpers and t-shirts tend to be longer which I need as I'm the same height as you. Also woolly socks, scarves, and jackets.

Fattitude · 05/11/2025 01:18

I like shave gel in squeezy soft bottles, much better than spray cans which always seem to rust on the bottom and get damp and manky round the nozzle bit. But the women's ones all seem to be cans so I buy men's in the squeezy bottles - I don't mind their butch names.

SuffraJET · 05/11/2025 01:06

Joystir59 · 04/11/2025 23:34

Men's knitwear. Womens jumpers and cardigans are so poor in quality

Yup ..ive got a couple of merino /cashmere jumpers winging their way to me from vinted.

Refreshing0 · 05/11/2025 00:28

Jumpers and t-shirts i find them better than womens ones more slack and comfy.

Springisintheairohyeah · 04/11/2025 23:57

Razors and joggers for slouching around in - womens ones always seem to be cut to fit too tight around the thighs and cheap thin material - mens are slouchier, thicker fabric and better pockets!

somethingnewandexciting · 04/11/2025 23:46

I like the tabac scent and have a Miller Harris one that has lasted ages that I use in winter.

I have just seen a set on Amazon with tabac deodorant, aftershave and shower gel for £23 that I am tempted by.

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Fgfgfg · 04/11/2025 23:44

@DoAWheelie and @rabbitwoman
You've just reminded me that I'm wearing men's glasses.

JudgeJ · 04/11/2025 23:39

somethingnewandexciting · 04/11/2025 20:07

Oh yes, I'm 5ft 9 so love men's jumpers and joggers - they do seem to be better quality and last longer too!

Which deodorants would you suggest, being more fruity and less woody? That's something I haven't thought of!

Men's jumpers tend to be longer than women's jumpers so I often buy them or I wear my late husband's unworn birthday gifts. As I don't like flowery scents, used to love Sandalwood from Body Shop as an everyday cheapy, I like some aftershaves, Obsession is my current favourite, nothing like the scent. Having broad feet I like men's socks as they come further over my ankles.

2Rebecca · 04/11/2025 23:37

I use men’s razor and male trainers as I have wide feet. In some shops I prefer men’s Tshirts too

Tisfortired · 04/11/2025 23:35

My mum has always used men’s shaving balm as make up primer.

Joystir59 · 04/11/2025 23:34

Men's knitwear. Womens jumpers and cardigans are so poor in quality

EBearhug · 04/11/2025 23:21

Ohnobackagain · 04/11/2025 23:17

Interestingly (well a bit dull really) the back of the shoe can be different as the achilles tendon starts lower or higher depending on whether a man’s or woman’s shoe/trainer and this can be more problematic as it can irritate the bit just above your heel as a result.

But a lot of women's sports shoes have just taken the men's designs and made them smaller. It's only in the last few years they've started to look at women-specific designs, and a lot of them will still be the small versions of men's shoes.

somethingnewandexciting · 04/11/2025 23:19

Ohnobackagain · 04/11/2025 23:17

Interestingly (well a bit dull really) the back of the shoe can be different as the achilles tendon starts lower or higher depending on whether a man’s or woman’s shoe/trainer and this can be more problematic as it can irritate the bit just above your heel as a result.

Something to look out for! I've got a pair of mens boots and 2 pairs of trainers and so far, no issues, thankfully.

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Ohnobackagain · 04/11/2025 23:17

somethingnewandexciting · 04/11/2025 20:09

Ah, I am lucky I guess as have quite wide feet and prefer a square toed shoe usually anyway!

Interestingly (well a bit dull really) the back of the shoe can be different as the achilles tendon starts lower or higher depending on whether a man’s or woman’s shoe/trainer and this can be more problematic as it can irritate the bit just above your heel as a result.

carconcerns · 04/11/2025 23:08

Ineedanewsofa · 04/11/2025 20:04

I’m a shade under 6ft so have always bought men’s joggers but they do tend to be better quality than women’s (as well as longer!)
Men’s deodorant tends to be cheaper as well

I want some cosy joggers, recently bought 'long' from marks and Spencers and they were only just about long enough prior to being washed and dried and I'm not that tall! Any suggestions?

Sparrow7 · 04/11/2025 23:03

Jeans, the pockets are huge!

Blueuggboots · 04/11/2025 23:01

@Randomlygeneratedname- try no pong.recommended on here, very pleased with it.

Blueuggboots · 04/11/2025 23:00

Razors!!

Randomlygeneratedname · 04/11/2025 22:55

SeaofStars · 04/11/2025 22:47

Men’s unscented deodorant. Its much stronger. Men socks are much thicker but tend to be wider .

Edited

Ooh will have to check this out! I am on my feet for 14 hours a day and I really could do with a better deodorant. I feel like I am constantly reapplying l!

SeaofStars · 04/11/2025 22:50

The frames on men’s glasses are much thicker and stronger than women’s

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