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Do you buy anything marketed to men that is just as good, or better than the "womens" version?

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somethingnewandexciting · 04/11/2025 20:00

We all know women pay more for everything, clothes, beauty, toiletries etc, the pink tax or whatever they call it (cba to look up references and stats, it's a thing).

On that, and because I am a bit more broke than usual this month, what do you feel you save on by buying that isn't the mainstream? I saved £20 on a pair of walking boots last week because I bought the men's ones - am a size 8 which can hard to get in women's shops anyway. I also get men's razors, shaving foam, jumpers and boxer shorts - so much more comfy!

What am I missing? Interested in multivits (currently get one that is designed for women but am wondering if its just the same stuff as men get, maybe with folate added?) and other clothes or better quality things that are made to last.

As for the AIBU - AIBU that in 2025 we should not have to double check prices of the same things against men's products because they know we will pay more even though we earn less?

OP posts:
DeanElderberry · 05/11/2025 17:25

Socks, Pyjamas (Dunnes https://www.dunnesstores.com/men/clothing/pyjamas?page=2 )

Catinabeanbag · 05/11/2025 16:43

Pajamas
Socks (mens thermal ones are way better than womens and actually come up your leg)
Jumpers - if I can get them small enough, they're always warmer.
Dressing gown - again, warmer.
T shirts - always seem to be slightly thicker cotton and better quality (and M&S womens never fit quite right!)
Walking trousers, waterproof coat.

Auburngal · 05/11/2025 16:13

somethingnewandexciting · 05/11/2025 15:53

I have to say although I have seen a slight improvement on this, a few more dresses on the market with pockets and leggings for eg, I can't believe this is still an issue so many years after it was first highlighted (was it about 2010 there was a huge hooha about it?). Why do our jeans' pockets not fit mobile phones? Why are women's jeans usually made out of a % elastine rather than proper thick denim? Grrr!

Why do women’s tops have elastane in them? It shows off our lumps n bumps more

somethingnewandexciting · 05/11/2025 15:53

Auburngal · 05/11/2025 15:09

Bloody disgraceful that women’s clothes have a lack of pockets. We don’t need to take our bags out for a walk!

I have to say although I have seen a slight improvement on this, a few more dresses on the market with pockets and leggings for eg, I can't believe this is still an issue so many years after it was first highlighted (was it about 2010 there was a huge hooha about it?). Why do our jeans' pockets not fit mobile phones? Why are women's jeans usually made out of a % elastine rather than proper thick denim? Grrr!

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Auburngal · 05/11/2025 15:09

Bloody disgraceful that women’s clothes have a lack of pockets. We don’t need to take our bags out for a walk!

HorrorAndHaagenDazs · 05/11/2025 13:25

Mens everything apart from jeans / underwear.
Better made, better smelling, and cheaper.

Edit - Im 5'9 with mens size 8/9 feet anyway.

LadeOde · 05/11/2025 12:40

isitmyturn · 05/11/2025 12:28

Reading this thread another menopausal change that stands out is shaving. I'm agog at the amount of shaving going on. Since menopause I might shave my legs twice a year and I have no underarm hair.

I've remembered another thing I buy, men's walking trousers - the sort that dry fast with lots of zip pockets. I also have lots of DS1s cast off gym clothing.

I have DS walking trousers from when he went on his last school trip. Nicely lined and very warm with lots of zip pockets! i really enjoy them. Been wearing them now going on about 4yrs.

Connected1 · 05/11/2025 12:34

Men's bicycle - they are much stronger and sturdier than women's bikes. This was confirmed to me by a worker in a bike shop

isitmyturn · 05/11/2025 12:28

Lju · 04/11/2025 22:01

am not there yet, but hey there's a silver lining to it I'd not previously considered!

Reading someone elses comments I see now about the divers that it was that women have more subcutaneous body fat than men, so maybe that helps when diving in cold water but not just for existing in a poorly insulated house!

Reading this thread another menopausal change that stands out is shaving. I'm agog at the amount of shaving going on. Since menopause I might shave my legs twice a year and I have no underarm hair.

I've remembered another thing I buy, men's walking trousers - the sort that dry fast with lots of zip pockets. I also have lots of DS1s cast off gym clothing.

AgentPidge · 05/11/2025 10:59

DuchessofStaffordshire · 05/11/2025 07:03

Are you looking at the vapor gloves? I found the soles wore out disappointingly quickly, particularly on concrete, so i only wear mine in the gym now. My husband's trail gloves have worn out quickly too. The rubber they've used in the vibram soles just ain't that durable.

Yes, the Vapor Gloves in the pale grey/blue. They don't seem to do it the women's any more. But I've been wearing them ( different pairs/colours) for about 15 years and had no problems. I like the Vibram sole. I wear them day in day out. The grey pair I've got now are a couple of years old and still in really good condition but my feet have spread!

AgentPidge · 05/11/2025 09:52

Agapornis · 04/11/2025 22:25

I switched to a good old-fashioned doubled edged safety razor a few years ago. It shaves much more neatly and the blade is super cheap to replace - around 3-6p each depending on where you buy. No cartridge or plastic razor will ever compare again.

Men's tight boxers for the wide elastic and general comfort. Do check the crotch gusset though, sometimes there's a seam in the middle where you really don't want one.

Edited

Me too ( safety razor). Blades are a standard size and I bought a pack from the Turkish barbers in town really cheaply . It feels good not to be using plastic disposables and does a way better job.

INeedAnotherName · 05/11/2025 09:39

Interested in multivits (currently get one that is designed for women but am wondering if its just the same stuff as men get, maybe with folate added?)
No, do not touch anything "medically" designed for men as they really do have genetically different needs/requirements to women. It's not about adding different things but about different amounts.

I prefer mens razors (Bic), socks, t-shirt, fleeces, trainers, slippers and coats. Not tried their deodorant yet...

Vates · 05/11/2025 09:01

I am 5' 9 with size 8 feet so prefer men's clothing. It actually fits the length of my body, arms and legs. Men's pajamas are so much more comfortable than the women's ones I have had.

MarmiteyCrumpets · 05/11/2025 08:13

I have clothes from all departments in my wardrobe! If it fits, is well made, has enough freaking pockets (!) and I like it, I don't care whether it's marketed for men, women, boys or girls.

dointhebestwecan · 05/11/2025 08:12

Socks and pyjamas

UnaOfStormhold · 05/11/2025 08:12

SoSoLong · 04/11/2025 20:34

Not really, but I'm only 5'4 and wear size 4 shoes. I buy some kids stuff though and I've got a lot of hand me downs from my son, who has long outgrown me - I've got enough sports gear, joggers and jackets of his to last me for years.

I'm relieved I'm not the only one getting hand me downs from their children - my son's 11 and not quite tall enough for his old clothes to fit me, but his feet are bigger than mine so I have lots of his old socks and was very happy to borrow his sliders on holiday. And I am thinking carefully about what clothes I get for him now to maximise their second life potential!

Ineedanewsofa · 05/11/2025 08:10

@carconcerns generally cheap grey ones from ASOS 🤣

Lastfroginthebox · 05/11/2025 07:08

I've had men's shorts for walking. They were longer, had plenty of pockets and were hard wearing. Women's ones tend to be too skimpy with useless pockets (or worse - those 'pretend' ones.)

PersephoneParlormaid · 05/11/2025 07:07

I bought men’s ASICS trainers as they were so much cheaper, but I do find that my foot slides forward, so had to buy an insole. Although women’s are narrower I will go back to them, as they actually hold my foot better.
I now always buy men’s socks, much better quality.
Just for men to dye my eyebrows.

DuchessofStaffordshire · 05/11/2025 07:03

AgentPidge · 04/11/2025 20:53

I can't get the shoes I want in women's (Merrell barefoot trainers) so I was wondering about getting them in the men's. This thread has given me hope! They look the same but I imagine they'll just be a bit wider.

Are you looking at the vapor gloves? I found the soles wore out disappointingly quickly, particularly on concrete, so i only wear mine in the gym now. My husband's trail gloves have worn out quickly too. The rubber they've used in the vibram soles just ain't that durable.

Auburngal · 05/11/2025 07:03

Men’s shorts. Need be elasticated waist as button/flies doesn’t fit well.

The men’s short shorts go on the knee. Women’s are too short for me and ride up

landlordhell · 05/11/2025 07:01

JudgeJ · 04/11/2025 23:39

Men's jumpers tend to be longer than women's jumpers so I often buy them or I wear my late husband's unworn birthday gifts. As I don't like flowery scents, used to love Sandalwood from Body Shop as an everyday cheapy, I like some aftershaves, Obsession is my current favourite, nothing like the scent. Having broad feet I like men's socks as they come further over my ankles.

M&S do a nice sandalwood perfume. It’s £16 for two bottles( one travel sized) and it’s so good.

Devilsmommy · 05/11/2025 06:59

Pyjamas. I'm not even that tall at 5'7 but women's ones are always ankle swingers. Mens pjs are better. And yes to the joggers/sweats. Mens are way better quality for some reason

2cubesoficeandasliceoflime · 05/11/2025 06:49

My tall daughter lives in clothes from the men's section. She's tall and likes practical stuff and complains about all lack of real pockets in women's clothing.

She also prefers men's deodorants because they tend to gave more neutral scents.

2cubesoficeandasliceoflime · 05/11/2025 06:46

I use "men's" shaving stuff. I use a safety razor and traditional soap and brush. There is a brand of shaving soap that charges £11 for standard shaving soap and then £13 for what seems to be exactly the same product in different packaging "for girls". Ive let the side down somewhat though and bought a razor handle based on the colour (which was in the women's section- sorry!). At least they havent tried to repackaged the blades based on gender.

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