Let’s face it I probably am being unreasonable here, but interested to hear other opinions.
Of course everyone’s feelings are valid and all of that jazz…
Maybe it’s because we had losses before having my DS and now potentially have another long road to having another child which is why it makes me uncomfortable.
I just feel a bit uncomfortable inside when I see people posting on TikTok Facebook or even on here about their gender disappointments with their fourth, fifth sixth or even seventh child.
Even when I was going through losses, one of my friends told me she understands how hard grieving is because it took her seven months to conceive her fourth child as her others were first month tries.
My heart goes out to anyone that experiences infertility or loss whether that’s your first child or eighth. But for some reason, gender disappointment or complaining about it taking a bit longer to get pregnant this time round. Just bugs me.
Before anyone says it, of course, it’s probably the same as me having one child and someone really wanting one and not being able to have one. I know I’m also so blessed.